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Totally off topic from the money but... Did any of you watch him in ex on the beach? When that Thalisa (if that's how you spell it) was his ex? He was a right waste of spaff on that. He didn't want her then her ex came out if I remember rightly and all of a sudden he wanted her. I don't like Saf, I think she should be in a home for that fucking steak, but I 100% he's gonna try get her back the smallest sign she's doing okay without him and he'll throw Azaylia in her face...

I had a stillborn baby with my ex. He was an absolute CUNT and I had her on my own. He'd shag about on a weekend but I was SO mentally unstable because of her death, that I pushed that aside and took what he gave me during the week because he was the only link to her. It was toxic but I was not doing well. In with someone amazing bow, we've two lovely kids and I see how toxic that was BUT... I can see how much Saff hurts about Azaylia and it's awful, thats why I feel a bit more sorry for her with that and now, she's lost her only proper (for want of a better word) link to her. I genuinely think she'll do well and he'll fucking use A as a way to get to Saff. She's done wrong but she really deserves to move on and get on with her life. I want to know where the money is, I do. But I really wouldn't wish what I went through on anyone. I had a placenta and growth restriction, which is completely different. Watching your baby dying of cancer.... The thought of my two going through it... That's horrific.

I hate they're milking it, but I really do feel that he's worse out of the two. She's just slack

Mumofgirls said:

Ashley definitely influenced Saf massively when it came to dealing with her grief…so what if she wanted to spend time in bed…feeling all of her emotions…her precious baby girl had died!
i know if I lost one of my daughters I would not be in the right frame of mind to get up everyday and go the gym or go on a bike ride! It used to make
really sad when she used to feel the need to explain herself in her stories! Since they have split you can see a difference in her…l think Ashley used to make her feel bad or ashamed for not wanting to get up everyday and go on a 10 mile run! Her 1st Mother’s Day without her little girl was always going to be so so hard…I wouldn’t have been able to even get out of bed…she should have had so much support around her that day! Don’t get me wrong I do think they both did some very wrong things in the last weeks of their babies life,and did get products and money off the back of that…but it’s obvious Ashley completely alienated her from mum so he had control over her..I think she went along with everything because he was her biggest connection to Azaylia…I hope she finds herself again now she is away from him..I do think he hasn’t dealt with his own grief and it will hit him like a ton of bricks one day…you can only keep going like that for so long

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I messaged her on insta saying she is better off without him and she replied with a organe heart so she clearly agrees

The comment she made about not having any summer clothes….what about the 1628293 white fox hauls?

Missgobby124 said:

So as I’m sure many of you have seen, I’ve been through quite a lot of silly dilemmas lately. But I appreciate the advice you all give and love being able to share on here anonymously. I can’t really talk to anyone else about it so always run to tattle. Anyhoo, I’m in a happy relationship with my boyfriend. He’s honestly the best and makes me so happy. He’s always telling me he loves me and no one else has ever made me feel so loved. Today we met up outside at the local park, and he was searching on Instagram and just by the smallest chance I saw the name of his ex. I of course ( I have a big mouth) mentioned it. I said “why was you searching up your ex?” he immediately got defensive and started to say things like “just go home”. after a few minutes he started saying to me how he prob searched her ages ago. Then he said how he probably showed her to his colleague at work. (, wtf? Who even does that lol that’s weird too in my opinion is this just a guy thing?) I just feel kinda struck by it. He always tells me he’s so into me and when I saw that it broke me. Am I overreacting? Is this something you wouldn’t be upset over? Am I just being silly? Ah honestly I know it’s such a tiny thing. He searched up his ex. He acknowledged that he hurt me before we said our goodbyes and said he’s fully over her and doesn’t even think of her. It’s just so weird. Would you be upset by your partner searching their ex? Sorry for always sharing these types of things

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I think you probably need to be on your own for a bit and try and find some happiness without relying on anyone else. It’s not normal for this much drama at the beginning of a relationship. I think you’d struggle the longer you stayed together.

Life is way too short.

It genuinely looks like he’s been dared to date her

Ana so concerned about that person knowing Julie’s address but then has her entire street outside the house showing in the vlog right after…. Can’t take this family seriously ever

Trixie747 said:

You can hear the disappointment in Julie and Atticus’ voices when Anna says she’s going back to Disney world without them

*And Atticus so disappointed Anna is going to Epic Universe. He clearly want to go too

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I actually feel a bit sorry for Anna both her mum and brother are more than happy to leech off her for the holidays and trips,Im glad shes going without them. If Julie worked harder and put more effort into her content she would have the same opportunities as Anna,but I think Julie has gone through life relying on others as her meal ticket.

