Anna Bey #6 School of Affluence Fraud

[Katya_S]

More or less what she does for an average European or North American is middle class (owing some luxury items, travelling to other countries 1-2 times a year-even exotic ones, dining in expensive restaurants). It is a matter of lifestyle choices and priorities.

 

[Buf728]

A couple more comments

Lmao if they want to spend thousands on Anna and get no further in life, be my guest. I’ve already “levelled up” without needing to pay anyone, and have the lifestyle a lot of these women want. I find it laughable that they always paint us out to be haters or witches, like their tit doesn’t stink. Everyone gossips. Most of us were either former students, acquaintances of Anna, or have lived the life these students (and Anna) want. We aren’t just randomly bitching about her for some pointless reason; we’re realising the obvious discrepancies between our own lives and what she preaches.

If these women still think paying a stranger on the internet will give them the life they want, I have no sympathy for them when this time next year they’re still in the same circumstances, with maybe a few new clothes or bags, but no man. Some of them will never achieve it, even if they think Anna is amazing and give them lots of tips.

She’s not your friend, you can suck up to her as much as you want, she doesn’t care about you, she cares about you paying her.

 

[beatrix17]

If Anna not smart enough to work out her differential core messaging you just handed her a plate full of golden nuggets.

Ahaha, well... even if she is not aware of it, I think that's already what she's doing anyway.

You have to work for things, put an effort and deal with everyday problems. And it's amazing because without that, all of the good stuff would not feel so rewarding.

Exactly, and that absolutely includes being a stay-at-home wife/mother in my mind, which is quite different from the "high class" fantasy Aija is selling. Unfortunately that doesn't prevent some pseudo-traditionalist (?) women to defend Aija's message for some reason... They couldn't be more off the mark in my opinion.

 

[witchofwestbyfleet]

Exactly, and that absolutely includes being a stay-at-home wife/mother in my mind, which is quite different from the "high class" fantasy Aija is selling. Unfortunately that doesn't prevent some pseudo-traditionalist (?) women to defend Aija's message for some reason... They couldn't be more off the mark in my opinion.

Absolutely, being a SAHM is hard work, you'd expect "traditional"-minded women to acknowledge that

 

[severedmind]

I was thinking about that recently and why her followers think that the informations Aija Räty is selling them are that valuable for them. What I am starting to think is that the great majority of her "students" wil never actually go in hotel lobbies chase men, and that most them don't even follow that closely her fashion advices. Some of them obviously do ... NewRoseGlow doesn't count though, because she's obviously doing native advertising for SoA.

But I think that the real reason behind Aija's success as a scammer comes entierly from the "Men should do everything for you" message. Her followers will say: "it's convenient to have all these fashion and etiquette advices at the same place" (even if it's quite easy to find much more legit and in-depth infos for free everywhere on the internet, as it was established time and time again.) But what they should really be saying if they were more honest with themselves is: "I like her message that I shouldn't have to work or do anything difficult and that my men should take care of everything for me at all time". The Etiquette, Elegance and Dating advices are not the real product Aija is selling, in my opinion. What she is trully selling is a fantasy and the rhetoric that comes with it....and this is the reason why her followers are not interested in other channels/ressources with similar (and often better) types of advices: the message that everything in life should be easy is not there. What most of these ladies are actually telling you is: "you are going to have to work hard to achieve your dreams, here's how to do it." Aija is telling you: "That's not at all how the World of the Affluents works my dear elegant ladies, in the World of the Affluents you don't have to work or pay for anything, you just have to put your hair a certain way and go on vacations. Here are some courses for you that will make this a reality for you." A much more pleasant message to hear, for sure. So pleasant actually, that her followers will easily forgive her the fact that the vehicle for that message is objectively not that impressive, and even they know it -- at least most of them I think, I could be wrong...

Oh, such an excellent point! Actually this analysis of the mindset of her students is a great discussion too.

It's been discussed in previous threads, but Anna really struck while the iron is hot in terms of advertising this 'men should do everything because they're men and masculine, and women are entitled to everything because they're women and feminine'. I think her message really speaks to a lot of women that are coming off this wave of feminism and finding out that the 50/50 and overly sexually liberated lifestyle is, in itself, a scam and is still unequal for women. @laurensanchez summed it up so well in a previous thread. Basically, women now not only work and make their own money, but they are largely still expected to take full care of the household and childcare while also contributing to 50% of the expenses. Our workload is doubled, and we're somehow still expected to maintain our looks perfectly, provide sex and affection and be happy, fun and smiling on top of it all. I think a lot of the women in Anna's course (and many more in general) are starting to understand this imbalance and boom - people like Anna are waiting on the sidelines to capitalize on this and sell them a fantasy for a steep price. I think Anna's students, especially, have been put through the wringer by men in the past and see Anna and her course as their holy grail and saviour (which explains the cult like idolization). The problem is, her "solution" is also toxic, which is encouraging women to demand 100% of everything without any contribution themselves. She really needs to stop pretending she cares about women and the state of feminism and inequality, when really she's just taking advantage of flaws in the system to line her own pockets.

