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Jesus fucking christ this woman drives me insane!
As a single mum of 2 to a child with cystic fibrosis, who is also tube fed, is on a great deal of medication and has to have physio multiple times a day and needs a fair bit of support through the night to clear mucous, among other additional needs. I work 35 hours a week, do all my own school drop offs and pick ups, never miss a hospital appt, I have no carers, no motability, absolutely zero input from the kids dad I would never, ever dream of consistently labelling myself a 'carer' I'm a fucking parent, I parent my children. I also appreciate in the grand scheme of things I am incredibly lucky.
The last couple of weeks her posts have honestly made me so incredibly angry, get the fuck over yourself and PARENT YOUR CHILD!
Why the fuck does she think the world owes her anything. J hasn't been underscored on the assessment in my opinion. He's mobile, he communicates and he was toilet training at one point. I also stand by she purposely let his tube site get that manky to score higher on the assessment.
There are so many families out there so much more deserving and in need of 60hrs a week of carers than her. Ergh this probably makes no sense but I'm just fucking angry.

Thread title nomination:

The Nurse Mum #14 - Virgin on the Ridiculous

Too long for a thread suggestion but in the spirit of Christmas....


On the twelfth day of Christmas
Kaytee gave to me
Twelve selfies crying,
Eleven ‘sold out’ calendars,
Ten fake nails,
Nine products in her bathtub,
Eight prescription pick ups,
Seven PT sessions,
Six Zara try ons,
FIVE TINDER DATES,
Four cringe tiktoks ,
Three pole vids,
Two parking fines,
And a massive beg for another go fund meeee

DiscoBiscuit said:

I don't think anyone does. Either she's lying about getting messages about these dreams, or the people sending these messages are lying to crawl up her arse and get her attention. Not sure why they'd want that, but I'd bet these are the same people walking around with those "Jaxon angel wings" shirts on.

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Yeah you just KNOW the type…..

JAXON’S ARMY
Some god awful frame around their Facebook profile photo to do with the army or help for heroes
Dead parents name badly tattooed on their wrist/collar bone/shoulder blade with accompanying poem like “forever together/never apart: love you always Dad”
Photos of their children plus grandchildren with captions like “ma gawjus babies, so proud of all of em”
Occupation listed as “full time mummy”
Never had an actual job in reality
Lots of posts of chav-inspirational poems and quotes like “live love laugh” or “be the light you want to see in the world”
Has a framed print in the kitchen that says something about this kitchen being full of love and laughter/photo of New York or London sky line in hallway and random photo of Marylin Monroe or Audrey Hepburn in bedroom
Seaside themed bathroom or loo

New thread title

the nurse mum #10 selling merch affirmations whilst lapping up the donations

the nurse mum #10 crying on insta over a merc just get of your arse and go to work

She's gonna end up with that car 100% she'll say how everyone was messaging her saying using the go fund me and it actually wasn't as expensive as she was expecting.... Blah blah blah!

When she started saying about how much Jackson loved the sun roof my eyes rolled so far back I saw my brain. We know the sun roof was all about her and getting good lighting for stories. Literally using her deceased son to milk every last drop she can out of people.

Can you imagine being his Dad, or other family member, visiting Jaxon's grave and some randomer turns up an starts talking to you.

"Are you one of Kathleen's followers too?"
"No, I'm the Dad she pretended wasn't around."

I really question the sanity of someone who would visit the grave of a child just because they followed his Mother on Instagram. It's just plain weird.

I don’t agree with everything she’s done but whoever sent her that vile DM should be ashamed of themselves.

Do you think jaxons father is crying over a car NO he’s sat crying and grieving his son whilst Having to put up with her behaviour acting like he never existed and not even having the decency to ask him if it’s ok to invite absolute strangers from the internet to his sons grave. Those supporting this parasite have no consideration for his father . She may well have gained 1.400 new followers from her little meltdown and fake troll message yesterday but one things for sure is everyday she opens her mouth and speaks is another day she looses followers . People are waking up to her bullshit .

Saltypopcorn said:

Is it worth exploring if there's any legal roads that can be gone down to try and stop what is happening?

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report report report that’s all we have done and will keep doing until she stops . She thinks because she was the One who Had jaxon living at the home that she was the only one with rights she was clever in what she was doing she knows what to say and do to make people believe her . Jaxons father ( I won’t say his name because its not nice for people to go messaging him ) hasalwasy been private and will not stand up to her but those close to him have had enough and that’s why I’m speaking up now on here at first I didn’t want to make myself known or that I know his father but it’s getting hard to carry on biting our tongues and watch her do this to him. He does not want her selling clothing with his child on . He does not want people sharing photos of his son . He does not want Strangers visiting his sons resting place . He does not want her making money anymore from his sons death.

‘Last Christmas you paid for my Amazon Cart but the very next day they took Kiera’s away. This year screw all the tiers I’ll give corona to someone special’

A J souvenir shop. Mortified the hell out of my skin. It's worse than I imagined, t shirts with his face on. Where the heck are her loved ones? Never would I allow a grieving relative to embarrass themselves like this publically. Aisha is on holiday and has encouraged her to do this? She has no real friends at all. This is just some weird exploitative souvenir shop. T shirts with his face and angel wings. I actually expected better than this, i did not think she would stoop this low or open up something so tacky. I choked when I saw theres even a sticker you can buy. What's next? Postcards, bottle openers and tea towels. Kathleen you forgot keyrings! He was not famous and even if he was, you wouldn't see other parents selling fashion with a photoshopped picture of their child on.

