I'd like to know where all the fundraiser money before he passed went. Then what has this fundraiser been spent on because funerals for children are free.
I'm not going to discuss blame on here and keep my options to myself on that matter but....
This rainbow shit since he passed. Like mentioned above is all for the brand. Its pretty damn obvious what her intentions are.
In the earlier days he was in a full pad, leaking all over the carpets everyday. Then when he was dressed it was extremely baggy clothes that were chavvy. Then she started trying to get in with the influencers and working with brands and then it was all Zara and dressing him in stuff she'd never done just for the free clothes so she wouldn't need to fork out dressing him. Let's not forget the constant begs for him being a model for clothing brands.
Now all of a sudden rainbows were him.
She couldn't even chuck a spare pair of clothes in the car in case he had one of his 50 vomits a day for crying out loud.
I could spot the brand/shop coming a mile off when the affirmations on the tote was purposefully placed in stories at the coast. The leather jacket. The trainers.
The staged pictures of her working on the shop by her friend.... like fuck they were taken randomly.
Nothing is random with her. It's always been calculated, planned right from the beginning.
The crying in stories. I am all for people speaking out about grief. It needs to be done. It needs to be discussed.... but getting her phone out to film her cry? Sorry but that whole thing gave me staged vibes.
Getting people to share their memories of her son.... non of these people knew him!!!!!!!I are strangers. And all of that is for engagement. Don't D M me your memories put them on the post.... engagement.
Everything is done to higher her profile. I wondered where she'd go with this after his death and hoped she'd take herself off and grieve. But no. The swipe up links are back, profiting off him as per usual. I am absolutely devasted for J. We all watched the neglect, the questionable actions.
I do believe this thread should be here. If you don't like it don't read simple.
Did I ever see her reaching out to grieving parents before her own son passed?no.
Did I ever see her give to others fundraisers?no.
Did I ever see her supporting over diagnosis and health matters?no.
I saw her making it all about her every time. Slagging off cancer wards the same wards her new pals Saff and Ash stayed on. I saw her never supporting anyone unless is gained her something.
Every child that dies has the same devastating impact as the other. It is the most heartbreaking, world ending thing to happen to a parent. Seeing her with thousands of support, money to splurge and show off, seeing her hold firework displays, getting strangers to share their favourite pictures of j, lighting candles, making merchandise off a child who never could agree to any of the things even when he was here.... it's too far. But she's not thinking of others who are grieving. Of his dad who probably has no say in all of this. Of his family who have all now appeared in a off of smoke. Of the people giving their money to line her pockets so she can carry on the influencer life, having people kiss her arse because she gets off on that. And most importantly this isn't fair on j.
His whole life was laid bare, vomits, leaking patches, burnt skin, naked body, pain, distress, missed feeds and meds, being passed from carer to father, the ableism from his own mother.... and now even in death his life is still being paraded around like its a cinema showing that people have to buy a ticket for. This isn't a time to make profit and share swipe up links. A little boy has sadly passed and I am in complete shock that she has surpassed all my expectations. I honestly thought it would end. This will never end.
I'm not going to discuss blame on here and keep my options to myself on that matter but....
This rainbow shit since he passed. Like mentioned above is all for the brand. Its pretty damn obvious what her intentions are.
In the earlier days he was in a full pad, leaking all over the carpets everyday. Then when he was dressed it was extremely baggy clothes that were chavvy. Then she started trying to get in with the influencers and working with brands and then it was all Zara and dressing him in stuff she'd never done just for the free clothes so she wouldn't need to fork out dressing him. Let's not forget the constant begs for him being a model for clothing brands.
Now all of a sudden rainbows were him.
She couldn't even chuck a spare pair of clothes in the car in case he had one of his 50 vomits a day for crying out loud.
I could spot the brand/shop coming a mile off when the affirmations on the tote was purposefully placed in stories at the coast. The leather jacket. The trainers.
The staged pictures of her working on the shop by her friend.... like fuck they were taken randomly.
Nothing is random with her. It's always been calculated, planned right from the beginning.
The crying in stories. I am all for people speaking out about grief. It needs to be done. It needs to be discussed.... but getting her phone out to film her cry? Sorry but that whole thing gave me staged vibes.
Getting people to share their memories of her son.... non of these people knew him!!!!!!!I are strangers. And all of that is for engagement. Don't D M me your memories put them on the post.... engagement.
Everything is done to higher her profile. I wondered where she'd go with this after his death and hoped she'd take herself off and grieve. But no. The swipe up links are back, profiting off him as per usual. I am absolutely devasted for J. We all watched the neglect, the questionable actions.
I do believe this thread should be here. If you don't like it don't read simple.
Did I ever see her reaching out to grieving parents before her own son passed?no.
Did I ever see her give to others fundraisers?no.
Did I ever see her supporting over diagnosis and health matters?no.
I saw her making it all about her every time. Slagging off cancer wards the same wards her new pals Saff and Ash stayed on. I saw her never supporting anyone unless is gained her something.
Every child that dies has the same devastating impact as the other. It is the most heartbreaking, world ending thing to happen to a parent. Seeing her with thousands of support, money to splurge and show off, seeing her hold firework displays, getting strangers to share their favourite pictures of j, lighting candles, making merchandise off a child who never could agree to any of the things even when he was here.... it's too far. But she's not thinking of others who are grieving. Of his dad who probably has no say in all of this. Of his family who have all now appeared in a off of smoke. Of the people giving their money to line her pockets so she can carry on the influencer life, having people kiss her arse because she gets off on that. And most importantly this isn't fair on j.
