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I was thinking that these groups put the foundation website in their bio should I really state they aren’t affiliated with them as it’s quite misleading getting everyone thinking they are official
Yeah they need to stop linking to the foundation and some of them even have the foundation logo as their profile photos which HMRC will see as them using the foundation to boost sales. There are all sorts of legal ramifications now, will be hard to rein in those accounts
 
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I just don't get why you'd want a photo of a seriously ill and now deceased baby in your home
 
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I just stumbled across this thread and I’m so glad I’m not the only one that’s noticed how they’re completely grieving apart.
I had no idea who Ashley was before the video he put out about the bone marrow transplant. I started following Saffiya shortly after and my heart bleeds for her. As a mother I cannot bare to think about loosing one of my babies. It’s so unfair on her that Ashley gets all the attention as if he’s a single parent. It really winds me up for her. As many of you have said it’s like she’s just a stranger amongst the crowd. Even the funeral his family all posted about what a great dad he is but never mentioned or posted a pic with Saffiya. Yes they’re his family but she’s her mother and it seems that means nothing. I really hope for her that her grieving gets easier - if that’s even possible and that she opens her eyes and realises that she deserves so much more.
 
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know it’s not the same because we didn’t get to make any memories with our baby . But when we suffered a loss and we went home without our baby I was so numb . But my partner was amazing . He never left me apart from work . I understand everyone grieves differently but I do feel ash is not showing any effects on to saf and it’s so obvious. The funeral he didn’t hold her that’s when I thought something wasn’t right because I’m pretty sure every man would hold their women and mother if their child in the day they lay them to rest . I just wanted to give her such a big hug she needed that . Then ever since he’s always away from her it’s so sad . I know people say but we don’t see every minute but when she’s sharing story’s at three in the morning he’s not near her im sorry but no way would my partner leave me crying in another room ….
 
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yep same. And other than that it seemed like perfectly normal interaction to me. I 'm not really seeing the problems others are.
To me they seem at ease with one another and yes both are grieving, in different ways but also in very similar ways. It's to be expected. Some are saying Saf needs to be alone and sit and grieve, when she does just that then others are saying she should be distracted and not left by herself. It's heartbreaking either way I just send my best wishes without question. I think they are both doing really, really well.
yes!!!! Why do people think two broken people should spend every waking moment together grieving. The sensible thing to do is find your own support network and do what it takes to get through each day until you’re both strong enough to re-connect. At this moment in time their relationship unfortunately isn’t a priority. Stopping themselves from absolutely crumbling is. I do feel for Saf as she’s obviously not got as many people around her but I do think Ashley’s family support her much more than we see on social media
 
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You really need to go on the Rave thread. You are clearly just here to disagree with everyone else and quite frankly, you are coming across as rude, passive aggressive and a tad obsessed with Ashley and Saf. Go to the rave thread. Seriously. You dont get to try mod everyone else in this thread.
Of course I don't get to try and mod, no one does. Definitely wouldn't rave about them as I'm not a fan personally but neither am I a hater nor do I agree with everything I read and that's perfectly fine :)
 
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I just stumbled across this thread and I’m so glad I’m not the only one that’s noticed how they’re completely grieving apart.
I had no idea who Ashley was before the video he put out about the bone marrow transplant. I started following Saffiya shortly after and my heart bleeds for her. As a mother I cannot bare to think about loosing one of my babies. It’s so unfair on her that Ashley gets all the attention as if he’s a single parent. It really winds me up for her. As many of you have said it’s like she’s just a stranger amongst the crowd. Even the funeral his family all posted about what a great dad he is but never mentioned or posted a pic with Saffiya. Yes they’re his family but she’s her mother and it seems that means nothing. I really hope for her that her grieving gets easier - if that’s even possible and that she opens her eyes and realises that she deserves so much more.
Welcome 👋

Yet again , another arrival where Saf tries to engage with him
 
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Just landed? He’s about 5 years younger here. Ashley no more wants Saff than the man on the moon, he just can’t end things with her because of his public image. How could he stand so cold and not even put his arm around the mother who birthed his child while burying the poor child. It’s vile and I know the mother is a bit on the crazy side but when it comes to your daughter you’d do crazy things.
 
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Just landed? He’s about 5 years younger here. Ashley no more wants Saff than the man on the moon, he just can’t end things with her because of his public image. How could he stand so cold and not even put his arm around the mother who birthed his child while burying the poor child. It’s vile and I know the mother is a bit on the crazy side but when it comes to your daughter you’d do crazy things.
Thankyou for this comment , I don’t think he realises how cold he is being. Saf is trying her very hardest & it’s heartbreaking to watch
 
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What on earth was all that on the stories dishing out t shirts and stuff with people flocking like vultures
 
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Cannot believe people were walking in front of Saf trying to greet and hug Ashley before she could, even if he isn’t affectionate with her still doesn’t give anyone else the right to walk ahead in-front of her!! Does nobody have any consideration for this poor lady. To the point she had to ask them to stop fgs
 
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I cringed at Saf’s insta vid when they all gathered to see Ash and she’s telling them basically to move and even when she got to the front he didn’t acknowledge her 😩

Cannot believe people were walking in front of Saf trying to greet and hug Ashley before she could, even if he isn’t affectionate with her still doesn’t give anyone else the right to walk ahead in-front of her!! Does nobody have any consideration for this poor lady. To the point she had to ask them to stop fgs
ah you got there first!
 
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Cannot believe people were walking in front of Saf trying to greet and hug Ashley before she could, even if he isn’t affectionate with her still doesn’t give anyone else the right to walk ahead in-front of her!! Does nobody have any consideration for this poor lady. To the point she had to ask them to stop fgs
People think they own a piece of this couple now,it’s bleeping weird
 
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Long time lurker, hey 👋 here because I just listened to the podcast and had to check Instagram to see whether they’re still a couple. Honestly thought they were amicably separated.

Ashley makes me feel very uncomfortable. The stardom that he seems to be generating from this terrible experience doesn’t sit right with me, especially as he was always a bit of a Z lister. It doesn’t feel like this is about charity fundraising at all, more like a way to up his status.
 
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This is turning into such an odd spectacle isn’t it?
It’s becoming like when celebrities release a book and go on a book tour. I’m sorry it’s no longer raising awareness for childhood cancer and it’s no longer about raising funds for whatever they’ve said they will apparently do with it. It’s now about raising Ashley’s status and him trying to remove the crappy imagine he made for himself when he was desperately trying to be a celeb
 
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It’s becoming like when celebrities release a book and go on a book tour. I’m sorry it’s no longer raising awareness for childhood cancer and it’s no longer about raising funds for whatever they’ve said they will apparently do with it. It’s now about raising Ashley’s status and him trying to remove the crappy imagine he made for himself when he was desperately trying to be a celeb
agreed - it’s like he’s becoming the weirdest Demi god to these fans rather than supporters. Not sure they seem to get/remember the actual aim of it all? The fact they’re all so obsessive with Ashley and forget the mother of the child doesn’t sit well with me, at this rate she’s going to be muscled out of her own child’s legacy.
 
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