Ashley Cain

[Kazzie20]

Which pictures are these? That is so awful if true.

the ones on both of there insta where she very first passed away, her body is yellow and lifeless. awful

 

[Noonoosanne2]

**** I am not a mod but can I please request that nobody shares the photos on here, I know they are public but they are highly sensitive to some on here xx ****

 

[thegirlwho2020]

It’s true and not sure how I feel about it. I believe the pics are still on both his and Safs Instagram.

So from his recent post it looks like ash will be taking part in Celebrity SAS or something. So clearly still chasing that celebrity life he was so desperate to live.

Don’t judge me all ... I was young but I saw Ashley on Ex On The Beach, he was awful. A sexist pig chasing fame. So him still chasing fame isn’t a surprise to me

I’m sure he’s done a lot of growing up since then but I do wonder how nice he really is behind closed doors with Saf

I’ve never followed either of them but I was also surprised at how much over-sharing they’ve done over the last year. Nothing was private and imo that poor baby deserved a little more dignity at the end

 

[jm234]

I don't have any children I can't image the hurt they are going through that poor child never gotone bit of privacy due to her parents there should be a law about this they two need a good shake stay of social media and grieve

 

[Romeo1]

The only pic where azaylia had passed was ones where they are holding her. You cannot see her face and she has a bobble hat on her head.

I dont know why I feel so compelled to write this but here it goes. I dont know these people. But I followed the story of azaylia. She was beautiful. She was their life. Some days I couldn't stop watching because she was so strong and I really thought at times she was going to beat this. Some days I couldn't help but cry because It just smacks you in the face that a baby is dying. But babies are dying of cancer. Right now while I'm mumbling my thoughts on tattle families are going through this. And it's not something I ever truly realised before. I had never seen it. You hear about it but seeing it.......So I could have unfollowed and not watched the sadness. But I'm glad I did and I'm glad they did what they did because the awareness it created. Me and so many of my pals have registered now. Hoping we can help. I wish she could have been saved. I hope they do get the charity up and running and help others. If azaylia passing helps even one child. Then it was not in vain

 

[ash247]

I had to unfollow them. When saf shared a video when Azaylias nose was bleeding in her final days. I felt extremely uncomfortable, That poor baby had no privacy in life and death. Even my mum mentioned to me she felt there Instagram where a bit much. They need to grieve away from social media, It is not real life

I will never ever ever forget the year we watched a baby pass away on Instagram. It was so inappropriate poor Az had no privacy filmed as she was bleeding where was the dignity. I'm all for raising awareness but as a society it's a mess

Truly true oh heartbreaking

I will never ever ever forget the year we watched a baby pass away on Instagram. It was so inappropriate poor Az had no privacy filmed as she was bleeding where was the dignity. I'm all for raising awareness but as a society it's a mess

Truly truly heartbreaking

I can't even imagine how I'd react towards my partner though if I lost my whole world. I can't even imagine the grief , what do you talk about ,maybe it's too raw too painful,to
Try and exist alone then together,if it's possible maybe it's not possible. I don't know how the family dynamic is but no matter what how on earth can the mum fall out with her daughter she surely gets a pass ,to be however,to say whatever,her mum is nowhere to be seen,I know we don't see it all,my empathy is so strong towards them,because I followed the journey,but I had to block it a bit too because I couldn't handle the thought of what they were going through,I sobbed the news she passed,it was something that come over me,I struggled for days to get it out my head,that's a grain of salt in a huge pot of salt that they live in,I just can't. The cemetery,a thought that entered my head was the other resting place's,if I was visiting my loved one might I feel intimidated yes,but that's me. I also can't cope with balloons being released because of innocent wildlife being injured - but again ,small grains of salt to me.

As a parent who has lost a child I can tell you myself and now ex grieved completely differently. We grieved separately whilst living under the same roof. I was very open with the whole ordeal where as he was the opposite. He wouldn’t talk to me about his thoughts and feelings and didn’t want to listen to mine. So that was that, 6 months later we split after a decade together.

