Thank you for taking the time to respond to this it means a lot.
I think because he is the complete opposite of my partner itās where the daydreaming is coming from. I know in reality it would never work out but just more concerned that I want this type of man instead. Itās hard to go in to too much detail but this man is older with a very good career, two houses (you know the rest). Itās very materialistic but I am the provider in my household and just wonder sometimes how nice it would be to share the responsibilityās or be with someone more ambitious. I love my partner but I feel more like his mother sometimes.
Thank you for this reply too. I completely agree and probably think Iām an absolute psychopath for ending an entire relationship over one conversation
ETA - not sure if this was for me or the OP but Iāll take the advice either way !!