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Big C and Me #5 No more Big C but it's still all me! And my huge GoFundMe
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I don’t follow her I wouldn’t give her the satisfaction of blocking me. I had a transplant I was plucked from my life as it was a sudden onset of a blood cancer. My children were under 7 I didn’t get to pack or organise anything straight to St James where I stayed for 6 months. I took the free apartment I couldn’t afford anything else. Did I suffer anxiety absolutely petrified all the time crying all the time. There are only 2 pictures of me for that whole period of time 1 the day of my transplant and the 2nd is the day I was left out to see my children. I certainly couldn’t deal with social media or people for that matter. I couldn’t switch the fear off, every time I looked at my children the fear was like a wave that washed over me. I spent every waking moment when I got home organising the what ifs putting plans in place. I could not switch this anxiety off. Anxiety is not a Dolly Parton song and only comes along 9 to 5.
I can actually tell you how much my cancer cost me . As I didn’t recover so well from transplant and for me the cure was worst than the disease my total cost for 2.5 years of 3 visits per week was just under 28,000 . These costs were transport, hotels, babysitters and food. I always covered the cost in full for whatever generous person gave up their time to travel with me. We took 2 bank loans and 3 credit cards it took 7 years to pay off but we did on our own. I was lucky my husband had a good job and was in a position to borrow.
I realise every single day how lucky I am to be alive yes the treatment left me with many chronic conditions but I’ve seen awful loss on this journey. You meet the most amazing people during clinic visits and for some the prognosis is not good that is why as a fellow cancer patient if somebody spoke to me the way Shannen spoke to @Missymeister
I would be devastated beyond belief.
@Missymeister I wish you every joy and happiness that you can have. I wish this awful thing didn’t happen but you are a warrior. And Shannen I also wish you well and hope you find peace and humility and that your last thought every night should be how lucky am I to have made it this far and then think about those you’ve met and lost on this horrific journey.
I can actually tell you how much my cancer cost me . As I didn’t recover so well from transplant and for me the cure was worst than the disease my total cost for 2.5 years of 3 visits per week was just under 28,000 . These costs were transport, hotels, babysitters and food. I always covered the cost in full for whatever generous person gave up their time to travel with me. We took 2 bank loans and 3 credit cards it took 7 years to pay off but we did on our own. I was lucky my husband had a good job and was in a position to borrow.
I realise every single day how lucky I am to be alive yes the treatment left me with many chronic conditions but I’ve seen awful loss on this journey. You meet the most amazing people during clinic visits and for some the prognosis is not good that is why as a fellow cancer patient if somebody spoke to me the way Shannen spoke to @Missymeister
I would be devastated beyond belief.
@Missymeister I wish you every joy and happiness that you can have. I wish this awful thing didn’t happen but you are a warrior. And Shannen I also wish you well and hope you find peace and humility and that your last thought every night should be how lucky am I to have made it this far and then think about those you’ve met and lost on this horrific journey.
I don’t buy the anxiety and nothing will convince me otherwise. When you can have fun, eat dinners, get your hair done, do fun activities, have holidays etc perfectly fine but looking after your kids, doing your job or simply being an adult has you bed ridden with anxiety I call bull tit. Your not anxious your just a lazy piece of tit who wants a get out of jail card for anything that doesn’t allow you he self absorbed
Shannen never had anxiety until she had her pic line out and was given the all clear.
Never a word about any ailment until the cancer card had drawn a clear.
Yes, anxiety can hit at any stage.
But when you're hit with anxiety, like she says, after a long weekend of socialising, but you're able to promote buys, and go for personal treatments, not reiki, not yoga, but nails, teeth, eyelashes, hair etc? Seriously? No anxiety for weekends away and lunches and dinners out.
This isn't a once off, this is a pattern. Anxiety doesn't have a pattern. Anxiety isn't a day time ailment. Anxiety isn't a 9 to 5. Anxiety destroys.
Shannen can continue with all the above.
Never once has she had to cancel plans.
Never once has she stopped posting online.
Not once has she been quiet online, instead posts pictures of herself in bed in the middle of anxiety... seriously...this isn't real.
She's a scammer.
Never a word about any ailment until the cancer card had drawn a clear.
Yes, anxiety can hit at any stage.