His whole life was laid bare, vomits, leaking patches, burnt skin, naked body, pain, distress, missed feeds and meds, being passed from carer to father, the ableism from his own mother.... and now even in death his life is still being paraded around like its a cinema showing that people have to buy a ticket for. This isn't a time to make profit and share swipe up links. A little boy has sadly passed and I am in complete shock that she has surpassed all my expectations. I honestly thought it would end. This will never end.
Some of the comm ents on here regarding views on respite need addressing. I am a parent of a child who has complex medical needs.
Kathy has and is still continuing to paint parents of medically complex children in a bad light.
J didn't need the carers he got because he wasn't as medically complex as his mother liked to portray.
However there are children who do fit that criteria and reading some of the comments about leaving well kids and not being able to .... I just have to point out .... Kathy is the extreme. She's already painted us all in a bad light because of the go fund me's we all supposedly have for our disabled children..... now she's making people think that respite is like abandoning your child.
Respite is there for parents with medically complex children because it is needed. Parenting a child who has oxygen, seizures, medication hourly, needing turning in the night etc..... well its very very different to parenting a child who doesn't have those health problems. It's tiring.
We arnt all like Kathy. We don't milk the system for all its worth. We are greatful for the things we do get. The mobility car.... that I can assure you every single parent I know alongside me use the mobility scheme for our child. Not to look good posed with designer goods in. We always give back to others, we share others fundraisers, we put in others, we support each other, we love our children to the ends of the earth.
I do not want that twat painting a picture of SEN mums going off what that cunt is like. We arnt all exploiting out children, 'dumping' our kids in respite, living off fundraisers, driving around in Mercedes and living the High life.
This is exactly why a lot of the SEN community haven't supported her. She has damaged the reputation of a whole community and has successfully got people not wanting wanting give to fundraisers or giving people negative views on respite and the mobility scheme.
Shes the most ableist person I know and the whole point of her page was to advocate when she did the total opposite. She used her sons disability to financially gain, used his disability for sympathy and 'fame' and took advantage of the things other SEN parents fully appreciate and cherish such as the charities out there, the mobility scheme, respite, etc.
Respite is for those who need that help because trust me we need that little bit of help. She used it as a babysitting service and a stand in parent because she couldn't parent. Not because she wasn't able to. Not because her son was so so hard to look after but she just didn't want to and continually put other things before his needs.
Even now in death she is painting a bad light on grieving parents.
Please do not let that absolute disgrace of a SEN parent let alone parent of a child without disabilities distort your views on the things that come with the life myself and a lot of others lead.
Kathy has and is still continuing to paint parents of medically complex children in a bad light.
J didn't need the carers he got because he wasn't as medically complex as his mother liked to portray.
However there are children who do fit that criteria and reading some of the comments about leaving well kids and not being able to .... I just have to point out .... Kathy is the extreme. She's already painted us all in a bad light because of the go fund me's we all supposedly have for our disabled children..... now she's making people think that respite is like abandoning your child.
Respite is there for parents with medically complex children because it is needed. Parenting a child who has oxygen, seizures, medication hourly, needing turning in the night etc..... well its very very different to parenting a child who doesn't have those health problems. It's tiring.
We arnt all like Kathy. We don't milk the system for all its worth. We are greatful for the things we do get. The mobility car.... that I can assure you every single parent I know alongside me use the mobility scheme for our child. Not to look good posed with designer goods in. We always give back to others, we share others fundraisers, we put in others, we support each other, we love our children to the ends of the earth.
I do not want that twat painting a picture of SEN mums going off what that cunt is like. We arnt all exploiting out children, 'dumping' our kids in respite, living off fundraisers, driving around in Mercedes and living the High life.
This is exactly why a lot of the SEN community haven't supported her. She has damaged the reputation of a whole community and has successfully got people not wanting wanting give to fundraisers or giving people negative views on respite and the mobility scheme.
Shes the most ableist person I know and the whole point of her page was to advocate when she did the total opposite. She used her sons disability to financially gain, used his disability for sympathy and 'fame' and took advantage of the things other SEN parents fully appreciate and cherish such as the charities out there, the mobility scheme, respite, etc.
Respite is for those who need that help because trust me we need that little bit of help. She used it as a babysitting service and a stand in parent because she couldn't parent. Not because she wasn't able to. Not because her son was so so hard to look after but she just didn't want to and continually put other things before his needs.
Even now in death she is painting a bad light on grieving parents.
Please do not let that absolute disgrace of a SEN parent let alone parent of a child without disabilities distort your views on the things that come with the life myself and a lot of others lead.
opinionated_red_head
Member
First comment here but this woman needs help. So we lost my baby niece suddenly from sepsis just over a year ago, my sister is still a shell of the person she was. I managed to meet my niece once before covid hit and lockdown. Her funeral allowed 12 of us and it was the most perfect day for her, quiet and personal. Now my sister travels by bus to baby’s bed with 4 other children in tow as often as she can. It is tidy, contained and extremely personal. She occasionally shares a picture so the family can see how she’s dressed it, Easter, Christmas & 1st Birthday. Now what I don’t understand is the need for these big lavish, almost ugly displays and sharing them on social media. Grief is all consuming and I understand the need to be heard/seen/understood. What I don’t get is the need to make money from a child’s passing, I don’t get the need to share their resting place, to allocate them a colour so everything then becomes them. To be perfectly honest I find it completely insulting. Every child that passes is just as important as the one before, every child deserves a legacy and to be remembered but that is by their family not complete strangers. Raise awareness and raise money for a cause but remember that families are going through this everyday and don’t have access to endless pots of money for lavish funerals etc. Some can’t even afford to take time for themselves and I think this vile woman and the begging mentality is disgusting. Personally I think Jaxon and Azaylia shouldn’t have their faces and some really sad pictures for all to see, I think they both went through such traumatic life experiences that they should be left to rest in death. Both these poor babies were constantly used for content and there comes a time when enough is enough. Let them sleep tight.
