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MsGilmore

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bubbles?99 said:
When she picks up 12 donuts and says she might buy it for Joe, even Atticus said why not for everyone and she said “because Joe would eat all of these to himself” like she’s trying to show off the fact her boyfriend can eat them all… just buy them for everyone and share as you’re sharing a lodge with them all! And 48 cans of coke should be enough?? That’s 8 each for the time they’re at centre parks, my teeth feel funny just thinking about it😂
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It is bizarre! Julie asking if Joe will eat all of her Ferrero Rocher! If there’s anything that Joe really wants for himself he should bring it with him! They make him sound like The Tiger who came to Tea!
Also buying a box of Wheetos for Atticus. Take some from home!
The comment on Julie’s vlog about bubble and squeak being a Southern thing just because Joe hadn’t heard of it. I didn’t know that Joe was spokesperson for the North of England! 😱 Ana is such an airhead.
 
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Sweetcorn

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Hey tattlers, thanks again for all your well wishes!

I decided to go with number three so I haven’t contacted him and removed him. Thought the best way was to just play cool and look completely unbothered so that’s what I’ve done. I’m okay, I’m not going to cry over him, it’s so not worth it. More than anything it just makes you feel so embarrassed because like I’ve already said, now I need to explain to my family and friends, when I just told them about him 🤦🏼‍♀️

At this point I’m just frustrated in general with men and dating. I hate to generalise but from this thread it appears so many men act this way (or worse) and I’m just left wondering how many more times will I be screwed over? Part of me wants to give up with dating apps but then I’d have no way of meeting guys, even more so now with covid, but even if covid wasn’t a factor it would still be hard for me to meet guys (I also work in a very female dominated environment). I’m kinda losing hope that guys won’t always be assholes.

As well guys are just so hard to read and they change their minds in the blink of an eye. Like in this instance, I think he just got spooked by how intense things were getting and maybe thought he wanted something more casual instead, which is mega frustrating because HE was the one to make it so intense. I imagine this happens with many guys, they are all in then suddenly get cold feet but.. why? Don’t go in so intense if it’s going to freak you out! Haha it’s really not that hard.

Should we as women be more assertive about what we expect? But then I feel like most guys would think you were a bit ‘crazy’ (yep their favourite word) and back off straight away. But then you think we’ll that guy really wasn’t worth the time then but ughhh they are just impossible 😂

But yeah maybe we should get a dating advice thread? Where we can share stories and advice (If there isn’t already one?) because it appears so many of us go through this stuff and I really enjoyed this girl chat with you all 💘
 
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LaurieLaurie

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It actually sounds like love bombing and alarm bells are ringing. I hate to be harsh but he sounded full of shit from the word go.
 
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Lucyxxxx

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Sorry to lower the tone but couldn't imagine looking at Ashley Cain and thinking phwoarrrr! If that man tried to move to me I think I would call the non emergency police line!
 
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Debojahh

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In her recent vlog she mentioned that she didn't really know who Anne Frank was other than an author...Just shows how uneducated she is.
 
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Would it kill him to take his hands out his pockets and actually engage with her for the photo? Looks so awkward
 
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luciepd

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nichew said:
Call me old fashioned but I don’t think kids should have the burden of knowing about childhood cancer and knowing about a baby they don’t know from Adam dieing
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Yes I do agree with this. My daughter has been battling leukaemia for nearly 6 years and I still don’t use the words cancer to describe her journey. She doesn’t need to know. But I do feel more awareness is needed.
 
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yankydoo

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Hey. I have dated solidly for two years and my gut reaction tells me he is having second thoughts. He has either changed his mind on his own accord or met someone else.

I would call him or if you can't face doing that, send him a message and say you have noticed he has been quiet, feel something has changed and ask him to be honest with you about his feelings.

Maybe some other people will think you should give him time or some space but given how keen he was and the sudden U-turn, I think you should just ask him. I find the not knowing is the worst. Even if the answer is not what you want to hear, at least you have an answer and can process and move on.

Good luck and let us know how it goes!

Edited to add that our gut reaction/6th sense is often spot on. I have held off saying things to men for the fear of coming crazy or seeming too keen. But I've been right most of the time and regretted not saying anything sooner.
 
