Autistic Interpretations

[Booboo01!]

Augustine is going to become the next adult for Jessica to boss around like her slave and obsess over and also repeat constantly what are you going to get me. So pathetic

 

[grammy1955]

Isn’t that what all YouTubers do though? Isn’t that, like, the whole point?

There are hundreds of YouTube channels who do much worse. I genuinely don’t understand why this family elicits any negativity. It’s educational and it’s authentic. A breath of fresh air in a world where people feel the need to manufacture drama with click bait titles. Of course it’s not going to be everybody’s cup of tea but nobody is forcing anybody to watch it. Like I said, loads of other channels out there who deserve to be dragged: IMHO this family and this channel just don’t.

Is someone forcing you to be here?

 

[Milesamha]

I just can not stand Hannah and those faces she makes! I used to think she was likeable.

I agree. I think she thinks she is so cute but she isn’t. The open mouth yawns off she and her mother show they have no manners

 

[YellowChimpanzee]

The irony about the job situation was that Val thought a task like counting tickets/price tags and putting them in bundles was too boring/menial for Jess, but she literally spends a large part of her day counting and sorting cards. Jess is actually perfect for a job like that because she does it for fun and already has the skills to be successful at it. It's also a job that she could do independently, as opposed to caregiving which would require her to have her own assistance to do her job.

So Val thinks menial jobs are demeaning but is okay with begging for money on the internet? I'm sorry, but I have way more respect for people who do menial jobs than I have for Val and Hannah. Begging for money on the internet is way more demeaning than jobs such as counting objects and bundling them. In fact, I don't see how counting and bundling is demeaning at all. Certain jobs may be boring or considered "menial" but someone needs to do them. I applaud anyone who does a menial job. Good for them for working an honest job instead of taking the easy way out and begging for hand outs from strangers on the internet.

 

[Twiddle]

I believe if her videos were shown to 100 people, 99 would be appalled by her behavior. Actually, rather than educating people, they are setting progress back years. Behavior modification should be the goal, not letting the person do whatever they want. The behavior only creates chaos for all those involved and society as a whole.

I have noticed that recently there have been more ‘negative’ comments than in the past, so people may now be picking up on various things. There are probably a good many who would like to say exactly what they think, but hold back because they’ll be jumped on by certain individuals who feel it is their role in life to defend the family to the hilt.

 

[deftones34]

I stayed in the Pop Century Resorts before. I didn't care for that place at all. The rooms were not good and people got food poisoning from the cafeteria and were vomiting outside of their rooms (in front of our door). That meant I couldn't sleep.

I need Hannah to not have her face in front of the camera so much. Also, who the hell is Augustina? Hannah's online girlfriend that decided to come visit so they could see each other in person for the first time? This family is so weird.

 

[Twiddle]

Just shows how ‘switched on’ Jess actually is to be able to keep such a secret - my young adult with autism and other special needs would never be able to do that, no matter how hard she tried! She wouldn’t mean to let it out, but she definitely would have done without thinking about it! I think Jessica is a lot more ‘able’ in some respects than what she’s given credit for.

 

[Twiddle]

I thought it was ‘vital’ for Jessica to have an afternoon nap every day in order for her to function properly? At least, that’s what Val has often stated in the past, although it seems from the latest video that that doesn’t apply at Disney, despite the heat and long days! Once again the narrative has changed to suit. She’s even controlling whether the others rest or not! Unbelievable.

 

[YellowChimpanzee]

I don't understand why so many fans/viewers view Jessica in such an idealized way. To them, she is the most special, wonderful, pure, best person in the world. It makes me wonder whether some of these fans/viewers have Borderline Personality Disorder and that's why they view Jessica through this all or nothing prism. It's like they see Jessica as a female Jesus or something.

A few of my martial arts classmates are disabled. Yes, they are given accommodations and sometimes taught in a different way. But other than that they are treated just like everyone else. Nobody is constantly telling them how special, wonderful and perfect they are. They are treated like regular people because they are regular people and are not gods or goddesses.

 

[Milesamha]

I'm very unsure of Agustina.(sorry if not correct spelling).I just cant put my finger on why she makes me uneasy. Anyone else feel this way ?

She is kind of creepy with animated talking to the arrogant thirty-five year old baby

 

[rbooth61]

Agustina is spending the day with Val’s parents then Val’s nephew. I just don’t get how the whole family got so invested into this long distance Crispie relationship?? Something isn’t adding up . Of course greedy Thursday now today was the same Jessica tearing through gifts actually only wanting to find cards. Why do people waste money sending her gifts when she can clearly can care less about anything but playing cards.