I dont understand why more people are not alarmed with what is happening before their eyes. Kathleen's threads on tattle have had hundreds of thousands of views, it's the elephant in the room that alot of people know about but dont talk about on insta. After everything that has been pointed out on here over the past few months, will people start seeing this for what it is? Alarm bells should be ringing. Finding a new income stream is always her goal. She even said before J became ill that she had been brainstorming thinking about multiple income streams. It's sad that her primary way of making money is J. Making people feel sorry for him, but even more sorry for her. I hope people wake up and smell the Valentinos, she lost J and her focus straight away was making money. This was the last chance for a GoFundMe, so that was launched. She looked for a mortgage then said she couldn't get one and did anyone have any ideas. For months people have said shes is building thenursemum as a brand, only taking the nursing job briefly so she could keep up the nurse image - well this is a brilliant way to show everyone we was all wrong - launching an official brand 12 weeks after J has passed. I was genuinely alarmed at what I saw on that website, I didn't realise it was going to be a souvenir shop, for someone with expensive taste she has cheapened her childs memory for a quick buck.

I may be on my own here, but like the Ashley Cain thread is a number no title, I don’t think it’s appropriate here.

We can all agree she’s a vile woman, but she has just lost her child and a pithy thread title is exactly what gives Tattle a bad name.

She suffers from wealth dysmorphia. In her head she's rich, beautiful, successful, a babygirl with gold chains and a Merc. In real life she's mother to a child with additional needs living off the state, unemployed and selling her son's private medical information and milestones for Insta fame and ads.

Thread title 15 - Kaytee has her wings and is ready to fly, but will you get Nurse Jekyll or Flight Attendant Hyde

What pisses me off is how she puts all parents of a disabled child are like her. The sen community. No. We are not.
There are plenty of single mums from the sen community who don't have carers. With children who qualify. There's mums who don't use transport. They don't chuck their kid to whoever will have them. They don't use a hospice like a dogs kennel so they can jet off.
They don't throw pity parties. They don't post distressing videos.
I can go and on.
I wish she'd stop making out we are all like her.
We are not. I am fed up of you Kathy using us who you never supported or interacted with... and we have never liked you.
Just because you've still a few sen accounts up your are doesn't mean we all do. Doesn't mean you can use the sen community as your get out of jail free card whilst giving us a bad name.

Sick of hearing the pity party for one.
Never in my life have I heard someoneove herself so so much and hate her life. Let's face it she hates it. She's unhappy. She's quick to use her son to fund her lifestyle but that's all he's good for. Cash. "Fame".
She never should of been a mother. She's no maternal instinct and she's a vile personality.

Shes not so busy when she's travelling to London for her teeth done, or jetting off on yet another holiday, or doing her lip pumping that lasted a week, or getting her gifted hair done, or going on tinderdates , pole dancing, London weekend trips away for cocktails and expensive hotels, personal workouts...
She has a warped idea of life as a parent to a child with complex needs.

Other than his potassium and tube site.... what does she deal with that's so complex? So hard to care for? All I see is a child who can communicate, play, talk, see, hear, move around independently, no seizures, no respiratory needs, no pressure sores, no dystopia or muscle spasms... he doesn't go to the hospice anymore ... so I'd like to know if he actually fits the criteria she keeps using as a pity party.
This is no competition what so ever but how she can post that shit when there are others in harder situations... who haven't got thousands fundraised, a support system.... and even those who do qualify for things but choose not. She takes everything going. Does the bare minimum when she does have her son and yet.... we are supposed to feel sorry for her?

Your not the first and only person to have a child with additional needs Kathy hun. Come shadow me for a week with my son and I'll show you you've nothing to moan about. Get over it.

If you actually looked after your son, kept up to his tube site, got him help when needed, was on the ball making sure people know he's down to his last liner in his wheelchair... if you kept him on his anti reflix medications and stuck to a care plan for longer than a week you'd probably find you wouldn't be in the mess you call your life.

CasinoRoyal said:

This thread is savage. Yes she may have her faults and made mistakes but her child is dead.

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Just because her child died doesn’t make her a good person, you don’t automatically become reborn when you go through a traumatic event

don’t just post photos in hospital with no description just for engagement

Mrslh is a troll. She uses multiple accounts and I assume has been banned from Tattle before. She first popped up on here as livingmybestlife asking what the situation with Kathleen was. She was told to go back and read the previous threads. That account I can’t access now but we can all still see her posts on previous threads. Then she appeared again as happylou. That account looks like it may have been banned by tattle as the last posts she made on there were her arguing with others who were upset with her for sending personal messages, which is against the rules on here.

I don’t know mrslh personally but I recognised her posts and distinctive writing styles from another thread on here that she frequents. She’s been called out on that one too for sending personal messages and making lies about her relationship towards the people being discussed.

If you scroll to the top of this page and click on nurse mum threads, go to thread 7. The first page has comments from livingmybestlife, the last has them from happylou. Look at the way they all type, I really don’t think I’m wrong.

I prefer to read tattle in the background, not get involved but this is a serious thread where people have always been careful to be factual, I suspect the maturity from posters is what has allowed it to stay open. The integrity of it is being spoiled now with mrslh’s made up life. Nothing she has said is new, she’s just repeating the same topics over and over. I don’t know how to report her otherwise I would.

Why are people ganging up and challenging @mrslh ? Believe or don’t believe and move on, there’s no need for cross examination surely?

Barkin Mad said:

I know that + I found it disrespectful that she would even post that around AJ + when Jaxon was conceived, suppose some of her new followers at the Time wasn’t aware that J dad was in his son’s life

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Well Js dad is my brothers, boyfriends, uncles, dogs friend and he told me that he was furious about it x