Anna Bey #6 School of Affluence Fraud

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No stories from Anna today... I guess naming her boyfriend was not good for her contenance.
Personally I think it was not really necessary as it doesn't really gives us more insight on her, just puts him in a bad light.
 
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She is very confused herself as to what she is promoting and as someone mentioned she sells a dream to young women. If you want for example to learn about manners and etquette there is plenty of online courses, even part of them for free by legitimate adult course centres.
Honestly the only elite event I saw was in fact the gala her boyfriend attended to (the one she was nowhere to be seen). These “jetsetbabes” she aspires to, the majority look nothing like high class to me, despite the luxurious covering. From what I understand most of them were former beauty queens or glamour models that have infiltrated these publicity circuits and have married well in terms of money. Even if they have money now, still they don’t have the mentality of a person born in wealth.
 
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No stories from Anna today... I guess naming her boyfriend was not good for her contenance.
Personally I think it was not really necessary as it doesn't really gives us more insight on her, just puts him in a bad light.
So why is he still with her? If she brings him nothing but embarrassement.
 
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I never get it putting up a show to catch a guy's attention. It's weird in my world. :LOL:
You cannot relate, because you are a natural showstopper 😄 - but some girls, those with the hat, pleated skirt, turtleneck and a fur brimmed coat, have to put up a show for a free drink. It is a very complicated art. You have to be enlighted to teach this, a bit like Reiki.

My favorite discussions in Anna´s group always were how to get around sex and get all the gifts you deserve. This should be the masterclass.:ROFLMAO:

So why is he still with her? If she brings him nothing but embarrassement.
There are some rumors here about his past and his sexual orientation. This connected with a name can be damaging - even without Anna and her bag of dirty laundry. That is why I think that telling his name here or on YouTube doesn't really is of interest - he is a different story.

About the why: They have a nice arrangement. Sometimes relationships become just habits.
 
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Personally I knew her real name and background for a long time and didn’t mind about her having a “stage name” or whatever. It is something a lot of people do, even people who do not profit from social media. If her teachings were less controversial and she was less secretive nobody would care about her personal life. However tabloid titles such as “how to bag a millionaire” definitely brought her in the spotlight with all the positive and the negative. Moreover in the summer she was posting all the time on location and with his colleagues so it wasn’t so difficult to find out.
 
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Girls, do you remember that Dresscode.pdf posted here that we were laughing about so much? Can someone who purchased the Secret of Elite Woman course confirm that it was included in the package?
Yes it is in the package.

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"We know what good inspiration is when we see it."

They don't stare much at themselves in the mirror then, right?
 
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A disillusioned SOA student here who would like to share my story:
I joined the main Jetset Babe FB group when I was 20. I was a student at elite universities with a lot of very rich upper class students but am myself from a an average 'plain Jane' background. I Ionged to be an insider, not an outsider looking in. Over the years, I became 'sucked in' to the glamorous online world Anna seemed to be part of. I was a broke student with cheap clothes, academically smart but innocent in sexual/worldly experience. To me Anna represented a world of sophisticated 'womanhood' I wanted to be part of. I came to feel that although I am educated, I didn't want to work long hours in job I wasn't passionate about for money. Anna's approach seemed to be my solution, and I excitedly bought her first course (I think it was only like €200 at first release, and with an option to split payments in two, which I did).

For about a year after this I was so excited to be part of the SOA group and made hundreds of pages of notes. I felt like Anna had inducted me into this world where everything was glamorous and easy. I remember thinking, I've found a shortcut, I just need to rely on my looks to get ahead in life! I saw her as my big sister. She spoke a lot about how she was driven to empower and help women and I do think at the beginning this was perhaps true, but she became corrupted once she had a taste of money. Eventually though, I began to question her. It was only a matter of time as I matured psychologically and in life experience. Plus, I had outsider but at least some insight into how the truly upper class live through my universities. I came to think it was odd that I was taking my life advice from a woman a decade older than me who was much less educated than me, and that I truly couldn't know whether she was happy, or liked, or had real friends or real love. Plus, the upper class, rich female students I knew dressed nothing like Anna as they had nothing to prove. They'd wear designer bags but with jeans and trainers.

It struck me as especially odd that she said she'd done many years of therapy yet is happy to encourage young women to go into environments where they may be used, sexually exploited, experience trauma etc. She herself has acknowledged how damaging the JSB world could be. The last straw came with the Pink Pill situation, and the insane pricing of her second course during the pandemic. I came to feel Anna is not motivated by helping women but by her own greed; that she exploits female vulnerabilities and trust and she is a user. Eventually I found this forum.