If anyone is new here and has the time to... get yourself a bottle of wine and a packet of biscuits and have a read through the previous threads on her.
There has been so much negligence from his mother throughout his life. Before he passed, things were getting increasingly worrying and sadly I think a lot of us saw it heading this way.
We've all seen the consistent missing medication, taking him off vital medication to make him poorly, going against many professionals and starving that poor boy. Buying hot tubs for a child with kidney problems. Leaving his tube hanging out, open to infection and letting it be pulled up his tops to show he's disabled.... all the while making his gastrostomy site bigger so she could score higher on the skin section of Continuing Health care. Every section in that carer criteria was looked at by her and used to make her boy worse so she wouldn't need to look after him.
He's been passed around to anyone who would have him, left carers in hospital with her poorly son so she could be at home getting pissed up with random men and boasting about her handbags in the hot tub she said she could never use for her because of her skin. The hot tub that was left to go mouldy and could have seriously damaged the mechanics but she couldnt give a shit about people's hard earned cash as long as its there to spend on her.
Letting her son play with knifes, putting coins in his mouth, never strapping him in car correctly, letting him open windows and doors with his feet in the car. Putting him in the death trap of a high chair she had previously insisted she needed a specialist chair. Lying about the feeding school taster not going ahead. Leaving her son in a children's hospice to go abroad to Paris, Venice.... with her ex bf.
All these designer goods she'd show off slyly but her son in the earlier days wore only a dirty pad which she'd allow him to take off and smear all over the carpet. The kittens she'd let shit and piss everywhere and never teach her son to be gentle. The selling from his hospital bed, using his starving to sell weighing scales.
The amount of insisting he couldn't move around but would then film him bum shuffling, standing, stepping. Insisting he couldn't toilet but then used him for potty training ads. Insisting he couldn't communicate at all but then all of a sudden could talk, use Makaton etc. Always making out his disabilities were more than they were to bring in the fundraisers.... the pity.... the carer appeals.
The boy never got the hype of Xmas or birthdays.In his own mothers words he didn't understand it. But then can be seen spelling words on his ipad. His mother's own ableism towards her son was sickening.
I hardly ever saw that poor boy have fun with his mother without the lavish holidays. lets face it those holidays were for her and he got dragged around. Hence the urge to get him eating so she could get abroad easier .He went to school then he'd be sat in that high chair with the ipad constantly. School transport to stick on another 2 hiurs child free j she'd have. No baking, no playing, no painting. The same day in day out. Unless he was being dragged to London to hand over to his dad so she could live the life she's always wanted. And even with school, transport, carers, his dad, her family she kept quiet... she still couldn't manage. She still would say she's late putting an ad together... missing appointments , missing feeds, missing sending paperwork off. What was she doing?setting up her candles and random mirror on the hallway for yet another posed selfish in her same cleavage showing top?? Face full of slap everyday but was so exhausted. Priorities. They were lacking and always were so wrong.
Everything has always been about her. The lifestyle she is clinging on to. Clinging to carers so she didn't have to actually parent her child. Taking every ad going and using her sons disability to get the engagement up for it.
Shes deleted some of the most outrageous stories and posts because she reads here.
I am gutted j was failed. I will not say my thoughts on blame .... but I know that boy was let down massively. I hope there's an inquest and they take on board issues raised by many people on here who have reported various things. Oh there's guilt there alright. I think she knows exactly her actions And scared abiut those consequences.Hence the photos of him just before he passed being over shared. Trying to prove he was OK when actually his body was screaming out it was being pushed to the limit.
His mother is in yet about lavish resort. Second holiday since his passing. Her friends with her all glammed up, going for expensive meals and drinks.... whose visiting his grave she said she hated being away from?all I see is someone cashing in on what shouldn't never be used to gain money, living the life in marrakesh and using personal and heartbreaking memories of his lifeless body to thousands of people to sell the brand.
I've never come across a thread so serious and sickening.
There has been so much negligence from his mother throughout his life. Before he passed, things were getting increasingly worrying and sadly I think a lot of us saw it heading this way.
We've all seen the consistent missing medication, taking him off vital medication to make him poorly, going against many professionals and starving that poor boy. Buying hot tubs for a child with kidney problems. Leaving his tube hanging out, open to infection and letting it be pulled up his tops to show he's disabled.... all the while making his gastrostomy site bigger so she could score higher on the skin section of Continuing Health care. Every section in that carer criteria was looked at by her and used to make her boy worse so she wouldn't need to look after him.
He's been passed around to anyone who would have him, left carers in hospital with her poorly son so she could be at home getting pissed up with random men and boasting about her handbags in the hot tub she said she could never use for her because of her skin. The hot tub that was left to go mouldy and could have seriously damaged the mechanics but she couldnt give a shit about people's hard earned cash as long as its there to spend on her.
