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py221

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I've been quietly reading all the tea and I don't want to disrupt the drama flow but I have previously worked at a 5-star boutique hotel as well as in a manor & country club located in Northern Europe and I can't stay quiet anymore - I have to call bullshit on that hotel story. I'm sorry but NO WAY does anybody in a respected 5 star establishment dare to look what a client is doing on their phone.

And then say such things about a guest, even if they were blacklisted... Check-in people in high-class hotels (assuming Anna was lurking in one in London) have to adhere to the utmost privacy of ALL guests. When I was still working in hospitality, then the check-in crowd did indeed warn other employees about some of the weird guests so we knew to expect interesting personas but NEVER was there any negative gossip about a guest, no matter how rude. And boy did we meet some interesting people :) Don't forget that those people aren't some teenagers working side jobs, they are educated in hotel management or hospitality, so they do it with respect as it's their main job and career. Especially when they have landed jobs in such high-class hotels where gossiping about other guests could potentially end their contract. Trust me, higher management talks with clients all the time so if you fuck up, they know. One bartender once got shit for something that a guest saw or heard (can't remember) from the other side of the room, which the guest thought was unprofessional. One waitress got fired for her attitude. We had to behave at all times.

So unless Anna got kicked out of a student hostel then I don't believe that story for a minute. Way too convenient story to fuel the fire. And if it did happen then tell it to the management because most likely that employee has other work-related issues and the management is quietly begging for somebody to give them a legal reason to finally fire that employee.
 
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If anything, how quickly her team are taking it down says to me that the message she wrote is definitely true, otherwise why would you be hawking the internet every second of the day trying to stop it from spreading? If it was fake, I’d assure my followers it is and then move on.

Clearly it’s real and she knows others will realise it’s real, and cancel her if it gets out to her followers like New Rose Glow, the other youtubers who are talking about her, and the non white women in her paid fb group.

As soon as I started posting tea, I received a DM on my personal instagram and I had to warn my friend that was in that interview.

She's scared. She knows we are onto her.

You used us Anna. You got info, help, advice from us even though you were not a JetSet Babe yet. We were nice. You played madame and "match maker". We exchanged client details. Hustling and freestyle tips. And now you pretend we are beneath you.

You were on your knees as us (well we know you don't really like the being on your knees part but we know what you did). You are not better than us. You are not elegant. You used to be an authentic girl, with bigger than life dreams. You would be better of being yourself and telling the truth.

You were not a dancer, you were a stripper. You were not a Jetset babe, you were an escort and yacht girl.

Stop scamming girls or the scene will drag you.
 
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LydyDeG

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After reading the first thread and this one, i must thank you all.
First of all, excuse my english if it's not grammatically correct, i'm french, but i'll do my best 😅
I came across YT videos of Anna some time ago, and as long as i remember i always wanted to upgrade myself beyond my primary education, did every research i could in my spare time and did the work on myself, with good results, but as i'm very naive, i almost bought her course... It was a time where i was emotionnaly weak, and despite that, a little warning light inside my brain was telling me that i should do research first. So i went on to find some online threads about her. And ended up here. And then, reading all your comments, seeing all that, i must thank you all for sparing me the cost of her course, which would have ended up being "money thrown off a window" (french expression). Btw, i have also russian origins, so i also went on reading what russian women were thinking of her, and oooooh lord, that was funny, they also are trashing her and it was funny to read them descride her as "some sort of tasteless peasant girl turning into a ridiculous shameless show-it-all woman". Russian humour is delicious..

I must also thank one of my best friends, who is from an old money-nobility background. His opinion might enlighten you about what old money people are thinking about her...
One day not long ago I linked him Anna's videos and told him about what i learned here, asking for his advice, because as he worked in fashion and has a exquisite taste and deep knowledge about fashion-art-antiques, etc, he could light me a little about that. He began trashing her the minute he saw her, ("her eyes screem ESCORT") and we went on looking at her clothes (warning : he might be harsh at times, so do not take it personnaly if you own some items described further on...) : "gucci ? he said, no, that brand has become shitty since the arrival of their new art director, same with Hermes, look at their big H on belts and sandals, it's too much, all of these houses are now selling their names instead of real quality, and that woman shows her lack of knowledge by bying all that crappy stuff and telling this is absolute class, and furthermore showing it off like a publicity campaign, which is THE thing real money people don't do : showing off." etc, etc... We then looked at this hon-fitzgerald profile, and he screamed whith disgust "what on earth is this tasteless snobbish wannabee noble "?
Well, that was a funny afternoon. He kept going :
About a picture of Anna at Annabel's : "english gentry are even more sticky with their own kind than french, even for me it would almost be impossible to get a membership, so if she was there it was because they gave her a "guest" entrance for one evening"
About her bracelets : "Van Cleef's Alhambra ? Come on, it's so updated and out of style and fashion because everyone wants it nowadays. Cartier love bracelet ? that tasteless cuff ? Because Meghan Markle wears hers most of the time recently does not mean she's an example of taste, quite the contrary..."
"And look, she's wearing them all the time and they appeared recently, so her jewelry box is quite new, few pieces, and globally basic with no persona whatsoever".