Also, the whole "what do you bring to the table? I AM the table" quote is (If I remember correctly) from G.L Lambert, of course Anna plagiarized that one quote taken out of context. The whole "I am the table" way of thinking sounds empowering, but sorry, if you're a woman with absolutely nothing to offer other than the fact that you are a woman and by extension, you provide "feminine energy", you are not "the table". Or to be more specific, you are "the table" that is interchangeable with billions of other "the tables" lol. Yes, you do have to offer more than just being a pretty and (stereotypically and exaggeratedly) feminine woman. Having a unique, well-rounded, intelligent, mysterious, fascinating personality and life is not something that can be taught, it's something you carve out yourself over a long period of time for your own benefit - not only to attract a rich man.

There's a huge difference between meeting rich men in a hotel lobby vs meeting them at private events that you actually have an invite to from your own merits. There's a line to draw between empowering yourself as a woman so you don't take tit from men (or anyone else) and spend your time and energy wisely vs externally "transforming" yourself (i.e your looks) and therefore demanding that you never pay for anything or lift a finger again, because you're already doing the most by providing feminine energy.

 

[Kersen]

I was thinking about that recently and why her followers think that the informations Aija Räty is selling them are that valuable for them. What I am starting to think is that the great majority of her "students" wil never actually go in hotel lobbies chase men, and that most them don't even follow that closely her fashion advices. Some of them obviously do ... NewRoseGlow doesn't count though, because she's obviously doing native advertising for SoA.

But I think that the real reason behind Aija's success as a scammer comes entierly from the "Men should do everything for you" message. Her followers will say: "it's convenient to have all these fashion and etiquette advices at the same place" (even if it's quite easy to find much more legit and in-depth infos for free everywhere on the internet, as it was established time and time again.) But what they should really be saying if they were more honest with themselves is: "I like her message that I shouldn't have to work or do anything difficult and that my men should take care of everything for me at all time". The Etiquette, Elegance and Dating advices are not the real product Aija is selling, in my opinion. What she is trully selling is a fantasy and the rhetoric that comes with it....and this is the reason why her followers are not interested in other channels/ressources with similar (and often better) types of advices: the message that everything in life should be easy is not there. What most of these ladies are actually telling you is: "you are going to have to work hard to achieve your dreams, here's how to do it." Aija is telling you: "That's not at all how the World of the Affluents works my dear elegant ladies, in the World of the Affluents you don't have to work or pay for anything, you just have to put your hair a certain way and go on vacations. Here are some courses for you that will make this a reality for you." A much more pleasant message to hear, for sure. So pleasant actually, that her followers will easily forgive her the fact that the vehicle for that message is objectively not that impressive, and even they know it -- at least most of them I think, I could be wrong...

Totally spot on, you nailed it
Considering this, maybe a new branding is needed: SoE School of Entitlement

 

[Crazy_chick]

Girls, do you remember that Dresscode.pdf posted here that we were laughing about so much? Can someone who purchased the Secret of Elite Woman course confirm that it was included in the package?

 

[schokolade]

I received similar comments under my video lot of hateful ones. Actually received a message from a girl today with a good intention that she thinks the video may turn me in a negative light for some poeple who dont know Anna now know me and I have to agree with her because as a normal viewer who doesnt know me nor her will think I am witch thought its not true. So it made me feel a bit sad tbh bc I wanted to help the naive possible targets who still look up to her but many of them just think I state no proof and that I am jealous, sad, etc.
Caused me questioning the whole thing tbh to the point if I shall do the fashion video with which I wanna point out that you cannot listen to any fashion advice people give you bc you just need to be your authentic self and if you bleeping love jeans yes you still gonna wear jeans if you do love them.
What you girls think?

How ridiculous it actually is, that they always accuse us for not having any proof, when here in the forum there are plenty of.
It's Anna who has absolutely no proof of being high society or even affluent!

 

[Kersen]

How ridiculous it actually is, that they always accuse us for not having any proof, when here in the forum there are plenty of.
It's Anna who has absolutely no proof of being high society or even affluent!

I am not trying to justify their comments, please don't get me wrong, but I guess that at the moment that you are so invested in one idea it might difficult to accept that it might be wrong or that one has been lied to.

The investment is not only the thousand dollars, it is also the time watching the rants and rambles of the videos, hours dedicated to listen that will never come back. It is not easy to recognize and accept that this was not the wisest idea because that means to be open to being wrong in judgment.

 

[beatrix17]

It is not easy to recognize and accept that this was not the wisest idea because that means to be open to being wrong in judgment.

"It's easier to fool someone than to convince them they've been fooled" - Mark Twain

 

[schokolade]

I am not trying to justify their comments, please don't get me wrong, but I guess that at the moment that you are so invested in one idea it might difficult to accept that it might be wrong or that one has been lied to.

The investment is not only the thousand dollars, it is also the time watching the rants and rambles of the videos, hours dedicated to listen that will never come back. It is not easy to recognize and accept that this was not the wisest idea because that means to be open to being wrong in judgment.

Yes, I agree. It's a psychological defense.