 

[Book]

Don’t judge me all ... I was young but I saw Ashley on Ex On The Beach, he was awful. A sexist pig chasing fame. So him still chasing fame isn’t a surprise to me

I’m sure he’s done a lot of growing up since then but I do wonder how nice he really is behind closed doors with Saf

I’ve never followed either of them but I was also surprised at how much over-sharing they’ve done over the last year. Nothing was private and imo that poor baby deserved a little more dignity at the end

Trust me when I say he hasn’t changed! Still as hungry for fame and fortune a

**** I am not a mod but can I please request that nobody shares the photos on here, I know they are public but they are highly sensitive to some on here xx ****

Pretty sure no one would repost the pictures

Her mum posts things on her Instagram about narcissistic personalities now I don’t know if she means herself or someone else. Obviously a lot has gone on behind closed doors between them. The photos were very very hard to look at and I don’t think people realise that Azalyia had actually passed in them. I know a leopard can change its spots and he says his exercising for his mental health but to be honest I hear anger & aggression in his voice every time he speaks, what good is he going to be when he seems angry with himself there’s one thing keeping yourself fit it’s another exhausting and killing yourself. I doubt very much he would listen to anyone though and those closest to him must see it. His very angry with the world which is understandable I would be to but his going to crash and burn massively there’s only so much your body can take. I’ve never lost a child but I’ve lost people very very close to me including a brother who was a child so I’ve saw my parents grieve they grieved together as they were the only ones who understood what each were going through. My mum ended up in a psyc hospital due & dad visited every single day but he got her through it,
Sorry for derailing

I would hazard a guess that the narcissistic comments are about Ashley. I mean even without k owing what is to be known about him. The constant pictures and videos of himself have and are very very narcissistic

Her mum posts things on her Instagram about narcissistic personalities now I don’t know if she means herself or someone else. Obviously a lot has gone on behind closed doors between them. The photos were very very hard to look at and I don’t think people realise that Azalyia had actually passed in them. I know a leopard can change its spots and he says his exercising for his mental health but to be honest I hear anger & aggression in his voice every time he speaks, what good is he going to be when he seems angry with himself there’s one thing keeping yourself fit it’s another exhausting and killing yourself. I doubt very much he would listen to anyone though and those closest to him must see it. His very angry with the world which is understandable I would be to but his going to crash and burn massively there’s only so much your body can take. I’ve never lost a child but I’ve lost people very very close to me including a brother who was a child so I’ve saw my parents grieve they grieved together as they were the only ones who understood what each were going through. My mum ended up in a psyc hospital due & dad visited every single day but he got her through it,
Sorry for derailing

I mean I’d throw it out there and guess her mom is talking about Ashley. Even without what people know him for and about him. The constant pics and videos have and are and no doubt always will be massively narcissistic I just hope Saf isn’t missing out on her mom because of him

 

[SunshineRae]

Is her Mum’s recent post about the huge salary charity CEO get a dig about Ashley??
I can’t work her out. You’d think she’d be doing everything to get back into Saf’s life.

 

[Laurawright]

I hope Saf and her mom can hopefully patch things up a good support system really makes a difference

 

[DreamyGal]

Is her Mum’s recent post about the huge salary charity CEO get a dig about Ashley??
I can’t work her out. You’d think she’d be doing everything to get back into Saf’s life.

What’s her mums insta?

this whole obsession with exercise will just cause burnout

 

[Allmyownopinion]

Is her Mum’s recent post about the huge salary charity CEO get a dig about Ashley??
I can’t work her out. You’d think she’d be doing everything to get back into Saf’s life.

I haven’t seen that comment, but that’s why I really disagree with them setting up their own charity, they 100% should have donated every penny raised for azalea to an existing children’s cancer charity as a lot of money is swallowed up setting up a new charity, not to mention he will be taking a big wage for running it! Which, I do hate to say, but think this is why he refused to donate it. If an existing charity received such a generous donation in the baby’s name, they would have honoured her & her legacy would be recognised that way, so don’t buy his excuse for needing a separate charity for this reason either! It’s just all about him & believe me I have first hand experience of this situation, my close friend lost his little boy & he does charity events/runs in his name but has never once made everything about him, that is not part of any grieving process I’m familiar with…….