So, after this good afternoon of laughing, he definitely dissuaded me to buy her courses, telling her "knowledge" is very basic and not even put in in an interesting way to watch.

So again, thank you all for writing on this threads about her and about what you know about her, here is me not throwing my money for a scammer thanks to you ❤❤❤❤
Keep going, you might save other girls as well.
 
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leilaer

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I thought rich people get their laundry done at the places they're staying? Just me? Ok
You are wrong! You are not elegant!!! Weathy billionaires carry steamer everywhere they go. Its changing their lifes. They have jests full of steamers.
 
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leilaer

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My dear elegant ladies if you wanna change your life just use steamer. Its that easy.
 
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CherryBerry25

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Why does it feel like there’s no consistency with her message? Because the woman has NO SUBSTANCE. Who is she? Whoever she wants us to think she is in that moment. Everything is FAKE!

She says she has a provider man - But her vacays are average & she gets no gifts.
She says don’t be 50:50 - But hustles just as much as an average girl in a 50:50 relationship.
Says she’ll be open about her trashy past - But doesn’t mention she was a topless dancer (see pics a few pages back)
Preaches that women should be feminine - But she’s a “workaholic”, rigid, bossy, manipulative & looks tired all the time.
Spent 30K at finishing school to learn etiquette - But is too poor to host anyone.
Tells women not to settle for an average Joe - But all her man can provide is an IKEA closet.
Brands herself as Affluent - But is too poor to hire a trainer & instead power walks in the park for FREE.
Preaches “Your network is your net worth” - But gets invited NO WHERE. Hangs out with same 2-3 people.

I can go on & on. QUESTION EVERYTHING! Nothing adds up.

 
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Crazy_chick

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Do you know what I really feel sorry for? That leveling up means only to wear designer clothes and to live that affluent and wealthy lifestyle for the majority of SOA students and for their teacher as well. Leveling up means find yourself a rich guy and milk him. Only a very small percentage see it as becoming better version of yourself on spiritual level. Like reading more books (not only those etiquette related), study more, get a degree and diploma... I mean you can’t eat from a pretty bowl if it’s empty 🐥
 
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laurensanchez

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Maybe the climb she's referring to is onto the bodies of her aging clients who can't afford better? :ROFLMAO:
Au contraire

It is the rush to make more money before her house of cards come tumbling down.

The journalist I spoke to is researching as we speak. Anna will be persona non grata soon.

Not a single person interviewed had anything nice to say. Receipts were provided too.
 
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svdwoodsen

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The sad part is, most of her followers appear to be of a very young age and/or from developing countries. They are the perfect target for a scam like hers that sells a dream they will probably never have. I hope more of these young women start to read these threads so that they will feel comfortable questioning and applying a little bit of critical thinking.. hopefully helping them realize that you don’t need to pay $1000 for info that you can easily find online for free. Buy a book instead ladies. If you need recommendations, create an account on here and ask the women in this group. Save that money for something else!
Honestly, if you're from a third world country and a poor family (not judging here, just stating facts), GET A GOOD EDUCATION. It is the single best thing you can possibly invest in for 99% of the world (including those from developed countries). And if you're part of the 1% that doesn't need an education to have access to the right connections and opportunities, then you don't need bs like Aija's.

For every Natalia Vodianova or Melania Trump out there, there are MILLIONS of equally beautiful women who have failed so don't bother going for that, especially for some of Anna's students who look more like Anna than a fashion model. It's ok to want to improve your circumstances but don't be a fool about it. Stop being lazy, and try to actually work and be a decent person. You'd be surprised at the positive results.
 
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Crazy_chick

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hi girls long time no see! I would love chatting more with you but i’m very busy educating myself, ( i’m studying law and economics, take some notes Aija). Anyway i’m just quickly saying hello and leaving you this screen i got without any context, hope you’ll still be able to sleep after seeing that 😭 love you all 🥰🤍

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for a moment I thought that I see our Godmother of all drama Jeff
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Stubbssie

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Anna Bey otherwise known as Aija Raty/Aija Darling is a former Swedish/Estonian reality TV participant, pole dancer, and alleged sugar baby who has been accused of borrowing generously from her friends and peers to create her "online finishing school" The School of Affluence.

In thread one, we discussed her boyfriend, failed/fake engagement, racist screenshots, content theft, trampy times in Malta, ridiculous song, and inability to match white tones. Insiders from her past continue to come forward with stories about her past as an SB.
 
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vikka

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I hope that I’m not the only one who is uncomfortable with this. Gossiping and criticizing Aija’s business is one thing, but posting photos like this is something else.
The photos are posted on public accounts and in addition they are tagged. I'd agree if it came from private accounts (from people who want privacy).

I don’t personally see anything wrong with her body. Not perfect but I don’t see bulky she seems very slim to me.
I agree, I don't get all the criticism on her body at all and I don't quite get all the criticism on what she wears.
Her face is another matter and some things she wears are def not good at all, but her body is perfectly fine and I don't see how her legs are "bulky" and her stomach "fat".

