Sadly I think they’re just keeping it together for the public
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I think people are putting a lot of pressure on them to be together and act like a normal couple? Having a terminally ill baby, i can only imagine the strain and stress that would have on a relationship. I doubt they have been a together properly as a COUPLE since before As diagnosis. They are suffering as individuals, both of them are obviously depressed. Like i wouldn't be surprised if they had some form of PTSD and i think they are so used to being apart from each other and spending all their time at hospital that they have just forgotten how to be a couple, if that makes sense.
True but it’s not hard to hug your partner when you’re hugging strangers
Video at breakfast he doesn’t look interested. Saf is the sweetest soul I honestly think she’s none the wiser
He looks absolutely shattered!! I reckon its all starting to catch up… once he reaches Scotland he’ll burn out. I think he will push himself to Scotland so he doesnt Feel like he’s letting anyone down & then he’ll crash
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To be fair though he was eating, I’d hate it if I got a camera shoved in my face when I’ve got a mouthful of food.
yep same. And other than that it seemed like perfectly normal interaction to me. I 'm not really seeing the problems others are.
To me they seem at ease with one another and yes both are grieving, in different ways but also in very similar ways. It's to be expected. Some are saying Saf needs to be alone and sit and grieve, when she does just that then others are saying she should be distracted and not left by herself. It's heartbreaking either way I just send my best wishes without question. I think they are both doing really, really well.
I can see them breaking eventually sadly & I think they might go their own ways. I hope not though , they’re both really strong
I sometimes notice it when people say Ash "isn't interested" in Saf, but then I think these tiny video clips are literally seconds out of a 24 hr day so its ridiculous to assume anything. Like yesterday people moaned that he doesn't hug Saf, then when he does hug her at the finish line they say it wasn't a good enough hug
I thought the hug was lovely, it was really intense and emotional! Just because he didn't wrap his arms around her doesnt mean it didnt wasn't a beautiful moment between them.Just seems she gives more than him , he acts much different with strangers to his own girlfriend & the mother of Azaylia ( which he tends to forget ie never mentioning Saf when he speaks )I sometimes notice it when people say Ash "isn't interested" in Saf, but then I think these tiny video clips are literally seconds out of a 24 hr day so its ridiculous to assume anything. Like yesterday people moaned that he doesn't hug Saf, then when he does hug her at the finish line they say it wasn't a good enough hug
He didn’t hug her at the finish line though. It was her that rushed over and hugged him. She was sitting eating room service whilst he was at a nice restaurant with his brother. He stayed in a room with his brother when he’s barely spent time with her in days.I sometimes notice it when people say Ash "isn't interested" in Saf, but then I think these tiny video clips are literally seconds out of a 24 hr day so its ridiculous to assume anything. Like yesterday people moaned that he doesn't hug Saf, then when he does hug her at the finish line they say it wasn't a good enough hug
yeah we only see them together for a few minutes but the rest of the day he’s cycling. The way he speaks about Azalia if you didn’t know them you could easily mistake that he was a single father
It’s a difficult one for me because Ashley cain has never been a nice person and I don’t believe he’s changed that much. He was an amazing dad and is clearly grieving I think they both need to get some professional help and grieve however they both want. If Saf wants to cry she should be allowed to rather than being told she has to be strong. She absolutely doesn’t have to be strong
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Totally agree with all this , he’s still the same egotistical man. All about him , like someone else said , the Ashley Cain show
Really fed up of hearing "Let's go champs"
Also, in regards to comments about Saf and Ashley as a couple. Maybe he is finding it difficult to be around her because it is a reminder of their daughter and the pain they suffered and still suffering. Everyone grieves differently, some struggle to console their partner and be there for them. Yet they find relief in strangers. It is difficult to say.
Best wishes to them both whether they continue to stay together or separate.
Also, in regards to comments about Saf and Ashley as a couple. Maybe he is finding it difficult to be around her because it is a reminder of their daughter and the pain they suffered and still suffering. Everyone grieves differently, some struggle to console their partner and be there for them. Yet they find relief in strangers. It is difficult to say.
Best wishes to them both whether they continue to stay together or separate.
I’m confused so they raised over a million so what is that being used for ? . Also why are they raising money when a million could do so much now . And why did they only donate 20k to the hospital that’s hardly anything really especially with over a million raised . I would Much rarther see them helping families that bike rides and fundraising because they already have enough cash to make a difference .
I grin & bear it now when I hear “let’s go champs” so draining
We’ll have to wait & see , apparently they’ve got loads of plans up coming
That’s what I’m trying to say , how can you show more affection to strangers ??
if You can’t see the problems everyone else is seeing then I really don’t know what to say. It’s blindingly obvious! As I’ve said in another message, my boyfriend at times acts towards me as Ashley does with saf. And numerous of my friends have noticed it from the “snippets”I post online. But they’re right, because he is dismissive of me sometimes. But that’s another story.
When they were on Lorraine or whatever they were on, or maybe the podcast - she broke down in tears and he just sat there. Not even so much as a reassuring hand on leg or shoulder. Nothing. He IS dismissive of her, it’s blindingly obvious.
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