 

[Oompaloompa]

Definitely being coached as usual. So Val calls her out on two lies but we are supposed to believe this BS. Saying she wished the woman was dead was pretty shitty and Val said nothing. Also Val saying the woman’s name was not right. That could get her in some trouble. But never Jessica’s fault.

Val did you know there is a war going on? Innocent people being murdered. They pack a backpack and have to flee their homes. People in your own city are homeless and Hungary but you continue to con people out of money. You are shameful.

Have you noticed that except family can deal with or care for Jess? Not even any professionals? I find that VERY, VERY hard to believe!!

 

[grammy1955]

They never take Jess when they want to enjoy themselves. Why didn’t they take her with to the Mother’s Day lunch with Val’s mother? Oh, I’m sure Val said it was because Jess had other plans. She proclaims a joyful life but doesn’t have her around when she wants to relax or have fun. She is so good at making excuses, I think I’ll rename her site, Val’s Autism Excusitations. In her previous blog posts, Val seemed to be more vulnerable and honest, I wonder if she looks back on this posts with regret. Not nearly as sugar coated as they are now.

Val's Excuses! There are so many. The latest that I loved was Jessica's picking her skin. Which I thought she had stopped and doesn't get desert if she picks. That didn't last long. Anyway the other day Val said the sores were not from Jess picking but the band aid caused the sores. Val is so full of shit. But the cult eat it up.

 

[rbooth61]

Val feeds Jessica to remind everyone that daughter is severely disabled; which is BS. Abbie from Fathering austism does so much more....so doesCory too!

Jessica is capable of so much more. But they have allowed her to throw tantrums or make excuses to do absolutely nothing productive. Sad because if Jessica was placed somewhere that didn’t allow this she could be so much more independent. They keep saying they are teaching her independence. The example they use is her stirring a batch of brownies or some other unhealthy dish. Then they say she can’t stir because of her CP. Well she doesn’t have a hard time shoveling food in to the point of choking. Why not have someone to help her build on the strengths she needs like physical therapy etc. But they don’t want her to build on anything because she’s there meal ticket.

 

[Bransmom27]

That video really makes Jess seem like an abusive person. On one hand, I know her disability plays a role in it, but on the other hand abuse is abuse. Maybe Jess needs to be in an assisted living facility just to protect Val and Hannah. I wonder if Val and Hannah exploit Jess as a subconscious way of getting even for her being abusive. This family is mentally unwell. I really wish a specialist could work with the family as a whole. But who knows? Maybe they are not really interested in getting well.

I also feel like they are rewarding her aggression by not making her do things she doesn't want to. All she has to do is make a threat or try to hit and she knows she will get to do what she wants. It's a bit manipulative really. But I doubt Val even believes that Jess is capable of manipulation.

I agree she’s almost 35 time to stop babying her and make her do things in the house. I’ve seen her numerous times walk away from the table without even bringing her plate to the sink. How lazy. They all say “she’s an adult” but yet they treat her like a baby and it’s almost as if they are afraid of her. Well if they are she needs to be placed. One video a few weeks ago she went after Marlow. Jessica knows right from wrong and knows how to play them to get what she wants. In her whole 35 years she has learned NOTHING. She can’t do anything without hand over hand assistance unless it involves her food. I mean they don’t even make her use utensils cause she frustrated when using a fork. Come on now seriously. Then like today apparently Val told her no more dogs cause she obviously snapped at Daryl once again and Jessica kept asking more dogs mama or no more dogs and Val said more dogs if u can learn to love them. Stop tip towing around Jessica if she gets violent then she needs consequences. And stop begging for shit my god this is such a dysfunctional family.

 

[grammy1955]

I’m not sure I think you are heartless. And you probably don’t need to worry about what I think anyways as It’s all part of the discourse of social media. I do think there are people here who cross a line to assuming the worst, and being just plain nasty versus truly concerned or stating different views. Some seem to enjoy Commenting on weight and looks and accusing them of lying … no intent or willingness to give benefit of doubt. I stumbled on this site accidentally and had nice clue what it was all about. I guess the name Tattle life should give it away so “duh” on my part. Anyways, maybe she could do better but I really can’t imagine I am in a position to criticize or second guess having never walked in those particular shoes.


Except many many many people are now making money and quitting their traditional roles to be content creators or influencers or whatever on YouTube, Tic Toc etc. It becomes their job. They find their audience and if their people who willingly follow them and willingly pay or the sites pay or companies pay.

