Can I possibly jump on this thread & ask for some advice please?
I am currently in a similar(ish) situation.
A few weeks ago a man I was talking to before I met my partner popped back up to see how I was (unaware I was in a relationship). The thing is he had randomly been on my mind a lot before he messaged me. It’s kind of freaked me out a little because I feel like I’ve sort of spoken him back into my life. I was supposed to go on a date with him (5 years ago) but it never happened and I ended up meeting my current partner instead. I think I have always always wondered what would have been and just can’t shake this feeling. He has been respectful when I said I was with my partner and hasn’t messaged me again but I really just want to talk to him all the time. I know it’s a wild fantasy but does this not signify that I’m not truly happy? I love my partner so much and he makes me so happy. I just feel enormous guilt for having these feelings but what if I could be happier elsewhere?
Is it normal for women to fantasise about another life sometimes?
I am currently in a similar(ish) situation.
A few weeks ago a man I was talking to before I met my partner popped back up to see how I was (unaware I was in a relationship). The thing is he had randomly been on my mind a lot before he messaged me. It’s kind of freaked me out a little because I feel like I’ve sort of spoken him back into my life. I was supposed to go on a date with him (5 years ago) but it never happened and I ended up meeting my current partner instead. I think I have always always wondered what would have been and just can’t shake this feeling. He has been respectful when I said I was with my partner and hasn’t messaged me again but I really just want to talk to him all the time. I know it’s a wild fantasy but does this not signify that I’m not truly happy? I love my partner so much and he makes me so happy. I just feel enormous guilt for having these feelings but what if I could be happier elsewhere?
Is it normal for women to fantasise about another life sometimes?