Ashley Cain

[Scottish Care Bear]

Perhaps Saf’s mum didn’t agree with the large public funeral & told them so. Leading to her not being included with all the other family members. She was upset that her daughter was not consoled by Ashley. He didn’t seem to hug Saf or support her. Just stood beside her. Yes l know he was grieving. Just would you not want to hold onto your partner & support each other?

Saf is clearly struggling & needs help. I think she needs her mum & her mum needs her. They had been so very close & no matter your age sometimes you just need your mum!

What about the family members who are always with them? When do they see their own families & go to their work? Saf struggled as her brother was on holiday & wasn’t with her. He has his own stuff to deal with. I just think they need to get away from social media & grieve.

 

[Noonoosanne2]

The funeral was extravagant people travelled from all over the country to line the streets the amount of videos on tik tok were crazy, people taking their own children in buggies and filming their journey did these people do it for clout? I think some did yes. The big throne type Beckham wedding chairs for Ashley and Saf were way OTT

 

[Tobodee]

The funeral was extravagant people travelled from all over the country to line the streets the amount of videos on tik tok were crazy, people taking their own children in buggies and filming their journey did these people do it for clout? I think some did yes. The big throne type Beckham wedding chairs for Ashley and Saf were way OTT

No! Please tell me they didn’t have thrones at the funeral

 

[EyeSpy88]

No! Please tell me they didn’t have thrones at the funeral

I wouldn’t call it a throne, they were sitting on an orange bench at the front, there’s pics of it on both their pages

 

[Noonoosanne2]

No! Please tell me they didn’t have thrones at the funeral

Well an orange velour bench type sofa still ott but that’s my personal opinion

 

[Carrington31]

Assuming the owner of the vehicle doesn’t know them, this is very weird

 

[Noonoosanne2]

Assuming the owner of the vehicle doesn’t know them, this is very weird

Eddie Stobarts are well known for naming trucks after people . When I was in Birmingham a few weeks ago I saw two cars with Azalyia stickers in

 

[Kazzie20]

I cant believe people think having a party on your daughters grave is ok. mental

 

[LaurieLaurie]

You’re not allowed any memorial garden like that at our cemetery, they have quite strict rules. There’s a children’s section and they have the most beautiful little graves, poor Azaylias is ridiculous.

 

[Heron1267]

The over the top grave and the daily visits all filmed for social media seems like a very unhealthy trap they’ve got themselves into. What happens when they can’t sustain that/don’t want to go every day/the gifted items dry up? Will they feel compelled to continue the circus because they owe it to their social media followers? I really hope not.

I know it’s been only a few months but this seems such an unhealthy way to grieve. They need to turn the cameras off, shutdown their socials and deal with their family issues in private. I wish peace for them all.

 

[ai2021]

Assuming the owner of the vehicle doesn’t know them, this is very weird

Stobarts always name trucks after people. They have named a few after children who have died

 

[AreYouJoking?]

Did anyone see THENURSEMUM had a chippy tea and picnic at J’s grave?.
Imagine being there to pay your own respects to a family member and seeing that going on.
And the post box is still there even after the birthday tidy up. For ‘donations’ clearly.
Also for those who know her ‘story’ this poor woman had no one. No friends no family. Yet now we see her constantly surrounded by these people, even hiring a gazebo for his birthday and a firework display. Both of which had a good number of guests attending. The loneliness was all an act.
It’s unpleasant watching the keeping up with the ‘cains’ behaviour.

 

[Laurst]

I agree with the majority of the comments above. I think they need to lay off social media and get help for themselves. What happened with Azalyia was tragic, but filming her being passed around amongst family in her final days when she was clearly so weak and so poorly was really hard to watch. I think raising awareness is incredibly important, but there are ways to do it. I really think they need help themselves before trying to help others by raising awareness. Put the phone down and grieving through social media. Why aren't their families encouraging this?

 

[MamaD]

Did anyone see THENURSEMUM had a chippy tea and picnic at J’s grave?.
Imagine being there to pay your own respects to a family member and seeing that going on.
And the post box is still there even after the birthday tidy up. For ‘donations’ clearly.
Also for those who know her ‘story’ this poor woman had no one. No friends no family. Yet now we see her constantly surrounded by these people, even hiring a gazebo for his birthday and a firework display. Both of which had a good number of guests attending. The loneliness was all an act.
It’s unpleasant watching the keeping up with the ‘cains’ behaviour.

Yes, I always thought she was alone with no help or support, that’s how she portrayed her life. The reason she couldn’t hold down a job, why she needed carers. It’s beyond heartbreaking what happened to her little boy but her truth and reality seem very different. She’d also be best stepping back from social media.

 

[GobShyte64]

Yes, I always thought she was alone with no help or support, that’s how she portrayed her life. The reason she couldn’t hold down a job, why she needed carers. It’s beyond heartbreaking what happened to her little boy but her truth and reality seem very different. She’d also be best stepping back from social media.

At least she has removed the gofundme from her profile now though. Replaced with an email from her agency now I guess. Influencer life. Although when I have googled the "undertheinfluencerlondon" nothing comes up but her page...

 

[turkeydinosaurs]

Was she an influencer before her little boy was around. I don’t know anything about her

 

[Giftinghell]

I agree with the majority of the comments above. I think they need to lay off social media and get help for themselves. What happened with Azalyia was tragic, but filming her being passed around amongst family in her final days when she was clearly so weak and so poorly was really hard to watch. I think raising awareness is incredibly important, but there are ways to do it. I really think they need help themselves before trying to help others by raising awareness. Put the phone down and grieving through social media. Why aren't their families encouraging this?

because Saf and Ashley are their gravy train, sad but true

 

[Noonoosanne2]

because Saf and Ashley are their gravy train, sad but true

Very true, under such awful circumstances you can tell some of them are loving the limelight

 

[Hihello]

They really need professional help, I can't imagine what they're going through but all this anything orange is a sign from azaylia and seeing faces in the clouds is very unhealthy in my opinion. That poor baby got no peace at all even in her last couple of days she was being passed around and danced all around the living room with music booming and a house full of people when it was clear she was very weak and just needed to rest.

 

[Joeyjojo]

They really need professional help, I can't imagine what they're going through but all this anything orange is a sign from azaylia and seeing faces in the clouds is very unhealthy in my opinion. That poor baby got no peace at all even in her last couple of days she was being passed around and danced all around the living room with music booming and a house full of people when it was clear she was very weak and just needed to rest.

I totally agree. Imagine during your final hours there a party going on around you. Laughing, loud music and being moved from person to person. I have young children and would want peace so I could take in every last second of them. I wouldn’t want a party!