Letting her son play with knifes, putting coins in his mouth, never strapping him in car correctly, letting him open windows and doors with his feet in the car. Putting him in the death trap of a high chair she had previously insisted she needed a specialist chair. Lying about the feeding school taster not going ahead. Leaving her son in a children's hospice to go abroad to Paris, Venice.... with her ex bf.
All these designer goods she'd show off slyly but her son in the earlier days wore only a dirty pad which she'd allow him to take off and smear all over the carpet. The kittens she'd let shit and piss everywhere and never teach her son to be gentle. The selling from his hospital bed, using his starving to sell weighing scales.
The amount of insisting he couldn't move around but would then film him bum shuffling, standing, stepping. Insisting he couldn't toilet but then used him for potty training ads. Insisting he couldn't communicate at all but then all of a sudden could talk, use Makaton etc. Always making out his disabilities were more than they were to bring in the fundraisers.... the pity.... the carer appeals.
The boy never got the hype of Xmas or birthdays.In his own mothers words he didn't understand it. But then can be seen spelling words on his ipad. His mother's own ableism towards her son was sickening.
I hardly ever saw that poor boy have fun with his mother without the lavish holidays. lets face it those holidays were for her and he got dragged around. Hence the urge to get him eating so she could get abroad easier .He went to school then he'd be sat in that high chair with the ipad constantly. School transport to stick on another 2 hiurs child free j she'd have. No baking, no playing, no painting. The same day in day out. Unless he was being dragged to London to hand over to his dad so she could live the life she's always wanted. And even with school, transport, carers, his dad, her family she kept quiet... she still couldn't manage. She still would say she's late putting an ad together... missing appointments , missing feeds, missing sending paperwork off. What was she doing?setting up her candles and random mirror on the hallway for yet another posed selfish in her same cleavage showing top?? Face full of slap everyday but was so exhausted. Priorities. They were lacking and always were so wrong.
Everything has always been about her. The lifestyle she is clinging on to. Clinging to carers so she didn't have to actually parent her child. Taking every ad going and using her sons disability to get the engagement up for it.
Shes deleted some of the most outrageous stories and posts because she reads here.
I am gutted j was failed. I will not say my thoughts on blame .... but I know that boy was let down massively. I hope there's an inquest and they take on board issues raised by many people on here who have reported various things. Oh there's guilt there alright. I think she knows exactly her actions And scared abiut those consequences.Hence the photos of him just before he passed being over shared. Trying to prove he was OK when actually his body was screaming out it was being pushed to the limit.
His mother is in yet about lavish resort. Second holiday since his passing. Her friends with her all glammed up, going for expensive meals and drinks.... whose visiting his grave she said she hated being away from?all I see is someone cashing in on what shouldn't never be used to gain money, living the life in marrakesh and using personal and heartbreaking memories of his lifeless body to thousands of people to sell the brand.
I've never come across a thread so serious and sickening.
itsjustcheese
New member
Thread number 9 : The nurse purse mum , on the sesh in Marrakesh
Bunbun1
Chatty Member
Hey guys, I’ve been on these threads for a while, and I know I haven’t mentioned this before, but after everything that’s gone on recently, I think it’s time for me to say, I don’t know Kaytee/Kath in real life, I don’t know j’s dad, and to the best of my knowledge, I don’t know anyone who does xxxx 
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Kaytee aka Kathleen which is her actual name but also goes by Kathy, Beggy Mitchell, NurseTwat and Cunt, has been on yet another luxury holiday to Morrocco, where she all by herself from the comfort of her swimming pool launched a business flogging merchandise of her son that passed away.
Complete with image of her son wearing angel wings that Kathy styles with leggings and trainers. This limited addition tshirt comes in a range of colours and can be yours for a bargain price of £25 complete with colour me in packaging that Kathy will make you believe she has designed from scratch.
Don't worry guys a measly 10% will go to a chosen charity that meant something to Kathy, which means she's keeping that money for herself the greedy mare because she never appreciated or cared for any charities that helped her when her son was alive.
The new shop.... 398 which stands for the amount of years, months and days her son was alive, came to Kathy's mind the day she lost her son. The wonderful, inspirational, doting mother also displayed the brand name for marketing purposes at her sons memorial birthday firework fiasco.
The shop also features rainbow coloured affirmations that was performed by her son before he passed suggesting to some tattlers this money making scheme was in the pipeline before he died. Now Kathy insists her son was all about bright rainbow colours because he can be seen in one Hello Duggee top. Non of her sons clothes other than this were rainbow themed. He was regularly seen in the early days in just a full pad, which she let smear all over the carpet. Never remembering to pack clothes for his 467 vomits a day in the famous car shots and always appearing half naked on stories, trailing his unattached gastrostomy tube along the floor, tugging on his leaking, sore peg site.
Over the years beggy Mitchell could be seen trying to get her son a modelling contract by using his disabilities. She later settled for freebies from Zara, teabag coloured clothing that replaced his baggy, top big chavvy tracksuits.
There were never any rainbow colours. This is yet another marketing tool for the brand.
Kathy enjoyed herself on her 3 week luxury holiday, in fancy new outfits, eating out at restaurants, bars, quad biking, allowing horses to eat napkins ..... but then once her holiday was coming to an end she declared it was time to come home because her son had turned a light on in their home. A home she desperately wants to buy because it's their family home and holds many memories but she also can ot face home and uses this as her reason for her many trips since her son passed.
Since his passing, Kathy has been surfing in Cornwall, wafting insence and clanking bowls in morroco and had a weekend in London trying on orange puffer jackets that were quite frankly vile. Kathy could be seen trying on designer items with a ticket price of over a thousand pounds, hanging out with new friends and sticking her tounge out whilst playing with new found friends kids.
