FunkyMonkey
Chatty Member
For what it’s worth (which is very little indeed)….
I think it’s very likely that it did happen but the detail of it starting when the younger party was 17 is debatable.
it also sounds like the young person doesn’t regard themselves as a victim (whether they actually are is a different matter).
the CRACK COCAINE thing still seems very strange to me. It’s such a tabloid moral panic trigger.
I am a parent. If I was alarmed for the reasons outlined I would go to the authorities not to the older man’s very high profile employer and then a tabloid. The police would put a swift end to it, including the employer being made aware. I’ve not been put in this position thank goodness. But I wouldn’t be seeing it as the time or place to try a little maverick justice of my own. I’d follow the normal, obvious process. I just can’t think of a legitimate reason anybody would do anything else.
and, it might be that someone else has given the young person the funds to lawyer up. But there’s nothing completely wrong with that- if both directly involved parties are having lurid accusations made about them which they believe to be unfounded, and one of them has the funds to defend it, why would they not do that?
I think it’s very likely that it did happen but the detail of it starting when the younger party was 17 is debatable.
it also sounds like the young person doesn’t regard themselves as a victim (whether they actually are is a different matter).
the CRACK COCAINE thing still seems very strange to me. It’s such a tabloid moral panic trigger.
I am a parent. If I was alarmed for the reasons outlined I would go to the authorities not to the older man’s very high profile employer and then a tabloid. The police would put a swift end to it, including the employer being made aware. I’ve not been put in this position thank goodness. But I wouldn’t be seeing it as the time or place to try a little maverick justice of my own. I’d follow the normal, obvious process. I just can’t think of a legitimate reason anybody would do anything else.
and, it might be that someone else has given the young person the funds to lawyer up. But there’s nothing completely wrong with that- if both directly involved parties are having lurid accusations made about them which they believe to be unfounded, and one of them has the funds to defend it, why would they not do that?