What exactly do you think a gossip site is. We don't make mean comments on their posts, just save it for here. If you don't like it move on. Just hanging around harassing us makes no sense. Go on back to your cult.

 

[Booboo01!]

Today was my last greedy Thursday. I cannot watch it anymore. What was the point of bad daddy doing the package opening when you had the 2 of them yelling in the background. It is not only annoying to watch but it is controlling and ridiculous. And what bad daddy was doing at first was perfect which was him opening and handing each item to her. I don’t understand why they made him stop I guess another control tactic of Val. And yes I am so sick of watching every single video with Val and Hannah omg we are so tired we are so busy doing normal life chores smh! Hannah with her constant yawning because she needs 12 hours of sleep! Really????What exactly are you 2 tired from normal life? And because they diagnose themselves with chronic fatigue syndrome they deserve all of this poor me and pitying!

 

[Dalmationdog]

Leaving out information is their cliff hanger getting people to watch the next video. “Wait until tomorrow to see who is actually Jessica’s biological father”, “Will Jess get her haircut without a meltdown”, “Watch tomorrow to see if Jess is an adult or is she taking care of her baby doll like a child”, “When is the next Disney trip” and the ultimate cliffhanger “Will Jess get cards on her gift day and say thank you without being prompted”, “What facility Will Jess get kicked out off - I mean who’s fault was it? Sorry it is just too easy….Disney and Delusions!

 

[tellinitlikeitis]

I’m not sure I think you are heartless. And you probably don’t need to worry about what I think anyways as It’s all part of the discourse of social media. I do think there are people here who cross a line to assuming the worst, and being just plain nasty versus truly concerned or stating different views. Some seem to enjoy Commenting on weight and looks and accusing them of lying … no intent or willingness to give benefit of doubt. I stumbled on this site accidentally and had nice clue what it was all about. I guess the name Tattle life should give it away so “duh” on my part. Anyways, maybe she could do better but I really can’t imagine I am in a position to criticize or second guess having never walked in those particular shoes.


Except many many many people are now making money and quitting their traditional roles to be content creators or influencers or whatever on YouTube, Tic Toc etc. It becomes their job. They find their audience and if their people who willingly follow them and willingly pay or the sites pay or companies pay.

I thought you left. You must have a lot of time on your hands to be stalking this page and commenting as often as you do. Maybe you are them because they certainly do have a lot of time on their hands since it takes three of them to take care of one person.

 

[rbooth61]

That definitely wasn't always the plan. If you read the blog, Val mentions that she thought Jess would be able to get a job after aging out of the school system, while she would be able to pursue nursing full-time. They worked a lot with Jess trying to prepare her to be more independent. Then somewhere around the last year or so that Jess was in school it became clear that was not going to happen (they mention that her obsessive behavior/fixation on certain people started to manifest around this time and caused issues). They tried to make it work with Jess staying at home by herself, but there were too many issues with that and eventually, Val had to quit her job completely. I think once Val realized that it was going to be her and Jess until the end of time that it didn't bother her if Hannah stuck around forever because at least it meant not being alone day in and day out with Jess. As much as Val loves Jess, I know deep down she knows that Jess' behaviors are enough to drive anyone crazy, especially if you are dealing with her daily.

Jessica needs to be placed in a home setting with adults with Autism. Jessica needs to be taught behaviors have consequences. I think Jessica would blossom if she got out of Val’s. Plus it would be best for Hannah and Val as well. There are good programs they just need to do their research. They can’t get stuck on what happened years ago when Jessica hated school because she didn’t like the lunch menu. I believe that’s all a load of crap. I am sure Jessica was offered other food items. And if not Val could of packed her lunch everyday to avoid this issue. And no Jessica shouldn’t been on her phone in school. Our kids would have their phones taken if they did what Jessica did. There’s just something so off about this families story. It actually has a twisted sick all around feel about it. I see Bad Daddy had to get Jessica out of the house because she was being mean. So he takes her for ice cream and puts her lazy butt in a wheelchair. Val really needs mental therapy to get go over her guilt of Jessica. Just imagine how freeing it would be if Jessica went to a day program and Val could return to nursing. To work that hard for her degree and just give up. Val owes it to herself and her family to place Jessica in a program with her peers. Maybe Jessica could find a boyfriend at a program she could obsess over. You never know maybe Jessica would love living in a supported apartment program and maybe have a partner. All Jessica use to talk about was getting her own place and being independent. But now they have her dreaming of buying all of them a big house. Of course to get away from the terrible neighbors.