However her fun ended and the grieving mother persona took over when she later returned home after a month away from her sons grave, when she cried over not having HER car to go see her son. Kathy cannot travel on public transport, its beneath her. She desperately needs to keep the Mercedes she got off Motability for her son, so she can parade around Nottz looking gangsta, visit her son occasionally, Swan off to London and show off her designer labelled goods for the tinder profile she'll no doubt be setting up soon for the next rich man to blag. The poor unfortunate soul.
The Mercedes car would of needed a huge down-payment on the mobility scheme, something she hasn't spoke about to her minions because no doubt it was taken from the various go fund me pages, hospital expenses begs and private influencer donations. To buy said car that never suited her sons needs as it wouldn't fit his wheelchair in, Kathy would need to shell out big bucks so in true Kathleen style, a troll message circulated before the Weekend. Complete with crying stories, with filter chosen for added effect, the poor mother reached out to her army about the terrible trollz that hounded her day and night. As suspected radio silence lasted all weekend to make the insta hunz worried about the grieving mother. No doubt the car will be funded by the pot of gold she sits on from using her son in the upcoming weeks and all will be forgotten because she 'deserves' the over the top car so she can go see her sons grave.
The cats seem to have vanished or are probably in the kitten cupboard clawing to get out.
Kathy has a new four poster bed.
The grave has been tagged on her stories for those who would like to go and see this new landmark. Strangers have been encouraged to go visit, read her son stories and blow bubbles. Wouldn't hurt to take a snap and tag her in either so the tourist reviews can be reposted by her. No thought about her sons father and his family. About other loved ones of her son who want to visit his resting place without photo opportunists wanting to say they've visited a boys grave they have never met and don't know.
No thought about the other people who visit the graveyard for other people who have passed away and have to witness people eating fish and chips by the graveside and people treating it as an attraction.
Kathy never needed carers.... or as tattlers call them Kieras. She continually made her son more disabled to score for continuing care and tp rake in the sympathy of her viewers.
She has a 60hour Kiera package, on top of school, his father being a big part of his life and her mother also having him. J may have been disabled but he could communicate, had mobility, didn't have the high care needs you would need for that level of care package.
Kathy could and would not parent and always chose other things before her own son which suited her.
The exploitation of her sons disabilities brought in the ad work. Starving him with the feeding school then flogging weighing scales after a hospital stay by his bedside.
Using him in shots of a RING doorbell in his walking frame.
Making him push a chip around his plate and lick it for good measure for the Family Fund ad ( j couldn't eat orally)
The list is endless.
Any newbies please read from thread one for more of the goings on of Kathleen in more detail. Grab yourself a couple of bottles of wine and a box of malteasers.
Kaytee aka Kathleen which is her actual name but also goes by Kathy, Beggy Mitchell, NurseTwat and Cunt, has been on yet another luxury holiday to Morrocco, where she all by herself from the comfort of her swimming pool launched a business flogging merchandise of her son that passed away.
Complete with image of her son wearing angel wings that Kathy styles with leggings and trainers. This limited addition tshirt comes in a range of colours and can be yours for a bargain price of £25 complete with colour me in packaging that Kathy will make you believe she has designed from scratch.
Don't worry guys a measly 10% will go to a chosen charity that meant something to Kathy, which means she's keeping that money for herself the greedy mare because she never appreciated or cared for any charities that helped her when her son was alive.
The new shop.... 398 which stands for the amount of years, months and days her son was alive, came to Kathy's mind the day she lost her son. The wonderful, inspirational, doting mother also displayed the brand name for marketing purposes at her sons memorial birthday firework fiasco.
The shop also features rainbow coloured affirmations that was performed by her son before he passed suggesting to some tattlers this money making scheme was in the pipeline before he died. Now Kathy insists her son was all about bright rainbow colours because he can be seen in one Hello Duggee top. Non of her sons clothes other than this were rainbow themed. He was regularly seen in the early days in just a full pad, which she let smear all over the carpet. Never remembering to pack clothes for his 467 vomits a day in the famous car shots and always appearing half naked on stories, trailing his unattached gastrostomy tube along the floor, tugging on his leaking, sore peg site.
Over the years beggy Mitchell could be seen trying to get her son a modelling contract by using his disabilities. She later settled for freebies from Zara, teabag coloured clothing that replaced his baggy, top big chavvy tracksuits.
There were never any rainbow colours. This is yet another marketing tool for the brand.
Kathy enjoyed herself on her 3 week luxury holiday, in fancy new outfits, eating out at restaurants, bars, quad biking, allowing horses to eat napkins ..... but then once her holiday was coming to an end she declared it was time to come home because her son had turned a light on in their home. A home she desperately wants to buy because it's their family home and holds many memories but she also can ot face home and uses this as her reason for her many trips since her son passed.
Since his passing, Kathy has been surfing in Cornwall, wafting insence and clanking bowls in morroco and had a weekend in London trying on orange puffer jackets that were quite frankly vile. Kathy could be seen trying on designer items with a ticket price of over a thousand pounds, hanging out with new friends and sticking her tounge out whilst playing with new found friends kids.
However her fun ended and the grieving mother persona took over when she later returned home after a month away from her sons grave, when she cried over not having HER car to go see her son. Kathy cannot travel on public transport, its beneath her. She desperately needs to keep the Mercedes she got off Motability for her son, so she can parade around Nottz looking gangsta, visit her son occasionally, Swan off to London and show off her designer labelled goods for the tinder profile she'll no doubt be setting up soon for the next rich man to blag. The poor unfortunate soul.