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Swipeupyouguys

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CelinaRoger said:
Morning
I need some advice..
Me and my husband have been together almost 10 years, married 6, and have two children.
We have lived together the whole time.
Since my youngest was born (almost 6) my husband keeps touching me sexually in the night while i am asleep, I wake up to him with his hands on my vagina etc, sometimes inside but this hasn't happened for a long time as far as I'm aware.
Years ago when it first started I use to wake up frozen scared and just lay still and see what happened, he would always act as if he was being careful not to wake me, will carefully put my clothes back how they were etc. He does not make the effort with me while im awake, he wont kiss me etc before bed, he will wait till im sleeping. I hate it.
So we have had huge arguments about this, I dont like it, I dont consent. Relationships been very rocky for this reason.
So in the last year we had a huge argument about 8 months ago I said if it happened again I would call the police and that he would have to move out, he told me if it came to that i would be moving out and he would be staying put with the children as "his presence makes more of an impact". It all stopped. Things got better, we brought a house together in September with inheritance from my family.
Since the house went through and contacts were exchanged, it has been happening again, almost every other night, I'm getting barely any sleep, I'm anxious and stressed out. What the hell do I do?
He doesn't listen to me, he has no respect for me, also in this time period since it has ramped up again I've been through an awful termination due to medical reasons, and I've woken up this morning after being frozen with him touching me last night, and not said a word to him, and unless I bring it up he won't acknowledge it.
I feel like I can't leave as I can't afford the house on my own, and also all things aside he is a fantastic dad to our children.
I also confided in my mum about it and she basically told me he is a great man and to get over it so I feel I have no support and will be made put to be the bad guy.

Also to add we moved 6 hours away from both our home towns so bar my parents and a few friends we have no one here.
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This post made me so angry, i am furious this is happening to you.

This man is NOT a good man despite what your parents may tell you. He is raping you in your sleep and that is horrific, I am so so sorry that you are enduring this.

It is my experience that we often are kinder to others than we are to ourselves, if your best friend, a family member or (in the future) one of your children confessed this was happening to them (with their future spouse) what would you tell them to do? Stick it out as he's a good man in most other areas - I doubt it.

Please go to your local citizens advice bureau and seek free legal advice and support about how to proceed with getting him out of your house and out of your life. What he is doing is against the law, men have been convicted of raping their wives for doing this. You should not have to endure this torture at the hands of someone who is meant to care for you and put your needs above his own. What if he did it to one of your children next?!

Please, do not tell him you are doing any of this, leave your mobile behind in case he is tracking it, cover all bases just in case. Remove relevant searches from your browser history every time you log off.

You stated bought that house you and your family live in with your inheritance money. That is your money, not joint money no matter if you are married. Do not believe him if he tells you otherwise.

You write he behaved well (and didn't rape you in your sleep) while the house was being purchased and now he feels safe to return to his normal abhorrent behaviour thinking he has feet under the table in a house? No, that is unacceptable.

It is safe to do I would get a handyperson in to put a strong lock and bolt on your spare room door and sleep in there until you can get him out.

He has done this - not you. His actions have caused harm and the breakdown of his marriage/family.

None of this is your fault, anything that happens is a consequence of his actions. Please be careful and please get away from him.
 
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chocdip

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LibbyCharley1234 said:
They're scum yes but you surely pity her for the loss of her daughter? Nobody has ever said she's completely innocent.. nobody should ever revel in someone's loss of anything, be it partner or daughter.
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I've already said before and you've quoted me before yes we should give the same energy for ashley as we give to saf with regards to their daughter they both lost her and for that i feel heartbroken for them both!

nothing more yes they both set up the go fund me both done awful things

so no i don't feel sorry for saf i've been on this thread since day one not jumped in on thread 24 plus so if you go back the beginning you will see my opinion on saf wasn't always this, my opinion is based on what i've seen from both of them

so please nobody come at me again when i say i feel sad that they lost their daughter but i feel more sadder that she didn't die with dignity and her name/foundation is being tainted by these pair of morons
 
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Cucumber and eggs

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Thank you for the thread title 🙌

Going to pose topless, bang my chest and roar like a lion, shouting let's go champs!!!
I just feel this is the best way to help children with cancer, rather than donating any money from the GFM that you hardworking people donated to!!
 
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