Alice Evans & Ioan Gruffudd #244 Alice, it’s time to stop doxxing and start detoxing

[missbct]

What bothers me is that I am 99% sure Ioan would have wanted to help in a situation like that. Alice is lamenting that she’s a single parent, which technically she is, but she didn’t have to be the only parent - to imply heavily that she has no one else to help is entirely by her own design.

She should be thanking her stars she had a ex husband who wanted to be a parent to their children. My ex sees our son every other weekend deliberately scheduled to make minimal impact on him and barely does any holiday time, so the fiscal and logistical cost is on me entirely. I get no extra support for the £1000 extra it costs in the summer holiday for childcare, given that I don’t work a job where I can take the entirety of it off. Ex earns double what I do, and pays the bare minimum per month. Alice could have really had a very cushty set up from her separation, but the anger and sheer cuntiness won out - a real shame.

 

[Loveu2]

I'm guessing it has something to do with the narcissist bitch ex wife.

 

[Treacletrixter]

So she’s trying to doxx people by throwing random names around. The only prerequisite is to follow Bianca or having liked or commented on her posts. Clever.

I have updated my avatar with my latest image. I am confident she won’t recognise me because of the hat. Not looking my best but you know family issues at the moment.

 

[NarcRage]

Imagine being a self conscious teen. You leave the school you're at. You start a new school. You stay there a year. You get taken out of that school and stay at home for a year. You start a new school. With all the stress of making new friends, fitting in etc.

Meanwhile your mother posts photos of you even though you don't want her to and have asked her not to.

She sets up pap shots of you. She then posts photos of these set up pap shots of you crying on her social media. Then she tells the whole world about your periods.

Plus all the other shit going on.

Knowing how self conscious your child is why would you do this????? It's so fucking awful. I feel for her so much having Alice as a 'mother.'

 

[ThisishowIlivenow]

I'm so glad they decided to go to this year's gala It was just terrible timing last year, almost bang on the in fact. Almost like it was planned that way They couldn't possibly have gone, how would that have looked? We all knew it was false but to the general public it may have looked bad.

Nevertheless they went this year and there's Ioan with his bee tie on taking photos of his fiancée on the red carpet. Something a bit precious about that.


I'm not discussing the other one.
It's far too early for that shit.

 

[M33L4]

Sorry but @unobtrusive lurker just gave me my 250,000 reaction. I’m a bit emosh.

 

[Valerian16]

Alice's constant ranting about tattle has led to someone looking up tattle and finding all the court documents showing what a piece of garbage she is.

Smartest person in the room strikes again.

 

[Ametrine]

Ella's attitude is all on her. She allowed the disrespect towards Ioan. She will reap what she sow.

I'm sorry but I don't agree with this. Ella was 11 when this started, and she's only 14 now. She has been manipulated and emotionally abused by Alice.

What do you think the consequences would be for Ella if she stands up to her mother and doesn't go along with what she says? And since Ioan left Alice, Ella has been stuck with Alice, listening to Alice's stupid and bigoted views on the world. She now doesn't attend school in real life, which means her chance to socialise with normal people has been removed. She missed one whole year of school because of Alice.

She is a victim of Alice too, as big a one as Ioan, if not more.

 

[Ametrine]

Actually, Alice is afraid of men seeing her in person.

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"I have met some lovely men online".

No she hasn't. Lovely men wouldn't approach her with a bargepole after what she did to her ex-husband.

 

[Loveu2]

Did Ioan ever wear any shitty thing that Alice glued her initials on?
I love this!

 

[Diamonds60]

“But WE’RE unable to pay the rent this month”

Ahhh no Alice YOU can’t pay the rent. This has nothing to do with the girls.

Also I bet you can if you dipped into your hidden funds.

 

[twittwottoo]

 

[welp]

her fans have so many self owns. this pic is from 2019 lmao

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I'm so glad they decided to go to this year's gala It was just terrible timing last year, almost bang on the in fact. Almost like it was planned that way They couldn't possibly have gone, how would that have looked? We all knew it was false but to the general public it may have looked bad.

Nevertheless they went this year and there's Ioan with his bee tie on taking photos of his fiancée on the red carpet. Something a bit precious about that.


I'm not discussing the other one.
It's far too early for that shit.

