It can actually be either/or. A lot of autistic people (and disabled folx in general) use identity first language, "autistic" or "disabled" being the identity in question. There is a group that uses person-first language ("people with autism", for example) as well. As far as I go about use, it's just easier to switch especially with a dual audience of autistic and non autistic people watching. Usually I have to switch what I'm saying depending on which group of people that I'm speaking to.
Autistic Interpretations #9 Jess gets over medicated while the Porn Palace gets renovated
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I think any professional would call Val out on what she has done to Jess and we know Val will not tolerate anyone telling her anything! The horror stories that Misty's son in law witnessed are enough to show why no person will ever be able to tell Val that her child has severe schizophrenia and brain damage and not Autism as a primary diagnosis! Val will fight them, cuss them out and threaten bodily harm because she knows everything! And they would never have followers if the page was named Schizophrenic Interpretations!!!!
Val wants to give Jessica choices as she is an adult, but Jessica acts like a 3 year old brat. As for not wanting Jessica to feel less than others, Val isn’t helping her grow. If someone acts like a child you need to treat them as a child. Jessica is allowed to make or they let her feel like she makes all the decisions. Why would you let a child make decisions when you know they don’t comprehend any of the information pertinent to the item they are choosing. That would be like letting her walk through a fire because she wanted chocolate cake, right now! That is so wrong, in every household, decisions are made together. She needs to learn to take a vote on what to do, and actually go by the result. It would teach her to consider others and what the majority want rules the day.
This is the exact reason why Val won’t deal with professionals, she can’t handle the truth and the truth wouldn’t fit the script. Val needs someone like Marlow who will succumb to her control, do it her way, no questions asked. What a joy she was at Nathan’s! I think they should soon take the hint that maybe keely is over it. She was looping so bad over it she failed her newest circus act! PS thought she couldn’t tolerate cold things..She acts even more obnoxious and annoying at someone else’s home.I think any professional would call Val out on what she has done to Jess and we know Val will not tolerate anyone telling her anything! The horror stories that Misty's son in law witnessed are enough to show why no person will ever be able to tell Val that her child has severe schizophrenia and brain damage and not Autism as a primary diagnosis! Val will fight them, cuss them out and threaten bodily harm because she knows everything! And they would never have followers if the page was named Schizophrenic Interpretations!!!!
In Val’s warped mind, everyone else is responsible for everything, NOT Val, NOT Jess, NOT Hannah! Her mental illness is showing! As a responsible parent I taught my children how to act and react in public and NEVER told them they could expect anything from anyone in public.
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Wallfly, you are correct. Val did NOT parent. All these reasons make me feel that APS a should investigate and do a special placement to get Jess help.
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A 3 year old doesn’t have a vote on life matters in ANY normal household. A 3 year old gets to decide which color shirt to wear and which book to read at bedtime.
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Val having ever been deemed unsuitable to be guardian of a disabled child should be an ongoing file and should NEVER be allowed to go unchecked.I think any professional would call Val out on what she has done to Jess and we know Val will not tolerate anyone telling her anything! The horror stories that Misty's son in law witnessed are enough to show why no person will ever be able to tell Val that her child has severe schizophrenia and brain damage and not Autism as a primary diagnosis! Val will fight them, cuss them out and threaten bodily harm because she knows everything! And they would never have followers if the page was named Schizophrenic Interpretations!!!!
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Or maybe Marlow is moving in with Madison and SaraObviously Val read over here on the weekend while lounging in her bed, watching movies and eating her hidden snacks.
I mentioned how Jessica should be out and about active in her community , the autism community spending time with peers...etc...
So of course Val has to address it. ( we see you Val)
As for the " bideo of the morning" how about allowing Jessica to brush her Dragon breath , shower BRUSH that dry grey mop she's sportting before shoving the camera in her face getting her to repeat her lines.??
So they are helping Marlow move...reading between the lies...I'm also assuming she's moving into Bad Daddys commune along side the unemployed masses.
Aren't the weekend's nice when the Brooks cult is quiet? But they drop 3 videos a day Monday - Friday... Unfortunately.
Val requires her bedroom lounging all weekend to get her break from Jess and her obsessions and angry fits...so she hides in her room with Dar Dar and Zo Zo...while Hannah babysit her grey haired 35 yr. Old big sister.
Such a joyful life.
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Val using those words is from something Val read, nothing that will ever happen or be done. It would mean effort from Val AND teaching Jess social skills and we KNOW Val is too lazy to do any of that
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Cosmoandhisboy on Instagram is getting messages about NOT aligning with Val in any way to protect the legitimacy of her own page.
