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That Georgina needs to get a fuckin job seriously

Can someone remind Ashley Cain that the GFM money WE donated WAS NOT GIFTED.

I'm in club 60%, sometimes I just can't be arsed anyone wanna join?

I dunno why but I think this split thing is a con too I get saf seems happier but come on she went from anxiety riddled couldn't get out of bed to hair done feeling grand in a day so I think that's an act and there's more to this split carry on, maybes because people were bored of them they needed something to drag everyone back in get the donations up etc.Cant put my finger on it but there's something off with it all

I'm not saying she Has to be stuck in bed but anyone with real anxiety and depression knows it's not as easy as right I'm gettin up n going for food and my hair done

I'm 1 week on feeling the effect of mothers day without one of my children 6 years on been robotic for about 2 weeks every year its bloody hard but at least I'm not faking it for the gram!! Rant over

Oh love that’s horrid to go through.
Personally the best advice I’ve been given and one I tell my daughter often is - if you don’t like the way they are treating you, why wait for their decision? Set a boundary.
It’s perfectly acceptable for you to message or call him and tell him that his behaviour has made you feel bad. And it’s perfectly acceptable to ask him to be honest with you.
But personally, I’d send a message to say that as you haven’t heard from him you’ll leave him be and that if there’s a genuine reason for the lack of contact then you’d love to hear from him in the future. Wish him well and move on.
It takes 5 seconds to send a text. However busy he is.
I’m so sorry - I hope everything works out for you x

There was no need for him to mention all those things as above, travelling time, day of rest etc. if he is such the humbled guy he says he is then those things would not be spoken or even thought of. He is trying to fool people into believing his selfless doing good for charity narrative but slips up with his wording and actions. When will more people see this?

BettyCrocker said:

I had something similar happen many years ago. Was seeing a guy - all very intense, we would text literally all day every day, spoke on the phone every night, met up as often as we could (we were 18/19, lived in different towns and this is way before iPhones & social media!!!) I made arrangements to move to his town for college - he was over the moon, lots of plans were made etc. I moved and literally didn’t hear from him for about a week despite my texts/calls - I thought he was dead! Then I got drunk one night and sent him a big emotional text telling him I loved him etc and all the rest of it and his response was absolutely horrible! I can still remember one line “fuck off - you are not my fucking girlfriend- I don’t have to explain myself to you- don’t ever contact me again”

I was heartbroken. I came completely out of left field. Turned out he had an actual girlfriend in town and he had been somehow playing me along the whole time..... lying little bastard.

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I’ve never understood how people have the guts to live a double life. One of my mum’s friends was with a man for almost seven years. He worked away in the week, but they did live together and he came home most weekends. Sometimes though he would say he had to stay on for longer. She was always going on about how they had plans to get married and have children, but that he hadn’t proposed yet.
Eventually one day she got a weird phone call asking if she was “Claire wood”(fake name), she confirmed she was and they asked did she have a partner called “ste Holmes” (fake name) she confirmed she did, but got worried at this point as she thought he had been in an accident, but the line went dead... her partner was away at this point “working” and she couldn’t get hold of him, she rang him and text him for days with no response.

Eventually she rang the number that rang her and this woman answered and explained that she was his wife, she had been his wife for 15 years! My mum’s friend didn’t hear from her “partner” again, he didn’t even collect his things...it was awful.

Cheebachoo said:

SO glad the school listened to our Susan and sorted out sports day to her requirements!

Also tell me your son won all the races (which is why she wanted competitive races to bask in his glory) without telling me he won all the races!

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Oh god can you imagine how cringe Beggory would be at sports day

he’d probably turn up in his team GB tracksuit complete with medal but then get arsey when anyone mentions it

Really feel for Azaylia. It’s coming up to a year since she passed and there are thousands of comments on here about how her parents have exploited her. It’s so awful, this poor girl has no dignity. Not bashing these threads, but it’s so sad they have to exist. In life and death that poor baby has been exploited for money and fame. Many are profiting off her short lift and to really deeply think about it, it’s so sad

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Just a thought, do we think Saf maybe felt pressured into having so many people round during Azaylias last days? Every person I saw on their stories was a Cain in some way or another. As Ashley is such a narc, maybe she didn't feel strong enough to tell everyone to just get out?

Missgobby124 said:

I’m quite a jealous person, I sometimes look at my boyfriends following on Instagram, I do tend to get jealous if I see someone pretty/new on there, I’m aware that is very bad

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My husband's recently developed some sort of thing for Amanda Holden. I'm a bit worried about his taste to be honest

First post for a long time watcher in these threads!

I admit I knew nothing of these two last March before seeing all the posts and little Azaylia’s face; I followed them and read their story, I donated, I let it completely consume me and felt devastated for them when she passed away.

I saw the funeral pictures and thought how alone Saff was - my hubby isn’t the most affectionate but I think under circumstances like those he would have supported and comforted me during such a horrific time so this felt very strange to see, as did the over the top funeral party/inappropriate family dancing.

I watched them grieved still feeling so sorry for them and believed that the foundation would do exactly what it intended to do and some good would come out of the tragic matter of losing a little baby to AML.

I defended them Against tho who last sept/oct already viewed it all as a scam, I replied saying give them more time etc etc!!

it was clear to all to see what they’d split up - yes it’s private between them but when you choose to share so much then what do you expect for people to ask the questions yet saff would reply very aggressively about this!

a few donations followed but for months now there has been nothing. Zilch. Ashley moans that he gets a slating and thinks everyone is slandering his name yet if he just proved it money was there it would prove a lot of doubters wrong but yet this does not happen.

I’ve started to doubt other go fund me pages I see set up which is heartbreaking but has been caused by them Cheating and lying weekly to the public who supported basically two unknowns and their baby.

I hate seeing Ashley spouting nonsense about not having a day off - you go to the gym pal, it’s hardly holding down a full time job and doing everything else the rest of us have to do!!

There was no big point to this message really other than to show how personally my views on them have changed. I’m open minded and I like to think not easily led but I feel disappointed in myself to be fooled by them. They could have done so much good, helped families and their children during the most horrific times but would rather inject shit in their face and arms, go to the gym or sell random crap on Instagram!

If a man wants to see or speak to a woman, they will. No matter how busy or stressed they are. Do not take their excuses. When they show you who they are, believe them. Women need to stop making excuses for men’s shitty behaviour. He is ghosting you. That or he has been carted off to hospital and doesn’t have his phone (unlikely but possible!)

Sounds like he liked you initially but then started to change his mind. I’ve dated for a good year (pre covid) and noticed the 8-10 week mark was when one of us started to drift/lose interest. There is nothing wrong with that. I just hate the cowardly way some people behave when they realise they’re not interest. Adults should be able to have adult convos Personally I think he was far too OTT from the beginning and was love bombing you to get you where he wanted you. Men are not stupid. He was waving red flags so don’t ignore them. I’d call him once, if no answer send one final message saying you’re done and then move on. He is not worth your energy. If a man wants you, they’ll make sure they’re available.