Betterlifeforme8

[I'm not Putin]

I'm following her quite closely. I caught a bit of her live and she was much more personable than in some of her videos.

I agree with her that it's damaging to take 10 year olds to Weight Watchers.

Oh no i agree with that too unless a doctor tells a child they have health problems due to weight and need to loose it thats different to your mum thinking your a bit chubby and need to loose it

Its the attitude she has that makes me dislike her very much i know best and when someone gives advice they are dismissed as a troll or ‘you know not as much as me ‘

I honestly do not get how shes full up on what shes eating part of me is not buying her what i eat in a days surley you would be starving over such little food ?

 

[JustWonderingIf]

I think she said she is 1-2 stone heavier than when she last went, when she claims she fit in the seat etc. So she's wants to get down to that weight quickly so she knows can fly ok.

People in the chat were scaring her by saying they've seen others removed from flights as they have been obstructing the aisle.. you could see the panic in her face.

Regardless of her fitting in seats or not, i don't think she is a fit state to fly long haul anyway. Her weight will put her at crazy high risk of dvt.
She doesn't live in the real world, imagine being her weight and the main motivation to lose weight is disney world rather than her health or to save her life

 

[CoffeeMamma]

I agree she needs therapy absolutely. I'm sure she has already said she gets telephone therapy from the NHS.
The problem is therapy will never work if the client has resistance to it.
Michelle will have ALOT of resistance. She can't stand opinions different to her own, claims she's healthy yet can't walk and keeps getting cellutitis. She says she doesn't even have disordered eating and eats healthily and normally.
If a therapist challenges these delusions it is not going to instantly flick a switch in michelle, she will argue back, make excuses and resist.

A good therapist will take time to get to the root of a clients resistance. This can take a very long time.

I don't think Michelle has the luxury of time. She's in her mid forties, over 37 stone and can't walk because of it.
She regularly gets infections and celluitis. If she gets sepsis its game over.
I think at this point the bariatric intervention is more important than therapy as she time isn't on her side as much as she claims she is physically healthy.

Can they even do an operation on someone that unhealthy?

 

[JustWonderingIf]

Ohh sounds like i missed such an exciting live shes probarly gone private because of the thread here i dont feel anyone has said anything here that is really bad compared some threads where people are really brutal

She was complaining that she wasn't getting more viewers as because she's private its not coming up on peoples fyp.

 

[I'm not Putin]

Has anyone else seen her lives lately? She looks like she's put quite a bit of weight back on

Shes trying to say shes only gained 5 and still 32lbs down but i dunno sounds fishy to me

 

[CoffeeMamma]

Wait until someone tells her you have to reinstate all the FODMAP foods…

 

[JustWonderingIf]

She sometimes talks about someone called Ginny who used to be a follower/moderator but left on bad terms around the 1500 kcal announcement. Anyone got the tea?

Ginny expressed concern that 1500 calories was too low for Michelle.
Michelle is a dieting expert remember and knows everything so dismissed Ginnys concern as 'lack of support' and trolling.
Thats one of things if I don't get about Michelle, is that she puts it all on the internet but can't handle any differing opinions or constructive criticism.
Not everyone is going to tell her what she wants to hear like her husband.

 

[rosslee1987]

Not weighing in this week because she had a huge binge. Not her fault though, its because she was due on her period

I swear she had her period last week and that was why she gained?

 

[JustWonderingIf]

I don't get the stand on one leg thing she keeps doing at the mo.
Is she trying to say 'look how healthy and mobile I am'?

 

[I'm not Putin]

Why is she discussing a meet up ? Is she serious

 

[JustWonderingIf]

Stayed in her bedroom once again all day today. She is going to end up bed bound.

 

[CoffeeMamma]

Sorry to say but it doesn't sound like these specialists are helping very much if she's losing 2lbs a week at her size. I know that's a healthy rate of loss for moderately overweight people but she is essentially a medical emergency and needs to get a significant amount of weight off quickly.
Don't really care if she's read this. Maybe it has given her something to think about.

