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Easier to just join the gang at Westminster.
Fcking up a relationship at 19 by getting too needy and not being 'cool' enough (to be fair, he might have dumped me anyway), all my memories of first love now are tainted, I still think about it and it's nearly 20 years later.
Yep, I've matured massively as a person and done so much since then, I'm barely even like the person I was at 19, AND YET i still think of this relationship a few times a week (not always for long, but it pops into my head), I wish we had been able to stay friends
I still have thoughts about these things that happened years ago
Excellent news, well done.Ooh... Update on mine. I fell into a job in January and it turned out to be my dream job
Guess it was a temporary regret
My biggest regret was falling in love with a toxic pig of a man, who over the course of 3 years, alienated me from my family and friends, took me to and from work so I couldn’t talk to anyone else, threatened to smack some man who smiled at me in the street, called me ugly and held my head under the tap if I wore makeup - the list of abuse is endless. I wasn’t even very young, 26 when I met him. I finally got the courage to tell my manager what was happening (he worked at the same company in a different department) and she offered me immediate physical assistance, for which I will ALWAYS be grateful.
Probably turning to drink and drugs socially in my teens thinking it was the cool thing to do. My sister died when I was 16 so I just buried my head in the sand. I feel that recreational drugs and heavy binge drinking was all fun at the time but it definitely has caused me nothing but mental health problems as I have gotten older.
Another regret would be staying with ex partners that were toxic and letting them destroy me mentally so that I suffered from serious trust issues and lack of confidence.
But I suppose every path I went down has brought me to were I am and I am now.
Another regret would be staying with ex partners that were toxic and letting them destroy me mentally so that I suffered from serious trust issues and lack of confidence.
But I suppose every path I went down has brought me to were I am and I am now.
Not getting a better education. It’s partly my parents fault for sending me to a rubbish school when they could of afforded to pay for a private education. I’m in my 40s now and restricted jobwise because even a lot of basic office jobs ask for a degree qualification, but my age also goes against me now as well.
Wasting 7 years of my life with a horrible guy. He made me so miserable but just couldn't see it. I never felt so happy and relieved when we broke up and I wish I broke up with him sooner and not waste all those years on him. I'm single now and at my happiest.
Loving and respecting certain of my siblings so much. Turns out they were horrible people, from whom I am now estranged.
That's really sad, when you have been let down by someone in your family.
Afew weeks ago in the nice weather. I spent the whole afternoon in a pub beer garden, sank several drinks, went home drank afew more, then for some unknown reason. I stupidly drove to the shop about a mile away and back.
I remember getting in the car thinking I was fine at the time. Truthfully, I was hammered.
I woke up the next day feeling like absolute shite. I didn’t hurt anyone & drove there and back without incident but I could have easily killed someone…. If I got pulled it would have been an instant ban, I’d have lost my job. I have two kids, what would I have done? I regretted it ever since, I’ve never done it before and never will again. I learnt a lesson that night and I’ll never forgive myself.
I remember getting in the car thinking I was fine at the time. Truthfully, I was hammered.
I woke up the next day feeling like absolute shite. I didn’t hurt anyone & drove there and back without incident but I could have easily killed someone…. If I got pulled it would have been an instant ban, I’d have lost my job. I have two kids, what would I have done? I regretted it ever since, I’ve never done it before and never will again. I learnt a lesson that night and I’ll never forgive myself.