She is such a manipulator. My Goodness!Can she (or her husband) not see the narcissistic cycle she is in. It’s not burn out, it’s emotional, manipulative abuse. It’s classic ‘feels threatened’ > ‘inflicts emotional abuse’ > ‘plays the victim’ > ‘Feels Empowered’
She was off to London to get her nails done and brunch with friend after the episode or was that the day before.. I get classic abuser vibes from her. She abused Tarun and had a full blown meltdown because he needed a surgery not going on vacation and suddenly she is trying to damage control and it's about burn out. How do you have burnout when you are constantly going out with friends for lunch, walks, dates and then having a nanny for children. I really don't understand... Poor poor Tarun! She didn't even mention once how much pain he is in or how he is not well but it was all about Anna. Those stories are disgusting. I do agree with the previous poster that she is a narcissisticShe deleted the story pretty quickly but after saying T had to have surgery she then ranted really nastily that she needed surgery on her foot for 4 years and didn’t have time, couldn’t possibly fit it in but it’s alright for T to have it.
I need finger surgery but can’t schedule it as I’m self employed but I would never be jealous of my husband needing something like that. She’s then showing off so much she gets ill over him NEEDING surgery and taking time out, not showing off as she worried for him, and then feels guilt/shame so that is definitely some kind of abuse towards T. I kinda get the blow up and then feeling ashamed about the behaviour but then to tell masses of people what a bitch you’ve been and turn it around to herself and her needs is just too much.
Poor guy is holding down a job and earning the money to fund the lifestyle/massive house not swanning into London each day to put his feet up on his desk like she seems to think. I’m not saying she has it easy at home but just cut him some slack, he seems to put up with so much toxic behaviour and resentment from her.
How awful to be jealous your husband ‘gets’ to have surgery?!
I think she is a nasty piece of work. I think quite often her mask slips.She deleted the story pretty quickly but after saying T had to have surgery she then ranted really nastily that she needed surgery on her foot for 4 years and didn’t have time, couldn’t possibly fit it in but it’s alright for T to have it.
I need finger surgery but can’t schedule it as I’m self employed but I would never be jealous of my husband needing something like that. She’s then showing off so much she gets ill over him NEEDING surgery and taking time out, not showing off as she worried for him, and then feels guilt/shame so that is definitely some kind of abuse towards T. I kinda get the blow up and then feeling ashamed about the behaviour but then to tell masses of people what a bitch you’ve been and turn it around to herself and her needs is just too much.
Poor guy is holding down a job and earning the money to fund the lifestyle/massive house not swanning into London each day to put his feet up on his desk like she seems to think. I’m not saying she has it easy at home but just cut him some slack, he seems to put up with so much toxic behaviour and resentment from her.
How awful to be jealous your husband ‘gets’ to have surgery?!
Exactly this! She is so fake on her stories.. she gives off really strong mean girl abusive personality vibesI think she is a nasty piece of work. I think quite often her mask slips.
She loves to throw in she came to Farnham.Again Tarun is at work super early and she is out meeting friends. It's like a 16 years old is plonked with 3 kids and can't come to terms with her life
Her WFH isn’t your average working from home. I assume she has clients? Otherwise she can make her own hours.I’m not on this thread to Stan Anna, but I have three kids and a husband that works similar hours to T and I was trying to put myself in her position.
To be fair I’d be fucking gutted if my husband had to have surgery right at the beginning of the goddamn school holidays, meaning he could conveniently and legitimately lie in bed or on the sofa for the first three weeks while I did all the shit work.
Then again, I don’t have a nanny.
She says in her stories she only has childcare covered for two days. So presumably and the other five days she’s trying to juggle three kids and WFH, as well as probably look after T since he won’t be able to move?
I don’t know why they only have childcare two days a week? Why doesn’t she stick her youngest in nursery full time and put the other two in summer clubs? That’s what I’m doing problem sorted and no one’s ugly crying on the kitchen floor. Then again, having your shit together doesn’t make for good content maybe?
That said, the timing of it really works out for him doesn’t it? Hands-off all summer holidays? I’d be fewwwwwmmmming!
I don’t disagree with any of that.W
Her WFH isn’t your average working from home. I assume she has clients? Otherwise she can make her own hours.
If this was a once off I think more people would empathise but she never stops giving out, she’s built a brand out of being overwhelmed 100% of the time. Her husband apparently pays at least the lions share of their expenses. I don’t think she acknowledges that, in fact she seems resentful of him. Looking after 3 kids isn’t a picnic but being an office slave is easily as bad if not far worse at times. She choose 3 kids but she doesn’t acknowledge that either.
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