Ashley Cain #2

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I've been where they have been almost identical circumstances. My child died too. Please let's stop this thread. It really won't help anyone ESPECIALLY not saff
The thread started out of concern for both of these. A lot of posters have also been in similar circumstances. Unfortunately they’ve documented their lives on a social platform publicly & people are going to have opinions. Everyone is in support of Safiya & we are genuinely worried about her. I’m so sorry for your loss.
 
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Then it will be onto the next challenge..!
He will want to go bigger and ‘better’ each time.
I can imagine a mountain climb of some kind, international…would be amazing to take some other mums or dads who’ve been through something similar with him
 
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Am I the only one thinking about the covid-spreading risks of travelling city to city hugging young possibly unvaccinated females? (I know quote a few 20-30 year olds still have only had one vaccination) .
 
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Am I the only one thinking about the covid-spreading risks of travelling city to city hugging young possibly unvaccinated females? (I know quote a few 20-30 year olds still have only had one vaccination) .
Sorry don’t agree. Restrictions are lifted and can go to festivals with 10,000s of people so hugging some doesn’t matter. Plus the vaccine isn’t going to stop you catching covid only getting bad symptoms so if he’s hugging other females my only issue is hopefully it’s not disrespectful to his grieving girlfriend
 
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I had to stop following these 2 at the time of A’s passing because the whole circus was in my view disrespectful, you could see that poor baby deteriorating each day and they were bouncing her about all over social media, on my sick days the last thing I would want is a camera in my face for millions to see and at this point it was t raising awareness it was for attention and for all these thousands of people that did not know her to watch her death. Continuing after her death with the pictures and the cemetery circus again was in bad taste, imagine your child being buried nearby, a place that should be peaceful and respectful but turned into some sort of show every single day.
thrpughout the whole thing I wondered were they both still together, ashley seemed to be the one in control, he rarely shared anything about saff andnever Mentioned we it was all about him, I do Think a charity is a good thing and probably the only good thing I’ve seen from this pair, I don’t think it’s fair that another child or family going through similar would never have been able to raise such large amounts of funds for treatment and that’s something that should change.
I haven’t lost a child and I can only imagine the grief is heartbreaking every single day but I do t think social media is the place to be doing it.
These 2 have always wanted to be insta famous and it’s sad that it’s only because of the death of a baby. The majority of people following them grief thief’s.
I am going to go back and read ashley’s threads because I didn’t realise they were still there. Does saff have a thread now?
 
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I’ve just come across this, I’m so glad I’m not the only one who thinks exactly the same as you guys. It’s such a shame for her. No one will understand how she’s feeling - she’s the only one who carried Azaylia for 9 months and gave birth to her. And her feelings seem so forgotten about!
 
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I feel that her family or Ashley’s family need to step in take her away let her grieve show her all the love she deserves 💔 I’m praying she makes it back up with her mom, she was a big part in her life before they fell out
What happened with her mom? Did they fall out? I didn’t even know!
 
People do lands end to John o’groats for charity aaaaall the time, I know someone doing it right now and they are a couple of days ahead of Ashley, it doesn’t cost the earth and a sponsor probably WILL cover all of not most of it. That’s the whole point of a sponsor and if businesses are happy to gift them a room along the way to raise their own profile then so be it, most cyclists have to do shack up in cheap b&bs every night
Who’s the sponsor? What does the sponsor cover?
 
I just wanted to say I loved watching azaylia journey until the end which was so sad 😞

I’ve always found it off how ash treats saf now I know everyone gives different but even at the funeral he didn’t hold her it Was sad to see and I completely agree with her mother on that when she said nobody held her daughter and she could only watch her . Since the funeral he can’t bear to be near saf and it’s horrible to see . I don’t think this relationship will last much longer it’s all about him . her Brother is her rock but he has his own family and work he can’t keep being by her side it should be Ashley . She looks so lost 😞

did anybody notice on the podcast they did he said he got saf and told her in this room you laugh smile etc etc but the way he was saying it didn’t sit right with me it’s almost like he’s controlling and will not let her cry . As strong as you want to be you will cry when you hear a doctor say things . I was in alder hey and my baby was poorly and when the doctor told us things I often cried so ash had no rights to say in that room she does not cry or look down . It’s natural to not be ok
 
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Will be interesting to see how they react to each other at the finish line. The support seems to be growing so I expect it to be massive at the end, wonder if he will finally show S some affection after not seeing her her for nearly 3 weeks or take the glory with his adoring fans
 
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Saff is just holding it together as best as she can. Her brother is her rock, without him - she's got nothing. Even when they dropped the donation off at the childrens hospital, It was all Ash and his family and then Saf.. Danny was probably there too as I can tell he's not a fan of the limelight but it seems like Danny is all she has.

I feel like they both will crash & burn. They are just over loading themselves with this charity & giving themselves projects and constantly having things to do and things to work towards... they will need a break before they burnout, and when that break comes.. I don't think it's gonna be pretty... All smiles on insta tho.
 
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What happened with her mom? Did they fall out? I didn’t even know!
They fell out over her mom setting up a page and receiving gifts for Azaylia she was then accused of stealing the gifts by Ash and Saf which was untrue, then the mom dumped them on her doorstep when she was stopped from seeing Azaylia
 
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They fell out over her mom setting up a page and receiving gifts for Azaylia she was then accused of stealing the gifts by Ash and Saf which was untrue, then the mom dumped them on her doorstep when she was stopped from seeing Azaylia
Oh wow I never knew this. Really feel for Saf, she really needs her mom at a time like this.
 
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Some women a bit touchy feely when they’ve arrived - latest Azaylia Foundation stories
Straight away I thought covid! Women all over him. I half expected one of the crew to say get off him because let’s face it he never would! Any attention is good attention isn’t it…even off fag ash lil!
 
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