Ashley Cain #2

[Book]

Someone implied he was dining out on his daughters death which I wholeheartedly disagree with. I followed him from EXOTB days and he was a full on dickhead. Hated the guy. Then Azaylia came along and he completely changed for the better - he grew up and it was nice to see.

Except for the part where he continues to follow models and porn stars. And continues to post half naked pics of himself all the way through

 

[Pansypotts]

Weirdos

These are the people that really worry me. Why would you want quite frankly very disturbed people idolising your baby that has passed away? I don’t get it. Obviously I don’t know what it’s like but I think I would want her face and pictures of her kept private for me and her dad. I dunno it’s so odd

 

[queenpoppy27]

I would HATE to be and hope I’m NEVER in their position. But I can safely say that if anything like this ever happened to me and my partner tried to push me into exercising that would just push me away from him. Safiyya doesn’t strike me as a gym bunny, she’s curvy and looks beautiful as she is! But it’s like she’s pushing herself to do this because it’s what Ashley does, and if he is pushing her away due to grief she would be doing these bike rides etc to try and prove herself to him. There’s absolutely no need for it!

 

[Blue raspberry slush pupp]

Cannot believe people were walking in front of Saf trying to greet and hug Ashley before she could, even if he isn’t affectionate with her still doesn’t give anyone else the right to walk ahead in-front of her!! Does nobody have any consideration for this poor lady. To the point she had to ask them to stop fgs

People think they own a piece of this couple now,it’s fucking weird

 

[rowdyroddy]

I think people are putting a lot of pressure on them to be together and act like a normal couple? Having a terminally ill baby, i can only imagine the strain and stress that would have on a relationship. I doubt they have been a together properly as a COUPLE since before As diagnosis. They are suffering as individuals, both of them are obviously depressed. Like i wouldn't be surprised if they had some form of PTSD and i think they are so used to being apart from each other and spending all their time at hospital that they have just forgotten how to be a couple, if that makes sense.

 

[msvilla12]

on safs live now she said ashley deosnt wasnt her to do the last mile of the bike ride even though she wants too... like doesnt this just prove its all about him... like theres like 3 other people doing it too but the mother of the baby who this is all about isnt allowed like what

This

Ashley just wants to be in control. This isn’t a bike RACE. It doesn’t matter how slow she is, she wants to contribute in some way. It’s heartbreaking to watch.

 

[Goldfish]

I do think it’s amazing raising awareness and raising the money, but it really breaks my heart thinking of all the other children and families that have dealt with cancer and they get no recognition

 

[getmeoutofhere]

Why are they leaving places so late in the day. Surely it’s safer to leave earlier so they aren’t cycling in the dark and can get to their hotels eat and rest and get an early night.

riding behind a van with music blaring out and crowds chanting let’s go champ at 10/11pm at night is just not needed.

 

[GobShyte64]

The video on azaylia charity page shows them hugging. I would say prob her more hugging him , but he was very emotional

My eyes always wel up when I see how emotional he gets. It's like a mixture of being overwhelmed at the crowds & grief. Plus he's gonna be knackered & must be emotionally exhausted too. Imagine what goes through his head. Riding up the country, feeling physical and emotional pain wouldnt be anywhere near the amount of pain his daughter no doubt went through with the chemo they said she was on..

God bless her. What a cruel world we live in when children die of cancer & other diseases & illnesses.

 

[noseynopinions]

Fucking cringe View attachment 752355

I don't want to be that person but Azaylia couldn't talk in life so how does this happen now

 

[gigilouxx]

That cousin who's there is a wannabe influencer I think. She's standing about with a bucket looking like a UFC ring girl

 

[Ekathrina]

I have no opinions on them as people - I don’t know much about them other than he comes across as a bit egotistical and full of himself.
The whole thing seems awfully cultish though. It reminds me a bit of how people behaved about that other sick baby, Alfie Evans, with the chanting, the slogans and the merchandise. It’s some kind of grief tourism, a quasi-religious fervour. It seems to appeal to the same kind of demographic as well.

