Borrowed this from FaceBooks page Autistic Interpretations A Joyful Scam...
( posted below)
This is directly out of the horses mouth....and it's the closest truth Val has ever spoken.
This is exactly why Jessica is rude, crude, disrespectful, mean, violent , unwilling to put in effort, try anything, refuses to stop picking, digging at her crotch, obsessing over food, dead dogs and her phone.....and is genuinely unlikable.
When Jessica was in school and under 21... Val was monitored more and Jessica was seen by teachers, councillors various professionals and they took on much of the educating of Jessica...when she was younger Nonnie has custody of Jessica...and remember Val said Jessica was using her cane walking to the bus,doing volunteer work in a home , she was learning Braille....
Then after 21....Val had power of attorney and Jessica aged out of school and sadly descended leave to adult program placement for her violent behaviour over obsessing about a client. Val then left Jessica at home alone while she went to nursing school ...under Vals care Jessica regressed and regressed ...had no more social outings, no therapy, no routine....and Val did nothing.
Now it's 15 years later..under Vals care....and Jessica doesn't do Braille, volunteer, use her cane, attend any autism social outings, she is so far removed from society by Val she flips cards in her room alone for hours daily talking in voices to herself repeating old conversations with dead granny, coach who she has seen since she was 10 yrs old...and waits for her FaceTime calls with strangers that Val charges people to talk to her Bessy.
Val says she gives into Jessica because it's easier.... The fact she has forced everyone to do the same ...Val even expects strangers at the check out to entertain Jessica's intrusive questions, her rudeness, and inappropriate behaviour ....Val does nothing but make excuses.
If Jessica was a child .....CPS, teachers, therapists would be all over Val and she knows it....but Val has freedom to do whatever she wants it seems and can all see 36 yr. Old Jessica getting more and more mean, argumentative, nasty, eating worse and worse , fighting, whining ... Not showering or brushing her hair, not getting her teeth cleaned, zero proper hygiene ...Val sneaking her cranberry juice because Jessica constantly is digging at her crotch...even though Val edits it out we still see the motion and Val teaching over to grab her hand to stop. The infected scabs all over her legs and face.... Jessica's weight gain ... I'm surprised she doesn't have scurvy or rickets from the lack of fruits, vegetables , sunshine,vitamins , omega 3's,iron......
Val has created this sick toxic environment that Jessica is trapped in. It's sickening .
She says....she can't tell where she ends and Jessica begins. Something else APS needs to investigate.