Hello all, been following this family for years (previously bc I liked them but then when they sent Chad to Anasazi I was like nope this isn’t right and I haven’t watched them since) now I’m following the drama. One thing I’ve noticed is that Shari has gone to the same university that Kevin works at, therefore, (and this may be a stretch) my thoughts are that Kevin is likely to have moved out bc if he felt the same as Ruby, he would’ve been easily able to contact Shari pretty much daily to convince her otherwise, if he’s at work and she’s on campus. My other thought is that I think Ruby knew Shari would be the first to speak out, Shari’s always been intelligent, in the video of her packing for college Ruby said “Shari has been preparing/packing for the past 5 years” and also that she would miss Shari because she would be “losing the mantle of power” and the “stewardship” she would have over Shari.
Sorry for the ramble, I have a lot of thoughts on all this and just feel so sorry for the kids. Thank goodness the wider family (Bonnie/E&J etc) are on Shari’s side and have commented sending love to her on insta.