Don’t go home, go somewhere else. Figure the logistical bits out later. You deserve better xI am at work and thought i will do somethings nice for him, i had a box of different pastries delivered to our house an hour ago from a nice bakery. they phoned me and said he chased them away and threw the box away. I am so embarrassed, we life in a fancy house and area, and i am emotionally so tired of the bullying and constant fear. Everyone in office went home, and i am sitting here to scared to go home. I struggle to understand that someone/anyone can be so hard, so angry. It is bottled up inside me, and my only sharing is on here. What the fuck am i doing.
There must be some where you can go. Any friends or family members that live on there own (As government newly announced to stay with another single person)all hotels, guesthouses etc still in lockdown. i have nowhere else to go.
How are you doing now? I I hope you are okay? Xall hotels, guesthouses etc still in lockdown. i have nowhere else to go.
HI - thank you for asking. after 3 weeks of hell, and after discussions with his sponsor i was told although he is attending AA meetings he is not working the program. Also his behaviour is that of a "dry drunk", i did not even know that is a thing. One good week and suddenly it started all over again. 2 days ago i got home from work and he was all loving again, joyfully kissing me hello and asked if i got my gift. Didnt know what he was talking about, so he showed me he paid a 1000 into my banking account so i can buy something nice for myself. The emotional hurt and constant confusion of what i am going to face that day is making me feel so angry and hurt. And frankly i see "the gift" as bribe money to stay. I honestly dont know why but i really do love this man, and i am willing to stay if he works the AA program and commits to it. But my tears are so much more than laughter.How are you doing now? I I hope you are okay? X
For what it’s worth, I’m the child of an alcoholic so can give you some perspective. My dad went to AA for approx 3 years while still actively drinking regularly. It achieved nothing and that’s because it was only an attempt to placate our family - not because he truly wanted to kick the drink problem. Only when he made the decision and found the strength to actually give up alcohol forever did AA help him to do that. I say help because it’s not a magical solution. It takes a lot of work to recover (like any addiction). Sorry to say that recovery can’t be for another person, it has to be for (and done by) the person with the addiction.HI - thank you for asking. after 3 weeks of hell, and after discussions with his sponsor i was told although he is attending AA meetings he is not working the program. Also his behaviour is that of a "dry drunk", i did not even know that is a thing. One good week and suddenly it started all over again. 2 days ago i got home from work and he was all loving again, joyfully kissing me hello and asked if i got my gift. Didnt know what he was talking about, so he showed me he paid a 1000 into my banking account so i can buy something nice for myself. The emotional hurt and constant confusion of what i am going to face that day is making me feel so angry and hurt. And frankly i see "the gift" as bribe money to stay. I honestly dont know why but i really do love this man, and i am willing to stay if he works the AA program and commits to it. But my tears are so much more than laughter.
Please think about what's best for you and not what's best for him.HI - thank you for asking. after 3 weeks of hell, and after discussions with his sponsor i was told although he is attending AA meetings he is not working the program. Also his behaviour is that of a "dry drunk", i did not even know that is a thing. One good week and suddenly it started all over again. 2 days ago i got home from work and he was all loving again, joyfully kissing me hello and asked if i got my gift. Didnt know what he was talking about, so he showed me he paid a 1000 into my banking account so i can buy something nice for myself. The emotional hurt and constant confusion of what i am going to face that day is making me feel so angry and hurt. And frankly i see "the gift" as bribe money to stay. I honestly dont know why but i really do love this man, and i am willing to stay if he works the AA program and commits to it. But my tears are so much more than laughter.
An update if anyone is interested, we broke up yesterday. As much as it hurts and really leaves me feeling unsure of my future I know it's the right thing to do. Hopefully we can remain civil as we sort out the houseAll sounds very familiar, I own a house with my boyfriend 150 miles away from my home town. He's always gamed but since he has been furloughed he has played it constantly. In the last 3 weeks, I can count the times he has come to bed before midnight as he usually stays up until 3 or 4 and then sleeps on the sofa til 7 so he doesn't wake me up. He came to bed last night but was up at 7am playing his xbox.
I am wfh full time in a demanding job and want to sort out the DIY on the house whilst we have the time but feel like I'm fighting a losing battle now. He also complains that his friends can party, drink and smoke but he isnt allowed because he has to compromise whilst I'm working and refers to furlough as his "holiday or retirement".
I've actually had enough of it and have used lockdown to save some cash and as soon as he is back at work I'm going to spring into action and get out. Like most of you, I'm 29 and terrified of starting again after 4 years but I'm also aware that life is too short. It's times like this I wish I lived closer to home because leaving will mean leaving my job eventually and the house I have worked so hard on as I want to be close to my family and friends.
I’m sorry. Sad certainly but it sounds like it will be the best thing for you. You are still young and have so much ahead! Good luckAn update if anyone is interested, we broke up yesterday. As much as it hurts and really leaves me feeling unsure of my future I know it's the right thing to do. Hopefully we can remain civil as we sort out the house
Hope you're okay, I live 100 miles from home and have just come out of a long term relationship, it's hard, and lonely being away from everyone you know at times like these. Sending you love xAn update if anyone is interested, we broke up yesterday. As much as it hurts and really leaves me feeling unsure of my future I know it's the right thing to do. Hopefully we can remain civil as we sort out the house
Hope you're OK. Sorry to hear that but sounds like the right decision from what you've said. I'm in a pretty dire situation with my relationship so understand how it feels being unsure of your future like that.An update if anyone is interested, we broke up yesterday. As much as it hurts and really leaves me feeling unsure of my future I know it's the right thing to do. Hopefully we can remain civil as we sort out the house
Hey so it’s tik toks of other girls saved, porn videos and random girls just as selfies. The porn whatever I can deal with it’s the personal level of having random girls tik toks and photos on his camera roll. Not sure if I am being silly or not :/I can only think he is storing it on his phone cause wherever he uses it, it cant be accessed through the internet?Is it actually porn or just naked women?
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