But when you're hit with anxiety, like she says, after a long weekend of socialising, but you're able to promote buys, and go for personal treatments, not reiki, not yoga, but nails, teeth, eyelashes, hair etc? Seriously? No anxiety for weekends away and lunches and dinners out.
This isn't a once off, this is a pattern. Anxiety doesn't have a pattern. Anxiety isn't a day time ailment. Anxiety isn't a 9 to 5. Anxiety destroys.
Shannen can continue with all the above.
Never once has she had to cancel plans.
Never once has she stopped posting online.
Not once has she been quiet online, instead posts pictures of herself in bed in the middle of anxiety... seriously...this isn't real.
She's a scammer.
Yep, anyone with true anxiety would be stepping away from social media until they are in the right frame of mind......Shannen comes on to advise other anxiety sufferers on how to cure their anxiety.....
@Ahsurelookit so well said@Addd this is my 2nd time being diagnosed with cancer……I fought it 7 years ago……my marriage broke down…I couldn’t work and I had to sell my home as I couldn’t pay my half of the mortgage every month and I was raising a son who was born with a very serious congenital heart condition and who has had countless surgeries between Birmingham and Crumlin and after fighting cancer the 1st time I was so emotionally destroyed as a result of that and my marriage ending I turned to alcohol and self medicated. Then just when I was a year sober and getting back on my feet I get diagnosed with terminal cancer. My point is………I would never, even in one of my lowest days send vile messages to someone like Shannen did and she also slandered me to Tea Spill……there is NO excuse for her behaviour and then she conveniently gets ‘health’ anxiety when she’s called out?? Come on now………she is a very nasty woman. And as I said to her in one if my replies she is a disgrace to everyone who has and are battling cancer with grace and dignity………and not using it to make money
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As I said originally I was not defending her by any means but throwing out an alternative perspective as to why she maybe would say such vile things, however the replies following on from my first message i am probably was off the mark.
@Addd this is my 2nd time being diagnosed with cancer……I fought it 7 years ago……my marriage broke down…I couldn’t work and I had to sell my home as I couldn’t pay my half of the mortgage every month and I was raising a son who was born with a very serious congenital heart condition and who has had countless surgeries between Birmingham and Crumlin and after fighting cancer the 1st time I was so emotionally destroyed as a result of that and my marriage ending I turned to alcohol and self medicated. Then just when I was a year sober and getting back on my feet I get diagnosed with terminal cancer. My point is………I would never, even in one of my lowest days send vile messages to someone like Shannen did and she also slandered me to Tea Spill……there is NO excuse for her behaviour and then she conveniently gets ‘health’ anxiety when she’s called out?? Come on now………she is a very nasty woman. And as I said to her in one if my replies she is a disgrace to everyone who has and are battling cancer with grace and dignity………and not using it to make money
But I absolutely don’t condone what was said to you in any shape or form - and never did.
Sorry for all that you have been through
@Addd thank youAs I said originally I was not defending her by any means but throwing out an alternative perspective as to why she maybe would such vile things, however the replies following on from my first message i am probably was off the mark.
But I absolutely don’t condone what was said to you in any shape or form - and never did.
Sorry for all that you have been through
Not an ounce of the anxiety today slurping on her "Kylie".
Probably used the GFM to buy it too.
Probably used the GFM to buy it too.
Shannen is very quiet the last few days … guilty conscience or damage limitation!
Selective anxiety
I see the tea spill page is referencing her today as the "late to the party" one. People aren't going to forget that easy, it's disgusting.
If her anxiety was so bad she'd be on medication and not drinking alcohol. She'd also be told by anyone in the miledical profession that alcohol and anxiety shouldn't be mixed. Pure proof the anxiety isn't there at all.
Well suited, both are manky, both are liars.That’s Twins and me house
My ears are burning
I’d say when they both get enough Kylie into their big gobs the events of the past week and my messages will be a hot topic!!
Can someone put up a screenshot of tea spills story? Thanks 
What a squad she’s out with tonight
#badsquad
#badsquad
Thanks @butterfliesandrainbows
Wonder who the one with the tone deaf caption was.. they were all soooo bad that week
Wonder who the one with the tone deaf caption was.. they were all soooo bad that week
Wonder if it FBG’s comment about running?
Or Lisa lust walking through the town of Tullamore full of the joys of life saying what a beautiful day it was while poor Ashlings body was being removed from the scene
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