Sounds like it’s a “if you’re face fits” kind of thing.
I was a SW member many years a go and always was quite confused as to why they have all these awards. Surely everyone’s efforts and achievements should be congratulated equally. I know they give out stone/half stone awards but surely, if you’re sat there proud of your loss but your modest and on the other side of the group you’ve got someone like beggy bastard Ben, who I would assume tells any fucker that will listen about his journey then.... you’ve not really got a chance really have you and you’re going to feel down on your achievements even though you should feel god damn proud!
When I went, I remember people being upset if they weren’t nominated, people questioning why some people were nominated and then people getting upset and kicking off if they were nominated but didn’t win! I mean, how great is that for group morale

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