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Where did you see the comments? I couldn’t see them,
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Also, how tacky to go sit in your car with your dog to do an interview. Couldn’t she find someplace else where Jess couldn’t be nosy and bother her with all her joy?
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Well the birthday chocolate pies looked like crap. Old pie crusts that burned, fudged on the ingredients because they didn't have all the right stuff (what else is new) and they ate it warm! Sorry chocolate pie is not eaten warm! But they all just loved it including Jessica shoveling it in even though in an earlier video she didn't want them to make it! And if you watch it notice out spaced out Jess was...but she was probably drugged to the max so she would not ruin the party! Plus they all but Jess sang happy birthday....that was a real tell that it was not about her so she would not participate!
Val is clueless.
As parents we do give our children choices.small ones that grow as they grow... For example my daughter when younger wanted to wear dresses 24/7 ... Not always appropriate in -25 temps in winter... So.. I would take out 3 outfits I picked and let her CHOOSE which one she wanted ..parenting 101... It's not rocket science.
Along with choices comes Responsibility...and this is where Val puts in zero effort...and is why Jessica is feral, unkept, hair unbrushed, bloody scabs all over....she has no concept of NO, of consequences, of being taught how to cope, manage her anxiety ....she has been given no rules, no boundaries no consistency.... So how exactly can you give her freedom of choice when she has no understanding of consequences?
Jessica would eat chicken nuggets every meal every day..she eats that trash constantly ...and the saddest part of that is Val COULD prepare REAL chicken fingers, strips from fresh chicken breasts and cut out all that processed crap...but no...she's lazy.
Make Jessica eat healthier ....do the work Val! Instead of boxed desserts make fresh! Nothing processed.... This " mother" is home 24/7 unemployed, with 3 other adults helping care for jessica!! But there's no time to cook or bake healthy foods ?
Make healthy nutritious foods THEN give Jessica choices from them... And smaller desserts! Healthier options... Only after she's eaten her vegetables , fruits etc...
Val wants to act like Jessica is an adult ...but then tucks her into beddieby for nappies every afternoon???? Ridiculous. Or spoon feed her desserts in public??
Jessica is untamed, rude, selfish and simply nasty....her anger and treatment of those dogs is heinous she has zero self control which is why you over medicate her...otherwise you can't control her.
Her behaviour is not autism ... I live with autism , participate in the autism community and hearing you blame autism for Jessica's severe behaviours , rudeness, anger, inappropriate slapping, kissing, rubbing, picking, violence etc... That's simply POOR PARENTING on your part Val! 1000000%.
You should absolutely be ashamed of yourself and your ADULT poorly behaved children.
"Me and Val"? Who taught that person grammer?
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It looks disgusting!
And who levels & pours the ingredients over the bowl you're mixing in?!? Dumbass! No wonder every recipe fails!
Jess looks like a zombie!
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Looking at that comp waiver is very telling. It says within that document, the specific diagnoses that would get them accepted into this waiver program. It specifically says autism and CP which are incidentally, the two diagnoses that Val fought so hard to get. You’ll notice it doesn’t have any exceptions for schizophrenic people, if she were diagnosed with schizophrenia, then she would not be included in that waiver program. Very interesting.
Where is the document at FattyPatty?
It’s back a page under. gramma of 4’s Post
On Instagram cosmoandhisboy
The cooking with Nathan video Hannah was trying the cheese an Jess slapped her and I think Hannah told her to stop before she got in trouble. Did anyone else hear that?
That pie making video was awful. Fancy making a pie with out of date pie crust for your daughter’s special birthday! You would think that for such a special occasion, she could at least have got fresh pie crusts. It’s all so alien to me as we do things very differently, but each to their own I guess!
She didn't help just obsessed over the text message.
Just had an old video show up from April 2022 where Val is wearing a boot for her sore foot. There is so much wrong in that video. She hurt it and waited 6 months to go to the doctor. Then she goes on to say WE ordered an xray...nope the doctor ordered it. And they found nothing on the xray...surprise. But he told her to take Alieve and come back after her trip to Colorado hiking with Madison! Well she says it didn't bother her the whole time hiking but when she stepped off a curb it started to hurt again. Back to the doctor, still no diagnosis but he gave her a boot to wear. I never remember seeing her in videos after that ever wearing it again and no mention of it again either! Plus she went on and on about how good all her lab work was. Her cholesterol was better than fine!! I can't believe that the way they eat! So Val the hypochondriac and liar was at it again!