Loopy did pretty much confirm that it was timed back then

aged like milk

 

[M33L4]

Hands up if you think Bianca blocks randoms who happen to follow Alice…
Or, hands up if you think she quite rightly blocks Alice stans abusing her on her timeline…

 

[M33L4]

Bianca is glowing, beautiful and confident. Ioan looks more laid back than before, he doesn’t have that awkward grin he had to wear while Big Al had him in a headlock.

They are almost two years in so the loved up hormones are settled. Less PDA’s more ‘did you take my yoghurt’ and ‘why do you always do that?’ kind of love. The age gap will probably have raised its head quite significantly by now.

She’s really lovely but I still think Ioan rebounded into this relationship and fear he will feel pressure to commit to her and do the ‘decent’ thing rather than face the possibility that he needs time alone to heal and move into future relationships from a place of strength. I dunno I’m just feeling that again now.

I moved on very quickly after my separation from my first husband. We’re now eleven years and several kids in and newly married. I guess when you’ve been in a fraught and abusive relationship you know the difference. He’s clearly more relaxed with Bianca, that’s shown in his demeanour around her. It also seems to me that Bianca has also had significant and traumatic life with her first husband and MS diagnosis and has a wise head on her shoulders.
Sometimes romantic relationships are only meant to last a few years, there doesn’t appear to be a troubled relationship other than this shitshow with Alice and the kids which is hopefully coming to an end.
I can see them lasting and being respectful if not.

 

[ButterTart]

Can’t pay rent but can buy overpriced face creams and freighted fish. Priorities, priorities…

Yup. Buy less La Mer. Pay more rent. See, Alice? It’s not hard. Oh, and find a place YOU can afford with your own income. Oh, and a tip: if you are evicted, that will show on your credit history making future landlords a lot less likely to rent to you. Chop, chop. Time to get moving. Literally.

 

[M33L4]

Here’s a clue Al, get a cheaper apartment. Shithead.

 

[MavisBeacon]

I'm loving the pics of Yo and Bee (not just these ones, all of them). I look back on pics from when I was in an abusive marriage and I look so tense and drawn, even when I'm trying to look happy, as i was so on edge. It was only afterwards when I got together with Mr Beacon that I saw the difference in me.

 

[Old Soak]

The properly redacted post I think lol
Sorry and thanks for the catch y’all

 

[Pixie’s Mam]

Buoyed by piggybacking on @Hiraeth's success, I'm going to me-rail a bit, but it's still relevant to the thread.

Last summer my husband and partner of 20 years shagged his best mates wife and fucked off without warning or any conversation. To be honest, it was not the first time he'd cheated (but will be the last time he'll ever cheat on me, that's for sure!). His family actually defended his behaviour and even blamed me for it. Mind blown! Contact has now been cut with all of them and I grey rock my ex while I navigate the divorce (that I filed for, which he hated. HA!) Thankfully, there are no children involved.

I came to the realisation that I’d been living with a covert narcissist all this time. Coming to terms with the emotional/psychological and verbal abuse has been a journey, especially acknowledging the damage he’s caused me. Initially, I was angry. Very angry. And devastated. Was I reactive? Yes, in the beginning I’m ashamed to say, but he did something particularly heinous early on that completely broke the trauma bond for me. This helped me gain much needed perspective and I pulled my head out of my ass, moved to a new home (because I had to) and started to re-build myself and my new life. I very quickly realised how liberating it was not having to walk on eggshells or be with someone who couldn’t have cared less for me.

I have very recently met someone new who couldn’t be more opposite to my ex. Taking it slow but having fun. He’s very funny and made me realise that I’d been miserable for a VERY long time.

I keep comparing my situation to Alice’s and just cannot understand how someone can remain so ‘stuck’. I couldn’t imagine still being where I was 8/9 months ago, it would be such a waste of my life. It’s baffling to me how anyone can behave the way she has for so long. Of course, I know my story is much more aligned to Ioan’s than Alice's.

You turds have gotten me through some pretty dark times, and you didn’t even know. Love you all.

Quoting myself here, but I just wanted to thank all of you. I didn’t expect my post to get so much attention, but thank you all so much again for your support, kind words and sharing your own personal experiences. I had a fantastic support network around me at the time, but still needed escape and light relief, which is what you all gave me on this thread. Believe me when I say that even though I don’t comment often, I’ve lurked steadfastly throughout the whole saga and I‘ve drawn continuous strength from all of your experiences that you’ve bravely shared here.