The Mercedes car would of needed a huge down-payment on the mobility scheme, something she hasn't spoke about to her minions because no doubt it was taken from the various go fund me pages, hospital expenses begs and private influencer donations. To buy said car that never suited her sons needs as it wouldn't fit his wheelchair in, Kathy would need to shell out big bucks so in true Kathleen style, a troll message circulated before the Weekend. Complete with crying stories, with filter chosen for added effect, the poor mother reached out to her army about the terrible trollz that hounded her day and night. As suspected radio silence lasted all weekend to make the insta hunz worried about the grieving mother. No doubt the car will be funded by the pot of gold she sits on from using her son in the upcoming weeks and all will be forgotten because she 'deserves' the over the top car so she can go see her sons grave.
The cats seem to have vanished or are probably in the kitten cupboard clawing to get out.
Kathy has a new four poster bed.
The grave has been tagged on her stories for those who would like to go and see this new landmark. Strangers have been encouraged to go visit, read her son stories and blow bubbles. Wouldn't hurt to take a snap and tag her in either so the tourist reviews can be reposted by her. No thought about her sons father and his family. About other loved ones of her son who want to visit his resting place without photo opportunists wanting to say they've visited a boys grave they have never met and don't know.
No thought about the other people who visit the graveyard for other people who have passed away and have to witness people eating fish and chips by the graveside and people treating it as an attraction.
Kathy never needed carers.... or as tattlers call them Kieras. She continually made her son more disabled to score for continuing care and tp rake in the sympathy of her viewers.
She has a 60hour Kiera package, on top of school, his father being a big part of his life and her mother also having him. J may have been disabled but he could communicate, had mobility, didn't have the high care needs you would need for that level of care package.
Kathy could and would not parent and always chose other things before her own son which suited her.
The exploitation of her sons disabilities brought in the ad work. Starving him with the feeding school then flogging weighing scales after a hospital stay by his bedside.
Using him in shots of a RING doorbell in his walking frame.
Making him push a chip around his plate and lick it for good measure for the Family Fund ad ( j couldn't eat orally)
The list is endless.
Any newbies please read from thread one for more of the goings on of Kathleen in more detail. Grab yourself a couple of bottles of wine and a box of malteasers.
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Tomtom2020
Active member
I zoomed in to that last photo! You’ll be shocked at the results.
She knows exactly what to do to manipulate people !!
so here goes I know kaytee and kaytee no doubt by now knows who I am as she knows I lost my baby and am close enough to her for her to have guessed , The other day she posted on here and it was only me she came at because she knows who I am and she wants to shut me up and up until now I have but not anymore . I won’t say who I am but I am close enough to know the ins and outs . Many of you probably have wondered why I’ve been so invested on this thread and this is why . Kaytee ( Kathleen ) is the most manipulative person you will ever come across , for many years her family have told her to stop this circus but she didn’t . Many of you might wonder why she comes across so lonely and it’s simply because she is . She only wants to surround herself with people who have a high following . She won’t follow or speak to her own family members because she thinks she is better . She has been reported many times for the neglect on jaxon but nothing was ever done . Everything I have said on here has been true And I am glad others have seen her for the manipulative person she is . Her behaviour the last month has been very telling and many people including family have said the same thing . We thought loosing jaxon would wake her up and make her realise how she has been but sadly not . It’s obvious that she will never change and Its All about followers donations money and materialistic things that keep her happy . i will also say jaxons father and family are utterly disgusted by the merchandise shop but she won’t stop because it brings her money . I think now is the right time for me to step back at least for a few days because me and others close to her are absolutely disgusted by her behaviour and tensions are running high .
so here goes I know kaytee and kaytee no doubt by now knows who I am as she knows I lost my baby and am close enough to her for her to have guessed , The other day she posted on here and it was only me she came at because she knows who I am and she wants to shut me up and up until now I have but not anymore . I won’t say who I am but I am close enough to know the ins and outs . Many of you probably have wondered why I’ve been so invested on this thread and this is why . Kaytee ( Kathleen ) is the most manipulative person you will ever come across , for many years her family have told her to stop this circus but she didn’t . Many of you might wonder why she comes across so lonely and it’s simply because she is . She only wants to surround herself with people who have a high following . She won’t follow or speak to her own family members because she thinks she is better . She has been reported many times for the neglect on jaxon but nothing was ever done . Everything I have said on here has been true And I am glad others have seen her for the manipulative person she is . Her behaviour the last month has been very telling and many people including family have said the same thing . We thought loosing jaxon would wake her up and make her realise how she has been but sadly not . It’s obvious that she will never change and Its All about followers donations money and materialistic things that keep her happy . i will also say jaxons father and family are utterly disgusted by the merchandise shop but she won’t stop because it brings her money . I think now is the right time for me to step back at least for a few days because me and others close to her are absolutely disgusted by her behaviour and tensions are running high .
Little_tiff
Member
other accounts are noticing!
Justmebeingnosey
VIP Member
Hi, I've popped in and out of her threads before. She does a lot wrong, but now her baby boy is very ill. For someone who uses social media a lot it's probably natural for her to reach for the phone. Yes she edited a picture, who knows how old that pic is, doesn't mean she went and found a heart, filtered the pic and posted. Maybe she was taking 5 mins out and wrote a post. Doesn't mean she's not sat beside him still. Baby azaylias parents posted and storied daily, and still are, did anyone tell them to put down the phone and be with her? To some its an outlet. I'm not saying this as a big fan, but let's not all pick this right now. Unless you've been in her exact shoes right now, you can't say what's right or wrong. 