Today I am totally disillusioned with Anna. I've realised how dangerous it is to place so much blind trust into a total stranger. One thing I wish for this forum though is that you try to be empathetic to women like me scammed by Anna. Yes some of them are older and should know better but a lot are young and naive like me, with little world experience. When there are women in their 30s, 40s, 50s etc who blindly follow her I definitely think they have less of an excuse, but they are probably psychologically young. New Rose Glow is a good example- she has the psychological energy of a little girl.

Anyway that's my story, feel free to ask me any questions. It's a relief to be part of this forum and see how I've grown up and lost my naivety since those early days.
 
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I was thinking about that recently and why her followers think that the informations Aija Räty is selling them are that valuable for them. What I am starting to think is that the great majority of her "students" wil never actually go in hotel lobbies chase men, and that most them don't even follow that closely her fashion advices. Some of them obviously do ... NewRoseGlow doesn't count though, because she's obviously doing native advertising for SoA.

But I think that the real reason behind Aija's success as a scammer comes entierly from the "Men should do everything for you" message. Her followers will say: "it's convenient to have all these fashion and etiquette advices at the same place" (even if it's quite easy to find much more legit and in-depth infos for free everywhere on the internet, as it was established time and time again.) But what they should really be saying if they were more honest with themselves is: "I like her message that I shouldn't have to work or do anything difficult and that my men should take care of everything for me at all time". The Etiquette, Elegance and Dating advices are not the real product Aija is selling, in my opinion. What she is trully selling is a fantasy and the rhetoric that comes with it....and this is the reason why her followers are not interested in other channels/ressources with similar (and often better) types of advices: the message that everything in life should be easy is not there. What most of these ladies are actually telling you is: "you are going to have to work hard to achieve your dreams, here's how to do it." Aija is telling you: "That's not at all how the World of the Affluents works my dear elegant ladies, in the World of the Affluents you don't have to work or pay for anything, you just have to put your hair a certain way and go on vacations. Here are some courses for you that will make this a reality for you." A much more pleasant message to hear, for sure. So pleasant actually, that her followers will easily forgive her the fact that the vehicle for that message is objectively not that impressive, and even they know it -- at least most of them I think, I could be wrong...
Of course, we said several times that she is selling the dream to a certain female demographic
 
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To be honest, I can see it from their (Anna's students') point of view. If someone sends a link to the Tattle or Lipstickalley threads, the material is very confronting. They're still in the mindset where they love Aija/Anna and believe her wholly, so throwing them into the deep end of a forum where we talk casually and (admittedly) very caustically about their idol is not really the way to go. It only works if someone is already having a lot of doubts about Anna and is kind of annoyed and suspicious - then they won't be so offended by the catty remarks/more gossip-y talk amongst the genuine talk.

While we're all comfortable with the way we talk on here and we're all up to date on the threads and truth about Anna, they still revere Anna and believe her claims that she's an elite, high society elegant woman engaged to a wealthy, high society, high caliber man. They believe it not just because they've never seen the proof that these claims aren't true, but also because if they're not true, then they've wasted $1000 and hours and hours of their time listening to a scam artist. The whole thing is hard to digest and in that sense, it's very easy to dismiss everything that's been said on any external forums as "just a bunch of haters who are jealous".

I think the best method for exposing Anna (or anyone) and her entire scam school, lies, inconsistencies and past is to put everything in a well-worded, neutral blog post that has all of the evidence and discussions distilled, with pictures, etc that you can link people to read for themselves. Same with a video -- an exposé with a great, informative script with really neutral language and no face, just a voiceover.

Btw I'm not saying anyone here needs to go to that kind of effort to expose Anna, I'm just stating my opinion of the best way if that were to ever happen. As for now, the only way any of the students will realize her teachings are a scam is when they're onto course #5, thousands of dollars out of pocket and all that's improved is that they're more conscious of what they wear, their posture and how they do their makeup and hair. Which are all fine things to improve, but that barely scratches the surface of the things Anna promises to improve through her courses.
 
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Anyway that's my story, feel free to ask me any questions.
Did you actually tried to put in action some of Aija's advices and strategies in a real life environment at some point (no need to give specifics) or was it just hypothetical/inspirational for you?
 
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@AmbiaL
Thank you.

real wealthy people do not behave, dress or speak like Anna.

I have had some exposure to them via my family, and the one thing they all have in common are that they are well spoken and accomplished.

I cannot imagine any associate of theirs taking in an uneducated woman like Anna.

it would not happen.

what was your trigger moment when you realised she wasn’t what she was teaching?