This is the current nutritional specialist long term advice, regardless of size. Small, consistent weight loss to prevent early plateau, additional restrictions, and ultimately guard against failure.

 

[JustWonderingIf]

I’m not trying to be cruel but this woman needs an intervention. I know how hard it is to lose weight and how easy it could have been for her to get to that point without truly realising especially if yo-yo dieting. But she needs to stop focusing on holidays and cruises and focus on her health for a year. She could drop some serious weight (I don’t know if she has medical issues which are stopping her) in a short time but she doesn’t seem very focused. I do feel sorry for her in a way as she probably feels so trapped in her own body and no one intentionally becomes 37 stone, but she needs serious help from friends and family and those that are enabling her behaviours online

She doesn't ultimately want to do anything but eat, sit her room with her husband washing her and bring her food, while she buys more and more crystals and journals.

She's always manifesting and talking about the how the crystals change your life or mood.
She can do that all she wants but nothings going to happen if she doesn't do something herself.

 

[I'm not Putin]

her new video shes not happy

 

[Babybail93]

Nikachu are you on here?! You protest too much hun!

Gutted I missed the live! Was she still struggling to breathe, whilst sitting down and not exerting herself? Yet she’s totally healthy!

 

[JustWonderingIf]

has she stopped doing her lives all together now ? i never see her live anymore

I think putting some videos back up will be the start of her coming back to posting and lives.
If she has gained weight in her break it'll be all our fault for posting about her on here

 

[JustWonderingIf]

I don’t know what she has so against weight loss surgery. If I was 30 odd stone I would be getting it, it will make her lose weight quicker than anything else and massively improve her quality of life. She’s mad

She has been losing a couple of stone then gaining back to 37 stone (or more) for last couple of years on tiktok.
Its clear she can't do it on her own.
She refuses to engage with the NHS though. Saying she's healthy and the doctors are fattist...even though she can't walk, gets cellutis often and wheezes.

 

[I'm not Putin]

she literally bashes every other plan that didnt ‘work’ for her she constantly bashes saxenda i have my own thoughts on it but she constantly bashes other plans while saying you do you il do me but then goes on to say how x y z diet is bad i just think why ? Whats the point if your attitude is you do you il do me why sit and bash other plans ?

she wont stick to this especially eating things like bread again that will make you bloat she wont admitt to falling off it though her know it all attitude pissing me off

Shes falling off the wagon 'forgetting to film' her shakes and having takeaways again.
I suspect she eats more than she records too.

Oh without a doubt shes in denial like ive never known someone in so much denial i am a big gal myself but i can say i have a problem
While i acknowledge several things contribute to weight her life style has to be one of them i am not believing she got that big by eating salad and meat like she tried saying

just even look at her comfort meal days or when she gets a takeaway her portions are massive

 

[I'm not Putin]

She's talking about veganism now fs.
But only thing stopping is she can't give up eggs, honey and cheese.
I think she enjoys consuming more animal products than them 3 foods.
Always trying to make out she's healthy.

Exactly right

 

[I'm not Putin]

On a 1500 calorie day a diet and only eats healthy normally but still salivating over and commenting on dessert videos...View attachment 1057498


There will be plenty of 10 year olds taken to weight watchers. It's not a reason to eat yourself to 37 stone. To the point where you can't travel alone, can't shower unassisted.
But she still refuses to take responsibility.
Its not her mums fault for taking her to WW that she is 37 stone.
Her mum and the WW consultant are not there shovelling the 5000+ calories a day into her mouth that is required to maintain her size.

Other 30+ stone tiktokers like fattdann and even lawrence admit they got to their size eating vast quantities.

There more than likely is a psychological reason from childhood that makes her eat to get to that size, problem is she denies overeating.
She says she wants a psychologist rather than wls. How can the psychologist help if she refuses to take any responsibility for her actions or even truthfully admit her own eating habits are the problem?

She saids her diet normally is quite healthy but just ate more on occasions such as birthday sorry i do not believe that as for commenting on desert videos watching food videos is another sign of food addiction shes too far gone with it now especially not being able to own the fact she has a problem

She said there is no weight management programme in her area for people of that size i do not believe that either