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Today's morning video same tit different day! Did your Bessie get a new dog, mommy say it, don't pet Zoe, Jess lounging on the breakfast bar, whole family in this video but just 3 are eating.
Get new content because even the good ones must be tired of this tit!
And back to Nathan's tonight for a pizza cooking video and for the love of all that is holy get her new pajamas or get her dressed before breakfast!
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Today's morning video same tit different day! Did your Bessie get a new dog, mommy say it, don't pet Zoe, Jess lounging on the breakfast bar, whole family in this video but just 3 are eating.
Get new content because even the good ones must be tired of this tit!
And back to Nathan's tonight for a pizza cooking video and for the love of all that is holy get her new pajamas or get her dressed before breakfast!
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It's like groundhogs day over and over and over....
Why they feed into the constant nonsense babble Jess does is bewildering...again I have an autistic child in my home...and when she starts to obsess over stuff get repetitive asking the same questions etc... We have tools we use tools we were taught by professionals to HELP her get over the obsessing...redirecting is one we also have a chart a visual...that allows an obsession question to only be asked 3 times....sounds odd..but it works! ( when she gets repetitive there's REASON why...nerves, fear uncertainty) We address it...Fix it...find the calm.
We want our child to GROW...to learn to socialise , to have conversation ...etc...
Jessica repeats the same " scenes" asking the same questions about Zoey...from the minute her eyes open till she texts people in the middle of the night! Allowing her to obsess over it...allowing her to tell others how to reply!?!? Not acceptable . How exactly does this help her? Teach her? It doesnt.
Again...it's lazy parenting ....our daughter has a nonverbal autistic diagnosis ...and didn't speak till she was 9. She may only have 200 words or so she used today... But please and thank you are a couple! Also she doesn't recycle the exact same conversations 100000times a day everyvday.
Jessica is stuck...trapped in this never ending loop of 4-5 sentences with no one helping her! It's disgusting to watch... Val has no intention of helping Jess grow..or deal with obsessing she just replies...you know it! And by noon...after hearing Jess asks for the millionth time... " mommy did you get your Bessy a new poochie? " Val is ready to hand her over to Hannah and Marlow and hide in her room!
We see and hear the constant frustration in everyone in that house...Jessica gets on everyone's last nerve with no end in sight.
That's not how families cope, deal and help the situation ..we WORK hard together with professionals to make the situation better...for everyone.
How do these " good ones" not see the neglect? What an extremely sad and pitiful life Jessica has...and look at her she looks like she 60... Teach her some hygiene brush her knotted hair cut it! Get her decent pajamas...give her a little dignity!
Val you are a disgraceful abuser.
Why they feed into the constant nonsense babble Jess does is bewildering...again I have an autistic child in my home...and when she starts to obsess over stuff get repetitive asking the same questions etc... We have tools we use tools we were taught by professionals to HELP her get over the obsessing...redirecting is one we also have a chart a visual...that allows an obsession question to only be asked 3 times....sounds odd..but it works! ( when she gets repetitive there's REASON why...nerves, fear uncertainty) We address it...Fix it...find the calm.
We want our child to GROW...to learn to socialise , to have conversation ...etc...
Jessica repeats the same " scenes" asking the same questions about Zoey...from the minute her eyes open till she texts people in the middle of the night! Allowing her to obsess over it...allowing her to tell others how to reply!?!? Not acceptable . How exactly does this help her? Teach her? It doesnt.
Again...it's lazy parenting ....our daughter has a nonverbal autistic diagnosis ...and didn't speak till she was 9. She may only have 200 words or so she used today... But please and thank you are a couple! Also she doesn't recycle the exact same conversations 100000times a day everyvday.
Jessica is stuck...trapped in this never ending loop of 4-5 sentences with no one helping her! It's disgusting to watch... Val has no intention of helping Jess grow..or deal with obsessing she just replies...you know it! And by noon...after hearing Jess asks for the millionth time... " mommy did you get your Bessy a new poochie? " Val is ready to hand her over to Hannah and Marlow and hide in her room!
We see and hear the constant frustration in everyone in that house...Jessica gets on everyone's last nerve with no end in sight.
That's not how families cope, deal and help the situation ..we WORK hard together with professionals to make the situation better...for everyone.
How do these " good ones" not see the neglect? What an extremely sad and pitiful life Jessica has...and look at her she looks like she 60... Teach her some hygiene brush her knotted hair cut it! Get her decent pajamas...give her a little dignity!
Val you are a disgraceful abuser.
WallFly and Susan830 both you wonderful ladies really explain it the way we all think it. Thank you.
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