Shouldbedoingjobs
Chatty Member
Please tell me she did not just put an aff link to a grass cutter on footage of her sons grave. That woman has NO boundaries !!!
Heretoread19
Well-known member
I've said it before on one of her threads and i'll just say it now as it kind of upsets me a little.
I took photos of me holding my baby in the chapel of rest and of my husband BUT we will never share them on social media or with anyone else. They are for us.
That was the last time we saw him.
The pictures are for us and us alone. Hers evidently were not.
Abettermumma
Active member
I have 5 years experience diagnosing my children with colds and sickness bugs so I’m off to apply to be a paediatrician. Wish me luck!
comeonyouwelsh
Chatty Member
Hi fellow tnm tattlers....
I have been scared to comment on here, I followed her for a while, maybe mid her page, then when she she started the starving program, I just had to leave as I, like all of you could not deal with how much weight Jaxon was losing, there were all the other red flags of her making memories in places that only pleased her etc.
Then one day she popped up on my feed and Jaxon had passed away. I was really upset, as any mother of a child would be.
I came to tattle to find what had happened, the thread was just down by then.
I seen the gofund, and correct me if I am wrong but it was set at 10K, when I found it, it had supressed that, I messaged her with condolences, also asked her the reason why the GF was still open after it had surpassed the target, I asked her if she would be donating the rest to a charity etc.....
The amount of abuse I got off her and her mate was astonishing, they found me on twitter, and threatened to abuse my children, so much so I had to shut down my 20 yr twitter account.
She is vile, she didnt dox me on IG and I think that is because she knows it may have hit her back in the face, but I am ready to risk her doxing me again on ig, it wont happen as I think she has a lot of HONEST questiones asked but she cant answer.
I have been scared to comment on here, I followed her for a while, maybe mid her page, then when she she started the starving program, I just had to leave as I, like all of you could not deal with how much weight Jaxon was losing, there were all the other red flags of her making memories in places that only pleased her etc.
Then one day she popped up on my feed and Jaxon had passed away. I was really upset, as any mother of a child would be.
I came to tattle to find what had happened, the thread was just down by then.
I seen the gofund, and correct me if I am wrong but it was set at 10K, when I found it, it had supressed that, I messaged her with condolences, also asked her the reason why the GF was still open after it had surpassed the target, I asked her if she would be donating the rest to a charity etc.....
The amount of abuse I got off her and her mate was astonishing, they found me on twitter, and threatened to abuse my children, so much so I had to shut down my 20 yr twitter account.
She is vile, she didnt dox me on IG and I think that is because she knows it may have hit her back in the face, but I am ready to risk her doxing me again on ig, it wont happen as I think she has a lot of HONEST questiones asked but she cant answer.
shadowofdoubt
Chatty Member
Crazy to think this woman holds onto all the things that aren’t important at all, do i miss my hair cos I had it done when I found out I was pregnant? No. I don’t even miss fitting into my favourite jeans before my bump grew. I miss my baby being inside me & I miss the future we’ll never get together. I’ll hold on to the memory box with my baby’s things inside, because that’s the only thing that makes the situation any easier. Have fun with your hair extensions though, dickhead.
As a parent of a child with complex health needs and disabilities more severe than her own child's I find it fucking laughable she says she loved life to the full with him the first two years. Hang on Kathy the carers saw your son more than you did 
it's them that basically brought that boy up. She passed him around to anyone who would have him and dragged him along on her lavish holidays that were for her.
Fuck off you lived life like it was his last day. Who you kidding Kathy. I hope the guilt eats away at her.
The advice to us SEN parents is again a joke. Money isn't everything Kathy and I feel sorry for you that even now looking back at your life with your son you still just see the money.
If and when that day comes I loose my son I can hold my head up high and say I actually lived life like it maybe the last day.
It's the over the top Xmas celebrations because it's so much more special to us even if our kids 'don't understand'
It's the trips to the coast. The days out. Putting them to bed and bedtime stories. The sleepless nights they are poorly and you cuddle them close. The after school play times.
She did hardly fuck all of that stuff and now she has the cheek to tell us what to do
You never deserved that boy you selfish money orientated beggy cunt.
it's them that basically brought that boy up. She passed him around to anyone who would have him and dragged him along on her lavish holidays that were for her. Fuck off you lived life like it was his last day. Who you kidding Kathy. I hope the guilt eats away at her.
The advice to us SEN parents is again a joke. Money isn't everything Kathy and I feel sorry for you that even now looking back at your life with your son you still just see the money.
If and when that day comes I loose my son I can hold my head up high and say I actually lived life like it maybe the last day.
It's the over the top Xmas celebrations because it's so much more special to us even if our kids 'don't understand'
It's the trips to the coast. The days out. Putting them to bed and bedtime stories. The sleepless nights they are poorly and you cuddle them close. The after school play times.
She did hardly fuck all of that stuff and now she has the cheek to tell us what to do
You never deserved that boy you selfish money orientated beggy cunt.
Oneofthesencommunity
Member
I'm new here, seen this thread being shared on Ig stories by other tubie sen parents. She said her friend is training and becoming ofsted registered. The government will help with child care costs only if the person is ofsted registered. He has a ehc plan, care can also be provided through that additionally, she brielfy mentioned continuing care said the support may be able to continue through that but she did not elaborate. There's 2 things on a ehc plan you can do on top of claiming childcare costs normally, apply for direct payments and a personal budget which can be used for different things, including care/support/personal assistants/additional private therapy.