 

[Renata]

Even most affluent women don't get everything free. They usually have their own careers or do charity work, etc. Even the ones that don't do any kind of work are usually putting in "effort" to keep their man ...

I wonder what these women think they have in common with a very wealthy man. How will they communicate with someone from such a different background? What will they talk about? Anna never discusses this

Real affluent wives have to work very hard.

they have to look good, look after the house & kids, put up with his travelling, live in the fear of an affair.Some are very robotic, they “accept” the affairs etc because they cannot give up the lifestyle.

I know one lady who went to see a divorce lawyer for a while to see what her options were. In the end she didn’t pursue the divorce (even though she would have receiver a good settlement) because of saving face.

they love being smug to other wives.

it’s a difficult life & these are the ones that make it to marriage.

 

[SchoolOfAffluenceIsAScam]

Real affluent wives have to work very hard.

they have to look good, look after the house & kids, put up with his travelling, live in the fear of an affair.Some are very robotic, they “accept” the affairs etc because they cannot give up the lifestyle.

I know one lady who went to see a divorce lawyer for a while to see what her options were. In the end she didn’t pursue the divorce (even though she would have receiver a good settlement) because of saving face.

they love being smug to other wives.

it’s a difficult life & these are the ones that make it to marriage.

The amount of time spent networking makes me want to puke

 

[eigenwijs]

hey have to look good, look after the house & kids, put up with his travelling, live in the fear of an affair.Some are very robotic, they “accept” the affairs etc because they cannot give up the lifestyle.

it is called domestic prostitution

And Anna teaches it

If these women still think paying a stranger on the internet will give them the life they want, I have no sympathy for them when this time next year they’re still in the same circumstances, with maybe a few new clothes or bags, but no man. Some of them will never achieve it, even if they think Anna is amazing and give them lots of tips.

they should spend money on any course to get a certificate/diploma and pay their bills. If they can pay their bills, their men would pay for champagne. No decent man ( if he didn't eat bananas) wants to have a stupid, uneducated woman aside him.

 

[laurensanchez]

Has any former student gone on to marry rich? Even get a sugar daddy?

No proof of success, but they keep throwing money at her.

 

[Gingersnap 29]

Real affluent wives have to work very hard.

they have to look good, look after the house & kids, put up with his travelling, live in the fear of an affair.Some are very robotic, they “accept” the affairs etc because they cannot give up the lifestyle.

I know one lady who went to see a divorce lawyer for a while to see what her options were. In the end she didn’t pursue the divorce (even though she would have receiver a good settlement) because of saving face.

they love being smug to other wives.

it’s a difficult life & these are the ones that make it to marriage.

This. Even if all of Anna's tips work and someone bags a billionaire...life is still hard. Money is absolutely no guarantee of happiness. She's selling a shallow dream.

 

[VeraCanova]

There might be some truth in it. When people search for you (job-related, school etc) they will see you rant about a person they don’t know which might not put you in the best light. If you do a critical video from a fashion point of view, thats different because this is where your expertise is.

It is difficult make videos that are critical of someone without appearing disgruntled and bitter and tbh you kind of come across like it in the video. Remember that there are many people who have no idea of who you are talking about and what is the context.

You are there with you own name and face...Think about it this way, is it worth it to lose a job opportunity because of Aija?

 

[Renata]

it is called domestic prostitution

And Anna teaches it

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Economic prostitution.

the man gets a wholesome image for his colleagues, customers etc

he gets the family image in truth he cannot wait to go and fk someone totally different (once) on his “business trip”.
I also heard that they cheat more around pregnancy as they feel left out.

cheating is very very easy for them as they want it all and see this as a sexual thing.

so to aspire to this - just for the lifestyle is living a huge lie.

kids grow up seeing what’s happening and hate their father.

I wouldn’t want to be a wealthy married man. They are very very conflicted.

 

[Fmkli]

I bet this lady had the interesting stories about Anna. Wonder if she’s on IG?


Edit:
Shes on fb at Kristin dahlmark.

Any Swedish speakers want to dig some info from her?

Kristin Dahlmark is the winner of Paradise Hotel season 5. Aija was on season 4. She sure has some juicy info about her. This is her insta

🅚 🅡 🅘 🅢 🅣 🅘 🅝 (@frokendahlmark) • Instagram photos and videos

1,243 Followers, 888 Following, 1,722 Posts - See Instagram photos and videos from 🅚 🅡 🅘 🅢 🅣 🅘 🅝 (@frokendahlmark)

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someone following Isabel Brown? She’s so sweet, but I cannot not cringe when I watch her stories where she pretends to be like Aija or writes like her. The price goes to her Q&A she had today. She’s literally taking Aijas advice and gives out to her followers. Aijas escort advice!! I can’t even laugh anymore. I’m getting mad. Poor girls! Isabel is engaged and shows his arms etc sometimes And claims that they met when she was out eating with a friend during her initial time in Dubai. I don’t think she understands that this kind of advice is what escorts are doing?

 

[J.Tarac]

I never get it putting up a show to catch a guy's attention. It's weird in my world.