Ashley Cain

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Has anyone thought about the fact that sharing their story on social media has got over 150,000 donors on the bone marrow register? Potentially saving 150,000+ lives?
It is nothing to do with sharing that all, it’s more about the other events way after that if you read back on this thread nobody has said anything that they shouldn’t have shared full stop, the donor request was right at the beginning of Azalyias journey
 
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So glad this thread is here. I never post, but agree with so much said here. I just have 2 things to say... I hate that saying 'lets go champ' with a passion because Conor Mcgregor started it & we all know he's a evil, scumbag rapist. FACT.
Secondly how does Ash & Saf afford their lifestyle? They arn't working atm? But they have to pay for normal stuff like bills, mortgage, food, run their cars etc... And then the new clothes, trainers, hair, beauty, eating out, going shopping etc.. how is all of that funded does anyone know? I thought they would struggle to pay for the essentials seen as they arn't working, but how can they afford all the other new stuff & expenses?
 
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I wish Ashley would drop the aggression in his voice, with his interview with Ferne it wasn’t there but it always is on his stories, his sounding like a life coach, I actually can’t listen to all of his stories because of it
 
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So glad this thread is here. I never post, but agree with so much said here. I just have 2 things to say... I hate that saying 'lets go champ' with a passion because Conor Mcgregor started it & we all know he's a evil, scumbag rapist. FACT.
Secondly how does Ash & Saf afford their lifestyle? They arn't working atm? But they have to pay for normal stuff like bills, mortgage, food, run their cars etc... And then the new clothes, trainers, hair, beauty, eating out, going shopping etc.. how is all of that funded does anyone know? I thought they would struggle to pay for the essentials seen as they arn't working, but how can they afford all the other new stuff & expenses?
I assume most of the hair treatments and beauty are gifted. Like when Saf said she was looking for say a great hair colourist or a massage for some self love. What she really means is who will do this for me for free. The same way all these instahuns beg for freebies🤮not sure about everyday essentials or bills though.
 
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So glad this thread is here. I never post, but agree with so much said here. I just have 2 things to say... I hate that saying 'lets go champ' with a passion because Conor Mcgregor started it & we all know he's a evil, scumbag rapist. FACT.
Secondly how does Ash & Saf afford their lifestyle? They arn't working atm? But they have to pay for normal stuff like bills, mortgage, food, run their cars etc... And then the new clothes, trainers, hair, beauty, eating out, going shopping etc.. how is all of that funded does anyone know? I thought they would struggle to pay for the essentials seen as they arn't working, but how can they afford all the other new stuff & expenses?
Does make you wonder as I thought he said he had a really cheap banger of a car, didn’t look it the other day, selfridges shopping isn’t cheap, and neither is the all the beauty treatments but then Saf works in aesthetics so maybe it’s treatment for treatment, there’s obviously going to be speculation if you post things on social media and you don’t work as I know people personally who don’t work yet have a mortgage and a lavish lifestyle , im
Not by any means saying Ashley and saf have a lavish lifestyle so don’t come at me !
 
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I wish Ashley would drop the aggression in his voice, with his interview with Ferne it wasn’t there but it always is on his stories, his sounding like a life coach, I actually can’t listen to all of his stories because of it
He does sound like a preacher. I think he tries to come off inspirational and motivational but I had to unfollow because the way he speaks irritate me.
 
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Sorry, but he's cringing me out with his motivational speeches. He sounds so aggressive. Unfollow.
I’m verging on that, it’s like his way or the highway, his not coming across as advising or recommending its coming across as this is what you MUST do
 
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I feel horrible posting this because obviously everyone grieves different & in different ways. They lost their beautiful little girl. I feel his ego is in the way constantly & getting bigger & bigger & like others have said his “motivational talks” come across really aggressive. I actually do cringe.

what’s everyone’s thoughts on the foundation page on Instagram? I’m just hoping they do what they said they would

I do feel a bit sketchy about the money situation , they haven’t been clear like donating to charities
 
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He probably was... Coming back to the house your daughter died in. You can see why he'd wanna be out all day.
Saf needs him to be there for her too. When is he supporting her? She’s been on her story in the middle of the night broken multiple times.. Where’s he? You would roll over into your partner for support, not your phone. It was her uncle and brother pulling her out of bed to go to the gym in the early days etc it still is now. Ashley is too busy thinking about himself.
 