My daughter is tube fed with complex needs, Ehc plans (education and healthcare plans) are for health too, you should have a social care assessment as part of it who assess what support you need and this gets added to a section in the ehc plan. Before she started school I got 30 hours free childcare paid for from age 3 to 4, I used a ofsted reg/approved Sen carer. She now gets additional funding paid to me through her ehc plan and I use that to hire a PA/carer for around the school hours.
Kaytee has the money raised to pay for care but there would be no need for her friend to be ofsted reg if she was going to use friends or family to do care privately. She might not have enough of that money left to pay for private care. Shes wearing Valentino trainers flannels sell for £710, the down payment on the merc, the hot tub (that immuno at GOSH told us never to put our daughter in, she's 6, tube fed & high risk of infection from the different bacteria found in hot tubs & cant regulate her body temp being underweight), holidays, engagement party, 5* hotel stays plus whatever else she has blown cash on as we only see what influencers want us to see. Her son will still receive the benefits he is entitled to even if she is working and I think J**** is still paying his way. She said she is earning less money now she works so that doesn't make sense if she is paying 700 smackers for trainers when most of us carers shop in primark.
She was getting 60 hours a week of carers and 15 hours of nursery. She will share the camera monitor stats to make people think he is awake constantly. We have the same monitor, her stats are fantastic compared to ours. Dont look at the bit where it flags up each movement detected, its sensitive and will flag up slight movements when my daughter is asleep, for instance her arms/legs moving, duvet/blanket movements. At the top it will say how many hours of actual sleep there has been. Kaytee cuts this bit off but occasionally you see a glimpse of it, the last time she shared a few days of stats, there was a couple of days where she didnt cut the top off in time and it showed he was having between 10 and 11 hours of physical sleep a night. On ours, if we get 5 hours of physically being asleep we see that as a miracle.
Alot of his needs are just delayed. He has been able to move around shuffling, hes starting to take steps, he can hold his weight for short periods, starting to talk, hes very aware and can communicate in his own way. She has showed him using her phone to make calls & he knows certain things like car and home. It upsets alot of us SEN parents when she says he cant communicate and has no mobility, some of us would move mountains for our children to be at his level. His progress is really showing over the past year, I would be celebrating if it was my daughter. Continuing Care are right to cut carers hours, it should have been cut months ago. Carers hours are not there so the parent can go out on the piss, there is a certain amount of funding and carers, if they give to one just because their mum is a influencer and can cause a media storm, it stops another child/family who actually needs it from having it.
The feeding school programme she used I have looked into, it is £108 for the assessment and
£4,223 for the programme. It's a standard fee per child, not a individual quote. I followed advice from GOSH who strictly advised against.
My daughter is tube fed with complex needs, Ehc plans (education and healthcare plans) are for health too, you should have a social care assessment as part of it who assess what support you need and this gets added to a section in the ehc plan. Before she started school I got 30 hours free childcare paid for from age 3 to 4, I used a ofsted reg/approved Sen carer. She now gets additional funding paid to me through her ehc plan and I use that to hire a PA/carer for around the school hours.
Kaytee has the money raised to pay for care but there would be no need for her friend to be ofsted reg if she was going to use friends or family to do care privately. She might not have enough of that money left to pay for private care. Shes wearing Valentino trainers flannels sell for £710, the down payment on the merc, the hot tub (that immuno at GOSH told us never to put our daughter in, she's 6, tube fed & high risk of infection from the different bacteria found in hot tubs & cant regulate her body temp being underweight), holidays, engagement party, 5* hotel stays plus whatever else she has blown cash on as we only see what influencers want us to see. Her son will still receive the benefits he is entitled to even if she is working and I think J**** is still paying his way. She said she is earning less money now she works so that doesn't make sense if she is paying 700 smackers for trainers when most of us carers shop in primark.
She was getting 60 hours a week of carers and 15 hours of nursery. She will share the camera monitor stats to make people think he is awake constantly. We have the same monitor, her stats are fantastic compared to ours. Dont look at the bit where it flags up each movement detected, its sensitive and will flag up slight movements when my daughter is asleep, for instance her arms/legs moving, duvet/blanket movements. At the top it will say how many hours of actual sleep there has been. Kaytee cuts this bit off but occasionally you see a glimpse of it, the last time she shared a few days of stats, there was a couple of days where she didnt cut the top off in time and it showed he was having between 10 and 11 hours of physical sleep a night. On ours, if we get 5 hours of physically being asleep we see that as a miracle.
Alot of his needs are just delayed. He has been able to move around shuffling, hes starting to take steps, he can hold his weight for short periods, starting to talk, hes very aware and can communicate in his own way. She has showed him using her phone to make calls & he knows certain things like car and home. It upsets alot of us SEN parents when she says he cant communicate and has no mobility, some of us would move mountains for our children to be at his level. His progress is really showing over the past year, I would be celebrating if it was my daughter. Continuing Care are right to cut carers hours, it should have been cut months ago. Carers hours are not there so the parent can go out on the piss, there is a certain amount of funding and carers, if they give to one just because their mum is a influencer and can cause a media storm, it stops another child/family who actually needs it from having it.
The feeding school programme she used I have looked into, it is £108 for the assessment and
£4,223 for the programme. It's a standard fee per child, not a individual quote. I followed advice from GOSH who strictly advised against.