I'd like to briefly point out that it is virtually impossible for women to have super flat stomachs, for men it's hard, for women even harder. Aija is slim and has a good figure.

Sure, she doesn't seem to have a trainer, but honestly, that doesn't exactly mean anything. Perhaps she does the workout she prefers (walking) and has the freedom to do it whenever she wants to without having to co-ordinate a schedule with some person. Walking is extremely healthy, more so than going to the gym. Pilates and yoga are also easily done at home.

I can't agree on the criticism or find fault with her body or method of training.
 
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Have you ever had same clients as her? Any gossips? How is she in bed etc? As far as I know she has never had any loong artangement with whale. She was reciving very low allowance for 3,4 months and then was dumped. No properties, cars, jewellery, stocks nothing. Noone wanted to invest in her and change her life.

Yeah, I probably shared someone. Because in those scenes, girls get passed around. If you do a nice "job", it's one of two: someone wants you for themselves or they "recommend" you.

She had nothing to show for it. Dinners, yachts, vacations and all that: sure. But me for example, got a job and investment from a guy. Not a big whale, but def millionaire. And that is how I got out. Other girls got out too.

She got enough to go by, but never saw her in a long term SB relationship. I have asked around and some girls said she tried being a Madame in London and disguised it as "match making".

She hates sex. I don't know why and I respect her reasons. She just saw it as transaction, but when we would give sex tips or tell stories she would stay mute. She mentioned she had to fake orgasms and moans. Men know. Especially they pay, they still want someone who's a good time, more if you are not great looking.
 
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laurensanchez

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actually when i posted i was waiting for a reply like this from you 😂😂


orh i´m always cringing so hard when she would say « fReE ChEaTsHiT » 🤢

btw girls it’s been some time now that i discovered a new youtuber who talks about elegance and leveling up (like levelling up for yourself, not to find an old rich man that will take care of you). Her name is Linda Sandrine, if you have time check her out and tell me what you think of her but you can clearly see the difference with Aija, Linda is really feminine, well behaved and she dresses elegantly for her age View attachment 257384
She seems much more feminine and attractive. Though her content is very similar. This elegance and femininity thing is overboard. If you are a woman you are feminine full stop. Why do stereotypical things like wear pink etc.? Surely our foremothers did not fight for equality to have us revert 100 years. My definition of a successful woman is one who does what she wants and lives life on her own terms. Not bound by the rules of "high society" or the whims of her sugar daddy.
 
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laurensanchez

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lol as if Lauren would really give her access into her circle. if people like Lauren are able to get a rich man and keep him, its because they know when to stay away from people like Anna. sure, she might give her a few interactions on Instagram because she knows Anna will drool over her (just like she does with Lina Hadid constantly) and it will boost her self esteem and get her free promo. but in the real world, Lauren knows exactly where she stands. so do most of the other women that she posts from her multiple side accounts like jetsetgoals and the likes.

at the end of the day the main thing Anna and all her students are wishfully thinking about is having a life like Lauren's. if you really think about it, Lauren could easily create a course like Anna's and be even more successful because she actually married a rich man and can easily prove it.


and even if she did decide to help her somehow, Anna would fumble the bag tremendously, and then we would have to deal with even more pretentious, useless videos from her



its actually botox. she posted a story asking if she should get botox and majority of people voted no, but she went and got it anyway. i guess that's why she couldn't wear makeup
Lauren did one vid with her and that was it haha. She is jetting to London in private jets, Anna is renting a closet in Geneva. She probably never even socialised with Lauren outside of a video chat or seen her house in Monaco. She's a fan, not Lauren's equal.

Not a single affluent woman can be called her friend. And someone with the last name Hadid doesn't count, she seems like a champagne socialist. Writing anti Semitic posts while crying for her Palestinian people all the way from the comfort of her Swiss mansion, dabbing her tears with an Hermes scarf.
 
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svdwoodsen

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I'm sorry but the hypocrisy in that comment is just hilarious!

So apparently the largest forum around for African American ladies isn't "classy, elegant, or upscale" (I won't even bother getting into the racial implications there...also no one who speaks proper English uses "upscale" to describe a person. It's use to describe inanimate objects or is a verb :rolleyes:) but her scamming groups of uneducated gold diggers and escorts from mostly developing countries is? :ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO:

These same women who ask "which bars/hotels should I hang out at to run into rich men?" and "How can I get my man to give me more money or should I leave him for a richer man"?" are classy/elegant/"upscale"? :ROFLMAO: :ROFLMAO: :ROFLMAO: 💀 💀 💀
 
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Birdseed2

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And she's black lol. Anna must hate that this woman and Meghan Markle types achieved so much more than she ever will.

Where did she say the nail polish thing? Sounds like another ridiculous example from someone who does not have high society experience.
She got many many “rules” to be high society. Must wear like this. Must talk like that. Must hold the glass like this. In her old group got people making playlist for high class dinner. 1st suggestion of what to play = Kenny g. Lmao. 😭😭😭😭

But she NEVER mention the three most important things because she herself don’t have them. You must have money n you must have connections, if you don’t have those two you better have education. So sorry, good bye Anna, door closing, mind the gap.
 
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