Noonoosanne2 said:

I just think it’s quite triggering children wearing orange for a deceased child how are they meant to understand the poor things

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Call me old fashioned but I don’t think kids should have the burden of knowing about childhood cancer and knowing about a baby they don’t know from Adam dieing

lady leshurr defo isn’t chasing clout she’s been known for yearssss does no one remember the queens speeches

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juststatingthetruthx555 said:

So hard considering poor Andrea done a lot of the stuff in preparation for the baby even before she was poorly!!

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Yes exactly this, where were any of the cain clan when Andrea was waiting patiently outside the window for a glance of Azaylia when she was born.

Where were the cain clan when Andrea had bought and set up a nursery for Azaylia

Where were the cain clan when Azaylia and Saffiya needed bringing home from hospital

where were the cain clan when they made fame and fortune off Azaylia ? oh right there the bunch of them

Blaming everybody but himself.

Who begged for that money?
Who took that money?
Who spent (some) of the money?
Who started up a foundation?
Who chose the specific, harsh criteria for children to meet?
Who’s ignoring these families pleading for help?
Who changed the mission statement and removed magical moments?
Which foundation started off with £1.5M but have only donated £50K* to children & families?

Trolls or whatever you want to call them did not do any of that - YOU did.



#WhereIsTheMoney

No one shoot me down for this please but Saff says Azaylia was fearless. Was she? The poor mite never knew what was going on or understood what was happening, she literally had no choice.

Sweetcorn said:

Yeah they absolutely do use it as a weapon. I mean he never has or anything but I’ve seen it happen so many times.

Yeah I think if anything, he’s maybe been overthinking it all a bit too much and scared himself. Which is annoying because he was the one being more full on that me? . But I do know he genuinely had the report to do, he mentioned it a few weeks ago, and that it was a big stress for him.

Thanks for the thoughtful response X

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You only know what he’s been telling you.
This guy has been in your life for 8 weeks. I’ve got stuff in my fridge that’s been there longer!!!!!!
You don’t know him. You only know what he has allowed you to know. It’s actually scary the way you are defending him/justifying his weird behaviour.
This is only going to go one way - he’s going to carry on behaving like a prick - reeling you in with bullshit excuses and then ignoring you when he can’t be arsed/has another woman on the go. Hes 25! He’s not thinking about “your future” or anything of the sort. Come on a you know deep down that this is off, otherwise you wouldn’t even have posted on here looking for advice. Your gut is telling you that something isn’t right here; listen to it.

ImShook said:

Wow.
I remember him saying he was going to be doing the triathlon alongside Dexter.
He is shocking and always goes back on his word.
What a guy.

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This again is typical narcissist behaviour. My ex is a narcissist, and iI don’t suppose there was ever a weekend where he didn’t change plans, let me down or create some sort of problem to derail things, it’s a control thing. He was an utter wanker and I don’t suppose Ashley is much different

So Ashley travelled two and a half hours, on his day of rest to see a 5 yr old boy complete a triathlon for his foundation.

I’m surprised Ashley could bare to hand that medal over, seeing as he’s put himself out so much to be there.

Ashley, firstly your mum drove you so you didn’t really need to mention how long it took (you narc), secondly you don’t work, so every day is a rest day for you and thirdly, can you promise Dexter that HIS fundraising efforts will actually benefit a child with cancer?

Here we have the trustee of a foundation doing absolutely fuckall. You couldn’t make it up

The boyfriend seems quite thick, immature and common. Typical pumped up gym boy with arms covered in tattoos. Wanting to put tinsel on the Christmas tree and making frozen cocktails out of energy drinks and putting way too much in the blender. At least he won’t be phased by her obsession with Home Bargains, B&M, Primark and McDonald’s. I think he’ll be sticking around to make the most of the freebies he can get off the back of her influencer lifestyle like her BFF Bonnie Barker’s hanger on.

chocdip said:

Can totally believe it, not like they haven't posted themselves drinking and partying at her grave before i feel so sorry for family members who have just lost loved ones and having to go to the same graveyard to "quietly" reflect

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I agree it’s completely unnecessary.
Sure go visit etc but why party at the grave? Invite people back to yours after it’s just unfair and so disrespectful to the place they’re in - a resting place!

Anongirl1383 said:

View attachment 3844533Yikes, this is like the 5th time I’ve seen her pop up on Reddit, and her being called “ugly”


She’s not the best looking person in the world (or in England… or in Manchester… or in her scruffy flat )

but Damnm, Reddit making It out like she looks like shrek, what do you guys think?

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Yeah agree, I don’t like those kind of comments, feel it’s where things get unnecessary and can be dangerous. She’s definitely not ugly, she’s just a normal looking girl. I hope she doesn’t see or read those posts.