When youʼre in a serious relationship with someone who values your thoughts and feelings, you do not need to worry about whether other people chase them or not. Other people might chase you as well, but if youʼre compatible and deeply in love with your partner and they are deeply in love with you, the fear of losing one another would deepen the connection even more. You can trust your partner, yet still feel a certain fear about losing them and this makes sense when youʼre with an emotionally developed human being with whom you share values, feelings, important memories, and so on. However, the fear of losing them has nothing to do with displaying photos on social media. If a person chooses to leave the relationship, it is because of reasons that have to do either with the state of the relationship or with themselves, but not with outer influences.
This is the main reason why her argument on why she refuses to display her man on social media doesnʼt stand at all from my perspective. If girls from Instagram can steal a man by seeing a picture of him, then so will women who encounter him at work, on the street, and so on. She has no idea that in healthy relationships both partners can have a lot of many other options, yet choose to stick to one another because they are compatible emotionally, because they can trust one another, and because they might still be in love with one another for things that are not of physical or material value. It is clear that she has never seen an example of a healthy relationship, a reason why in her perception the illogical arguments about her views on love make sense.
I understand Annaʼs fears because besides her body, she doesnʼt have anything to offer a man, but really, she should stop telling other women what to do. Many of them might be more educated, emotionally developed, and valuable and their men might be actually be proud to display themselves in public or on social media by their sides. Anna, on the other hand, has no idea what that feels like...