Oh @leviosa what an absolute areshole! So what’s to stop him doing the same thing again?I was right. He has come home from meeting her and told me he does want to pursue a relationship with her. However he still wants the status quo here.
My kids still living at home dont want him to move out and will hate me if I kick him out. He's done a real number on us all. He's out shagging around and I am STILL the bad guy.
As you say, he’s really done a number in you. You’re the only one who knows what he’s really been up to, so everybody else still thinks he’s a loving husband
I know it’s hard and that you probably still love him, but he’s not going to change. He’s already told you he doesn’t love you, so has he decided he does love you again? If it were me, I’d still be making moves to get myself out of the relationship. He’s not a good man. I think you know this now - even if you’re relieved this current situation has blown over, he will do it again because he’s seen he can get away with it.
I hope you manage to find the strength to move on and take some of the brilliant advice that’s been given by the other posters on here. We’re all with you, willing you on.