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Saf needs him to be there for her too. When is he supporting her? She’s been on her story in the middle of the night broken multiple times.. Where’s he? You would roll over into your partner for support, not your phone. It was her uncle and brother pulling her out of bed to go to the gym in the early days etc it still is now. Ashley is too busy thinking about himself.
This is why I also think they’re not together or maybe sleeping separately?
 
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I wish Ashley would drop the aggression in his voice, with his interview with Ferne it wasn’t there but it always is on his stories, his sounding like a life coach, I actually can’t listen to all of his stories because of it
Agree with this. You can tell he's been listening to American style life coaching, I think he even posted a couple recently. It's that shouty reaffirmation style that perhaps makes it sound aggressive.

I listened to the Fearne Happy Place episode yesterday. I thought he came across quite well. Small point, in the intro which she would have edited after the interview, she makes a point to say he asked HER to be on the show, but in his opening line he thanks her for asking HIM to be on it. Probably doesn't mean anything but struck me as inconsistent.
 
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I definitely think they have been told not to have any more balloon arches.

I know I'm completely speculating here, but it's awful if they've been allowed things (such as the miniature fencing) just because of their online following etc, whereas others would get told to take it down.
 
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Agree with this. You can tell he's been listening to American style life coaching, I think he even posted a couple recently. It's that shouty reaffirmation style that perhaps makes it sound aggressive.

I listened to the Fearne Happy Place episode yesterday. I thought he came across quite well. Small point, in the intro which she would have edited after the interview, she makes a point to say he asked HER to be on the show, but in his opening line he thanks her for asking HIM to be on it. Probably doesn't mean anything but struck me as inconsistent.
see I picked up on that and I think he’s trying to get back out there in the limelight.

Of course by them sharing Azaylias journey in the 1st place it made loads join the register which is fantastic but we didn’t need to see everything, same with her passing yes it’s great they are setting up a foundation in her name but we don’t need to see him travelling in style his designer gear his fancy bmw all so distasteful
 
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Saf needs him to be there for her too. When is he supporting her? She’s been on her story in the middle of the night broken multiple times.. Where’s he? You would roll over into your partner for support, not your phone. It was her uncle and brother pulling her out of bed to go to the gym in the early days etc it still is now. Ashley is too busy thinking about himself.
It's sad, but I don't think he's even thinking about her. I think he is so consumed with his own grief and his own trauma that he's just not even thinking about her. I can imagine the only time he really makes any effort around her is when she points the camera to him.

Agree with this. You can tell he's been listening to American style life coaching, I think he even posted a couple recently. It's that shouty reaffirmation style that perhaps makes it sound aggressive.

I listened to the Fearne Happy Place episode yesterday. I thought he came across quite well. Small point, in the intro which she would have edited after the interview, she makes a point to say he asked HER to be on the show, but in his opening line he thanks her for asking HIM to be on it. Probably doesn't mean anything but struck me as inconsistent.
Fancy asking someone to be on their podcast... In my opinion, it's a bit beggy & the fact she agreed just feeds his ego even more. Fern Cotton is a well known name, she's been in the industry for YEARS so I guess it would help him to have people like her on his side for networking & opportunities.
 
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I dont think they are together.. i dont even think they have ever been together to be honest.
He never really showed Saf until Azaylia got poorly.

like someone else said that someone commented on a picture saying he was cheating. I bet hes always talking to other people. He shows no interest in Saf...

Just my opinion
 
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I don’t think they are together. I think they’ve split but don’t want to say so. The grief must be unbearable and they seem to just do their own thing.
 
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