Big C, it’s all about me, me, me

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I didn't mean you did, just that was a big thing that people had issues with at the time
 
Nobody is denying she's had cancer.
But it doesn't give someone a free pass to skip over things.
176k raised, new car literally days after, excessive spending from suites away, food out, in the middle of a pandemic.
She didn't disclose she'd keep the money for casual spending.
And we can't forget the sympathy donations given, straight after the babygrowgate
 
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I didn't mean you did, just that was a big thing that people had issues with at the time
It was really what started the eye brow raising. I think because it was soooo quick and came with a big fan fare.

I'm all for someone having a good car when they travel for treatment and it wasn't a brand new car. I agree it wasn't something to be so outraged about.

In general it's turned me off from giving donations in future where there isn't a specific reason. This general 'living expenses' is very loose.
 
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For someone who a cold could " kill " she sure was out non stop before lockdown ...
 
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For someone who a cold could " kill " she sure was out non stop before lockdown ...
She was out in the pub a week before level 5 came in. We were in level 2/3 when we were only allowed meet 1 other household. But she met several friends for several pints, and food, substantial meal, that week.
 
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She was away nearly every weekend aswell and then saying we cant book anything. Also shannen you said for people to DM and you would happily reply, well when you asked for advice with regard james hospital I sent you a very detailed message of where to stay and parking fees for cancer patients and it was all ignored , my husband was going through chemo there at the same time but it was all for show cos I dm her a few times and she never replied
 
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She was out in the pub a week before level 5 came in. We were in level 2/3 when we were only allowed meet 1 other household. But she met several friends for several pints, and food, substantial meal, that week.
Coffee dates , family visits and mams tiles ...
Im noticing some defense since her Q&A earlier ...
 
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Yes, I also dm'd her as regards to recipes she wanted for smoothies etc. I gave her links to someone I follow in a similar situation, into smoothies etc. She couldn't be arsed.
Her q&as and queries for x or y are for engagement, nothing more.
 
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She donated a thousand euro once she got the go fund me money though. How is it wrong for her to set up a go fund me but ok for her cousin to set up one? I don’t agree with some of the shit she’s done either but let’s be fair here.
It's not the go fund me itself of course they needed some help as facing what they were money worries was the last thing they needed. 50 grand would have seen them very comfortable for money for the year and not have to worry.

But to still share it and promote it after it hit 100 grand is just incredible. They didn't need 170 grand. That's my issue with it. No one ever said oh and the remaining money will be put to X Y or Z if not needed during treatment.

If you have €200 to flog on a ring you clearly don’t need a go fund me
I don't think for one second she paid for it. It was definitely gifted.
 
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Ah girls I think you are being far to harsh, she got a bloody ring! They all probably cost under € 200 together and also how do you know she used the gofundme money for it?
200 for diamond ?? Not s chance. Single band diamond in leaves 2000. .

Nothing wrong with buying a diamond ring but if it comes from the generosity of poeple less well off I think its not fair .

Someone who is doing chemo and no financial support could use that 200. That's the issue.

Don't beg for money take it and buy material things
 
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Has she mentioned the go fund me lately? I flick on as can’t be bothered listening but it would be nice for her to address it to be grateful all the time or say oh I’m lucky to have this money that Barry can give up work to help look after me blah blah blah etc
 
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Has never mentioned it since the time she addressed it around the time of the car purchase as far as I know.
She's reading here now and apparently has said on her story tonight that anyone who DMs her about spending the go fund me will be told where it's being sent and her future plans for it...
And she thinks buying rings is a trivial thing.
Shannen, your partner is unemployed, and living off money kindly donated (€€€176k.) by people who could have done with the money themselves but wouldn't see you stuck. No shame.
And for the record Shannen, it's the flaunting the restrictions over the last few months that have upset people as much as a go fund me. You didn't address why you were out and about, wining and dining and socialising with numerous households when we were told not to. We stopped socialising to help you not get sick, but then off you go and do what we've been told not to?
 
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Saying Barry had to give up with over covid but she’s not exactly isolating!!!
But sure she had “these sites” blocked
 
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If you look on the page she got the rings from they cost €55 each so that’s € 165 for all 3 rings! Just because it looks good when it’s first bought doesn’t mean it’s a real diamond ring!
 
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Saying Barry had to give up with over covid but she’s not exactly isolating!!!
But sure she had “these sites” blocked
Its a luxury that most oncology families can't do.
But it's definitely safer for him to be off when she has the transplant.

She has been through a lot at such a young age. But again I'm going to repeat something I've said before that doesn't give you a free ride to no criticism. I stand over the fact that it was greedy to continue the go fund me once it exploded to the level it did. She never acknowledged that it was too much. She made comments about treatment options abroad in the future if needed.

She isn't the only person over the last year my eyes have been open to go fund me accounts.
From now on unless I personally know the person I won't be donating to them anymore.

In the past I have given to so many and my issue is the lack of accountability on where the funding goes.

No other charity could raise such an amount without a follow up on where it went.
 
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Rosie Connelly had a “cancer scare” and then sat back and watched her following go through the roof. Then she announced her new business which will be huge success thanks to the sympathy vote. Shannen did exactly the same with the baby grows. They have no shame and no moral compass whatsoever. If Shannen keeps that money she’ll have no luck for it. How she sleeps at night when there are folk with cancer worried sick about money is beyond me. She’s an absolute disgrace and so is her leech of a partner, what a bone idle excuse for a man
 
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She is raging there's a thread on her . Maybe people were screenshotting to her but I think this is the head in the phone situation . She does a lot of dodgy stuff outside that go fund me. She's another one trying to become an instahun eventually.

He can't even cut the grass or go grocery shopping for her
 
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