 

[Noonoosanne2]

Sorry but this made me laugh. You just know 99% of these obsessed people haven’t worked a day in their lives but feel as if they’re contributing to society by being weirdly obsessed with a baby that died who they never knew. When Azaylia was sick I will admit I cried at some of the snaps and in the end I had to unfollow both of them as I’ve a baby born a month after Azaylia and seeing her deteriorate really was fucking with my head. But these people who are obsessed, I dunno I’ve just no words. Like yeah, a baby u didn’t know who sadly passed away helped you win a teddy. Fuck off!

There’s been comments like my baby talks to Azalyia every day or my child sees an orange sky and knows it’s Azalyia, why would you drum this into your own child, or does it not actually happen and they are just hoping for a like from safiya or Ashley !! Also I hope to god all them balloons weren’t released ! Sorry I keep mentioning balloons and getting on my high horse!

 

[ash247]

Does Saff have any friends apart from Ashleys family? From the outside looking in, it looks like abuse

isolate her from her friends & family. Only allowing her to communicate with people he deems suitable. Cause a rift with the mum and cut her off. She won’t take meds - could be a personal choice, could also be ash saying you dont need pills, just exercise more. She’s gained weight & he follows all the models on insta which probably does nothing for her self esteem. He seems cold towards her. There’s no affection in his voice. His body language around Saff is closed. Its like, she just exists. I bet she was hoping the charity would give her a purpose but Ash seems to have taken over. Like someone else said, shes been doing a 25 mile bike rides at home, she could have easily have done smaller routes to join in & feel like she’s part of it. She is isolated, her own partner ices her out & when her brother is with his family - she’s got no one. You can see on the vids when she is with Ash, its like she desperately wants his attention, a bit of affection, half the time he can’t even look at her.

hopefully, one day soon she sees the light & gets the courage to leave Ash because this is not healthy. I think they would be better apart where they can both heal seperately as together, its a bit toxic.

My thoughts EXACTLY literally textbook abuse

What baggy twats actually wait for them at the stop offs.. mums bringing babies and children along too what the fuck

 

[GobShyte64]

Saf has been losing followers too, although not has many as Ash... In 30 days, Ash lost over 11,000 whereas Saf lost 630. Hopefully people are switching on to Ash and seeing him for what he really is... using his dead daughter as a stepping stone in to fame.. Cutting out the girlfriend, he hardly ever mentions Saf, following models and liking their half naked pictures while the mother of his child is riddled with anxiety and very aware about how she needs to lose weight because she said she comfort ate while Azaylia was poorly. Honestly, He's vile.

 

[noseynopinions]

I feel so sorry for her, but I wish she wouldn’t do lives on Insta. She doesn’t need weirdos and trolls messaging her, she’s so vunerable, I’m concerned she’s not getting the support from Ashley and his family. My heart hurts for her. I had a feeling months ago something wasn’t right, when ash was signing flower cards from just himself. it just didn’t sit right with me x

Doesn't sit right with me either. The way he refers to Azaylia as MY daughter. MY daughter this, MY daughter that. I this, I that. Never mentions Saf as a WE. Doesn't sign cards of from MUMMY AND DADDY.
I just feel like he's relishing in all this and he's loving the attention since that precious little girl died. God forgive me for thinking this but I'm gonna just say what I think and that's Safiyya is genuinely suffering. Ash on the other hand, is only using this tragedy to boost his status. Kind of like he's glad for it. I feel so horrible for saying it but it is what it is. I'm not saying he didn't love and adore that baby to the ends of this earth but he's certainly loving the attention her sad story has given him

 

[Olivemaks]

Also someone comented ‘BABYDEAD BABYDEAD BABYDEAD BABYDEAD’

and ‘I’m sorry you and ash have broken up’
Starting rumours. Then everyone started asking ‘oh have you and ash broke up?’ So insensitive some people

 

[Noonoosanne2]

So he’s recovering from cancer it seems and his mom thought it would be a good idea to have him out late at night mixing with hundreds of people and no thought for his immune system disgusting behaviour. He should be snuggled up in bed with a hot chocolate and a movie

The things parents do for a bit of clout eh

 

[queenpoppy27]

The pinned comment And the weird as fuck comment of someone naming their child to honour Azaylia. Fucking weirdos the lot of them!

 

[Romeo1]

Saff has been filming with an oncologist today for the charity. Well done her I dont think they are doing too bad you know. But time will tell.