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Couldn't agree with you more on this, everything in the house is a reminder of his daughters death, including Saff.not that her life/ death is not on his mind every second of the day but physical reminders there also
But he’s happy to leave Saf to go back to that house everyday while he has people fawning over him on social media? She’s been completely forgotten in this, like she was a human incubator and nothing more, it’s truly heartbreaking that complete disregard to her
 
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But he’s happy to leave Saf to go back to that house everyday while he has people fawning over him on social media? She’s been completely forgotten in this, like she was a human incubator and nothing more, it’s truly heartbreaking that complete disregard to her
Even the story Danny’s just put on Safs next to him and his engrossed in his phone
 
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I think it would really benefit Saf (and Ash) if she could meet up with other mums that are in similar positions and have lost their babies, like a little comfort/support group. It breaks my heart how lonely she must be.

It’s heartbreaking for both of them, however at the moment this bike challenge is consuming Ash’s life.
 
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I do think it’s amazing raising awareness and raising the money, but it really breaks my heart thinking of all the other children and families that have dealt with cancer and they get no recognition
 
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I do think it’s amazing raising awareness and raising the money, but it really breaks my heart thinking of all the other children and families that have dealt with cancer and they get no recognition
Sadly you only get the awareness if your a celebrity/well known or a celebrity/news outlet/organisation shares your story. Cancer affects millions of people. All ages, all races. It doesn’t discriminate. Some people are always going to have more awareness and recognition than others.
As unfair as it is, that’s life :cry:

But I’ve said it before on this thread, here’s hoping that the Azaylia foundation helps so many families and poorly babies in need.
 
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I feel sad that she has to be home alone with no support when her brother isn’t there but it could help her in the long run. She’s learning to be strong and pick herself up, probably allowing herself to cry and grieve while he isn’t there to tell her to put a brave face on. Ashley is just running away from it all and will crash.

Regarding her mum.. We have no idea what she’s really like. Not everyone has a good mum worth having a relationship with.
 
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Your comment is really not in the spirit of staying safe and protecting the NHS! Current advice is to continue to social distance and wear a mask in crowded spaces. The government allow us to make sensible decisions that respect our own safety and those around us. I guess that's the point.....
Everyone is trying to get back to normal. If people choose to continue to wear masks etc that’s fine but that’s no longer the rules
 
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Just putting this out there. We don’t know what goes off once there doors are shut and the cameras stop rolling. Maybe ash and saf are all affectionate once the camera has stopped rolling. Maybe ash feels he can’t show his true emotions because ppl will call him out for it !!
 
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He’s a broken man, she’s a broken woman. Two broken people can’t always heal each other. I honestly think they love each other but are just trying to get by each day. In that video from earlier today, Ashley’s head rests into Safs neck...he didn’t even return the hug from his mother. Might just be the fact he’s completely shattered!!!
 
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He’s a broken man, she’s a broken woman. Two broken people can’t always heal each other. I honestly think they love each other but are just trying to get by each day. In that video from earlier today, Ashley’s head rests into Safs neck...he didn’t even return the hug from his mother. Might just be the fact he’s completely shattered!!!
I would buy that if it wasn’t for his following of other women.😡
 
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But he’s happy to leave Saf to go back to that house everyday while he has people fawning over him on social media? She’s been completely forgotten in this, like she was a human incubator and nothing more, it’s truly heartbreaking that complete disregard to her
I wasn't disregarding Saff in any way,I was just saying that I think he sees her as a physical reminder,they are grieving very differently and I feel so so sorry for her.
 
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Some of the comments on Saf’s live just now were horrendous! Obviously troll accounts but my gosh the amount of legit accounts asking if/when they’re planning on another baby. WHY SHOULD IT BE ANYONES BUSINESS? Some people literally wouldn’t know what compassion was if it jumped up and bit them in the face! Also she said the boys were next door, having not shared a bed with my partner in a while I’d most definitely want to be lying next to him!
 

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Oh Jesus that is horrendous and such a shame as she really does use this a coping mechanism. I know that one particular comment must of really got to her deeply but I wish she wouldn’t respond as that’s what the trolls feed off and unfortunately if people click on to the fact she will respond to trolling I fear it will just get worse everyone trying to get a reaction…..any kind of reaction. That poor girl looks at her following as a family and all she’s getting from them is stupid questions about getting married and having babies and just some down right vile comments. I guess that’s the dark side to social Media. Poor girl. She needs some real ride or die friends around her where are they all?
 
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Everyone is trying to get back to normal. If people choose to continue to wear masks etc that’s fine but that’s no longer the rules
Yes you're right, it's not the "rules" ...... its current "advice" as I stated. Also still current advice is to stay 2m apart. It's just for those who don't want to either get the virus or be responsible for spreading it ....putting the associated strain on the NHS and those who work in it - clearly not everyone falls into these categories.
 
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View attachment 747810Some of the comments on Saf’s live just now were horrendous! Obviously troll accounts but my gosh the amount of legit accounts asking if/when they’re planning on another baby. WHY SHOULD IT BE ANYONES BUSINESS? Some people literally wouldn’t know what compassion was if it jumped up and bit them in the face! Also she said the boys were next door, having not shared a bed with my partner in a while I’d most definitely want to be lying next to him!
The comments were awful 😢 that’s her baby why should she ever just get over it!

On another note can someone explain the family dinamics to me.

So Alissia and Ashley are Vickys children ? They have their fathers surname cain ?

Matty has a different mom ? But same dad doesn’t share the cain surname ?

But Vicky always calls matty her son and Anaya is her grandchild ?

It’s so confusing sorry I know totally random.

And there’s another little boy who is vickys grandson but who is the mother/father
 
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Yes you're right, it's not the "rules" ...... its current "advice" as I stated. Also still current advice is to stay 2m apart. It's just for those who don't want to either get the virus or be responsible for spreading it ....putting the associated strain on the NHS and those who work in it - clearly not everyone falls into these categories.
It’s not though is it because theatres are open, cinemas are open, football is open, people are packed onto tubes again. You can’t say people trying to get back to normal life are responsible for spreading the virus or want to catch it.
 
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In recent stories.. Ashley is holding onto someone for a cuddle like his life depends on it and he’s all smiles for the new girl joining them. The expression on his face when he is around Saf is like a zombie.
 
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I watched another angle of when he arrived yesterday and she cuddled him and tbf he was holiding in tears as his mum hugged him aswell and he was just looking down and then he started crying so maybe his just so exhausted and overwhelmed and possibly finding it a lot harder than he thought but it’s bit odd they wouldn’t re jig where his brother is sleeping in with Ashley so they could at least share a room together for the night would of been the normal thing to do surely
 
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I don’t think they share a room at home. When she can’t sleep and makes stories during the night she seems to be alone.
 
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