So why is he still with her? If she brings him nothing but embarrassement.
I think he is her business sponsor along with friends with benefits.

how must he feel when he reads that she “accepted “ his short height.

short men really don’t like to have this pointed out!
 
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Did you actually tried to put in action some of Aija's advices and strategies in a real life environment at some point (no need to give specifics) or was it just hypothetical/inspirational for you?
For me (and I suspect for many others) it was largely hypothetical. The SOA FB group encouraged Seeking Arrangement to find a sugar daddy (Anna herself gave advice on how to succeed on there), and I made an account but was always too frightened to go further than message/text men. I think I knew in my heart I'd never do it (I was 23 and had slept only with my high school bf, I had no idea what I was getting myself into). Now I want to shake myself for even entertaining conversations with these predatory men, and I think it's so messed up Anna (tacitly if not explicitly) approved this.

Once or twice I actually sat in hotel lobbies, or bars, reading or writing in my journal. Now I can see that is an escorting tactic it seems so silly but at the time I didn't know that and didn't find it odd to just go and hang out there in my H&M dress when I wasn't a guest.

I have always been someone who cares deeply about building real meaningful friendships so ould never get on board with the social climbing and viewing other people as means to an end to achieve my goals. However, I do think that Anna's advice on finding friends who are interested in luxury lifestyle is good advice, and I have made them, so I do credit the course for that.
 
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I think the best method for exposing Anna (or anyone) and her entire scam school, lies, inconsistencies and past is to put everything in a well-worded, neutral blog post that has all of the evidence and discussions distilled, with pictures, etc that you can link people to read for themselves. Same with a video -- an exposé with a great, informative script with really neutral language and no face, just a voiceover.
It certainly would be the best way to expose the scam... but personally I'm more on the "let's laugh at her expense" bandwagon, than on the "let's take her down" bandwagon. If the confrontational nature of the conversations we're having can expose her lies and in the process causes some people to think twice about this matter, that's not a bad thing. But ultimately, I don't think I care enough for her students to try to "save them from their mistakes" and try to do counterpropaganda against Aija Darling.
 
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@Renata I totally agree with you.

For me, there was not exactly one trigger moment, but rather the build-up over some time of discrepancies. I believe this is how intuition works, that gradually you build up enough information to create a whole picture and get the feeling that something is 'not quite right'. This is why I don't think sending exposing messages to Anna's customers will work, because they will just discount all evidence if their intuition is not switched on. People will not believe what they don't want to believe. I had an uneasy sense in my gut for ages but I tried to ignore it because I wanted an easy, glamorous life. It's difficult to give up on a fantasy and admit to yourself that there's no shortcuts in achieving a luxury life with integrity - 9/10 times you just have to work damn hard.
 
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It certainly would be the best way to expose the scam... but personally I'm more on the "let's laugh at her expense" bandwagon, than on the "let's take her down" bandwagon. If the confrontational nature of the conversations we're having can expose her lies and in the process causes some people to think twice about this matter, that's not a bad thing. But ultimately, I don't think I care enough for her students to try to "save them from their mistakes" and try to do counterpropaganda against Aija Darling.
I will have to agree on being here for the shits and giggles...
 
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I received similar comments under my video lot of hateful ones. Actually received a message from a girl today with a good intention that she thinks the video may turn me in a negative light for some poeple who dont know Anna now know me and I have to agree with her because as a normal viewer who doesnt know me nor her will think I am witch thought its not true. So it made me feel a bit sad tbh bc I wanted to help the naive possible targets who still look up to her but many of them just think I state no proof and that I am jealous, sad, etc.
Caused me questioning the whole thing tbh to the point if I shall do the fashion video with which I wanna point out that you cannot listen to any fashion advice people give you bc you just need to be your authentic self and if you bleeping love jeans yes you still gonna wear jeans if you do love them.
What you girls think?
Chrissy I am so sorry you are receiving hate from IGNORANTS. Remember why you are doing it! People are too quick to judge you, but we have 6 bleeping threads and counting about Aija, and they still won’t believe who she really is. Is about them, not you. Delete the negative comments, do it like Anna 😂
 
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Yes it is in the package.

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Anna’s students are kind of people who say “CHEEP” 😂 and this speaks for itself. And i want to call them “ CHEEP SHEEP 🐑 “ Shocking how dumb they are, so so so so so schocking. If i was them, i would google her just out of curiosity, we read reviews about the hotel or restaurants before we visit, but never question who the duck is Anna Bey, the educator of ClAsS. throwing 1000$ at someone you know nothing about is just BLOODY DUMB.
 
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