 

[Book]

I haven’t seen that comment, but that’s why I really disagree with them setting up their own charity, they 100% should have donated every penny raised for azalea to an existing children’s cancer charity as a lot of money is swallowed up setting up a new charity, not to mention he will be taking a big wage for running it! Which, I do hate to say, but think this is why he refused to donate it. If an existing charity received such a generous donation in the baby’s name, they would have honoured her & her legacy would be recognised that way, so don’t buy his excuse for needing a separate charity for this reason either! It’s just all about him & believe me I have first hand experience of this situation, my close friend lost his little boy & he does charity events/runs in his name but has never once made everything about him, that is not part of any grieving process I’m familiar with…….

Exactly all of this only now are we allowed to voice our opinions on the fact that they have in effect kept all the money donated. Its disgusting when there are children and their families who could so benefit right this second from even a small amount of what is public donations

 

[Londondiva]

Exactly all of this only now are we allowed to voice our opinions on the fact that they have in effect kept all the money donated. Its disgusting when there are children and their families who could so benefit right this second from even a small amount of what is public donations

It’s still accepting donations now . Should it not maybe be closed now?

 

[Book]

It’s still accepting donations now . Should it not maybe be closed now?

Or at very least explain exactly juts where all of the money will be going and why

 

[thegirlwho2020]

Feel sorry for anyone that donated a big amount tbh. Surely you’d be fair in questioning them why it’s still taking money and what their actual plans are in regards to a charity?

 

[geeforthetea]

I haven’t seen that comment, but that’s why I really disagree with them setting up their own charity, they 100% should have donated every penny raised for azalea to an existing children’s cancer charity as a lot of money is swallowed up setting up a new charity, not to mention he will be taking a big wage for running it! Which, I do hate to say, but think this is why he refused to donate it. If an existing charity received such a generous donation in the baby’s name, they would have honoured her & her legacy would be recognised that way, so don’t buy his excuse for needing a separate charity for this reason either! It’s just all about him & believe me I have first hand experience of this situation, my close friend lost his little boy & he does charity events/runs in his name but has never once made everything about him, that is not part of any grieving process I’m familiar with…….

I agree and I'd hate to think he was using the money to fund his lifestyle at the moment. I mean I'm not saying it's extravagant but he did say when he set up the fund raising page that himself and safiya had to make financial sacrifices hence asking for the money for treatment and to support them while they were there, so I'd imagine he's not got much in the way of savings or anything left. He's not working and is out on the bike or training most days so they money must be coming from somewhere. I just think there must be a child somewhere waiting for that treatment, donate the money now instead of waiting a year to set up a charity, which like you say eats in to those funds. I just think it's donations, others people's money, if you're not going to donate directly to help another child then at least offer a refund, yeah most folk won't take it but he's sort of claimed it as his own for what he see's fit, it's a lot of money. I'm sure he said go fund me had ring fenced it so I might be way off.

 

[Book]

I agree and I'd hate to think he was using the money to fund his lifestyle at the moment. I mean I'm not saying it's extravagant but he did say when he set up the fund raising page that himself and safiya had to make financial sacrifices hence asking for the money for treatment and to support them while they were there, so I'd imagine he's not got much in the way of savings or anything left. He's not working and is out on the bike or training most days so they money must be coming from somewhere. I just think there must be a child somewhere waiting for that treatment, donate the money now instead of waiting a year to set up a charity, which like you say eats in to those funds. I just think it's donations, others people's money, if you're not going to donate directly to help another child then at least offer a refund, yeah most folk won't take it but he's sort of claimed it as his own for what he see's fit, it's a lot of money. I'm sure he said go fund me had ring fenced it so I might be way off.

Exactly and he’s back on the constant bragging of living the high life. New trainers constantly etc. They could be gifted but he is happy to let the world see him as having money to burn again! Not ok IMO I mean it was gross before the go fund me but now it’s just taking the mick

 

[Romeo1]

I think I'll give them the chance and see how the charity pans out

 

[BettySpaghetty]

I found it odd that he and his brother chose to get a chauffer driver car with an xbox in the back to Plymouth rather than one of them driving... just seemed like an unnecessary luxurious expense

 

[Romeo1]

He said in his stories that that was the company he was meeting ( think it's sports related) they sent that out to them