This is just my opinion and what i think from personal experiences..
I am genuinely shocked that people look & find her an 'inspiration'..
I'm sorry, WHAT?! Her behaviour is shocking and very concerning.. I think she does have a problem with food, her weight, her image etc.. I have struggled with an eating disoder and trauma from my childhood triggered it.. I had Bulimia and still struggle with the temptationto this day when things get a bit much. The bulimia was my way of controlling my anxiety and having some form of control of my life. Although it is a different eating disorder to anorexia, it is still an eating disorder and also seen and looked at as a 'impulsive and addictive behaviour'.. You can go from one impulsive and addictive (and also a coping mechanism too) behaviour, which for Becky was her anorexia but she has replaced the anorexia with the excessive spending and also the drinking. Of course, she can do what she likes and spend her money on whatever she likes etc BUT there isn't a day that goes buy where she isn't spending or buying SOMETHING! Its as if she doesn't buy it, she will regret it and will then think and think about the item she didnt buy so she buys these 'bargains' so she doesn't miss out. As for the drinking, go ahead and drink BUT ALSO look after yourself and your body! My mum is near her mid 50s and looks younger than what she actually is because she looks after herself and her health aswell as enjoying herself too. Nothing wrong with enjoying yourself but Becky cannot seem to help herself.. I'm a curvy size 14 now and i don't have a big appetite but i still eat healthy and decent sized meals every day.. She replaces the hunger she feels by drinking and going out shopping because they give her the 'feel good' feeling that she wants. Look at her when shes baught something or ordered something or decorated yet another room. All chuffed and excited and then its onto the next thing because she is constantly after that feeling..
If i was in the middle of my recovery and i came across Becky and heard/read her story about her eating disorder and struggles.. i would be thinking 'yes someone who understands how hard it is and has gotten over her struggles' and then i saw her and acting the way she does, i would then start thinking that what Becky was doing was the way to help me get better and get through it. Battling an eating disorder is
bleeping hard and the way Becky is and the way she acts is sending out the wrong message. Her spending IS an addiction because she cannot help it. If she says it isnt, she needs to ask herself WHY does she need THAT many flip flops, clothes, candle sticks, candles that she doesnt even light etc.
Sorry for the long winded message, just thought I'd put my 2p worth in as someone who has been through and struggled with an eating disorder