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Blaming everybody but himself.

Who begged for that money?
Who took that money?
Who spent (some) of the money?
Who started up a foundation?
Who chose the specific, harsh criteria for children to meet?
Who’s ignoring these families pleading for help?
Who changed the mission statement and removed magical moments?
Which foundation started off with £1.5M but have only donated £50K* to children & families?

Trolls or whatever you want to call them did not do any of that - YOU did.



#WhereIsTheMoney

No one shoot me down for this please but Saff says Azaylia was fearless. Was she? The poor mite never knew what was going on or understood what was happening, she literally had no choice.

Sweetcorn said:

Yeah they absolutely do use it as a weapon. I mean he never has or anything but I’ve seen it happen so many times.

Yeah I think if anything, he’s maybe been overthinking it all a bit too much and scared himself. Which is annoying because he was the one being more full on that me? . But I do know he genuinely had the report to do, he mentioned it a few weeks ago, and that it was a big stress for him.

Thanks for the thoughtful response X

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You only know what he’s been telling you.
This guy has been in your life for 8 weeks. I’ve got stuff in my fridge that’s been there longer!!!!!!
You don’t know him. You only know what he has allowed you to know. It’s actually scary the way you are defending him/justifying his weird behaviour.
This is only going to go one way - he’s going to carry on behaving like a prick - reeling you in with bullshit excuses and then ignoring you when he can’t be arsed/has another woman on the go. Hes 25! He’s not thinking about “your future” or anything of the sort. Come on a you know deep down that this is off, otherwise you wouldn’t even have posted on here looking for advice. Your gut is telling you that something isn’t right here; listen to it.

ImShook said:

Wow.
I remember him saying he was going to be doing the triathlon alongside Dexter.
He is shocking and always goes back on his word.
What a guy.

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This again is typical narcissist behaviour. My ex is a narcissist, and iI don’t suppose there was ever a weekend where he didn’t change plans, let me down or create some sort of problem to derail things, it’s a control thing. He was an utter wanker and I don’t suppose Ashley is much different

So Ashley travelled two and a half hours, on his day of rest to see a 5 yr old boy complete a triathlon for his foundation.

I’m surprised Ashley could bare to hand that medal over, seeing as he’s put himself out so much to be there.

Ashley, firstly your mum drove you so you didn’t really need to mention how long it took (you narc), secondly you don’t work, so every day is a rest day for you and thirdly, can you promise Dexter that HIS fundraising efforts will actually benefit a child with cancer?

Here we have the trustee of a foundation doing absolutely fuckall. You couldn’t make it up

chocdip said:

Can totally believe it, not like they haven't posted themselves drinking and partying at her grave before i feel so sorry for family members who have just lost loved ones and having to go to the same graveyard to "quietly" reflect

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I agree it’s completely unnecessary.
Sure go visit etc but why party at the grave? Invite people back to yours after it’s just unfair and so disrespectful to the place they’re in - a resting place!

I think you have it far better than most do.

Is that 1/10 really that bad that you want to give up the 9/10??

Suck it up and just be happy with your 9/10. So many people crave that.

Let’s be real, Ashley is a walking stereotype, he’s a small aggressive man, with a small …, very angry, low self esteem (shagging around past) loves nice cars to make up for things, doesn’t really have any talent or skills so trying to make an easy living centred around his ego and people praising him, because he doesn’t actually like himself deep down.

Noonoosanne2 said:

He bangs on about Azaliya loving his beard so he won’t get rid of but Azaliya also loved her Mum didn’t stop him getting rid of her did it

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Anyone else get the ick with their catch phrase
‘Lets go champs’

I think he’s playing you.

the comment about how he “feels bad” for things he’s doing that you don’t know about coupled with the comment about dating apps..... he’s still On dating apps and is likely chatting to other women.

It all just seems like way too much too
Soon - you’ve known him for 8 WEEKS!!! It’s just too much. You don’t actually know each other. I’m sorry but it’s been a few weeks Of shagging and the early stages of dating where it’s all very intense and like a whirlwind but it’s not a relationship.

it sounds like someone else has caught his eye and he’s probably been chasing after her.

I’m not trying to be cruel; I just think it’s a shame that you are sitting here so over invested in some guy who’s acting like a complete tool.

Suzesnooze said:

It is probably a sleep disorder. Similar to sleep walking. My husband will move furniture and all sorts while he's asleep and doesn't remember any of it when he wakes up!

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It's not a sleep disorder, it's assault.

pixelsdream said:

Why is it everything he does is just for showing off? And no helmet what an idiot

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He doesn’t need a helmet because he is the biggest helmet going

If you want to feel even more depressed about these fuck boy men, they don’t grow out of it. My mum is 62 and is going through this exact same thing right now. The bloke is 65 for fuck sake.

Fingers crossed he’s allergic to eggies

Bloody orange Hell said:

How far he has come?

He is living with his auntie. Before that he lived in his gf’s mums house. He makes money in questionable ways due to his increased exposure from having a poorly baby. It isn’t work ethic/doing good deeds/business acumen/professional savvy that has moved him on in life. He really reckons himself

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Exactly, he acts like he’s worked his fingers to the bone to be where he is today, which is nowhere, living with his mum and auntie in a house that is nothing to do with him, failed football career, plus countless of failed businesses, he has however got a fantastic trainer collection and designer wardrobe bought with charity funds, bit not a sniff of his own genuine pot to piss in!

I'm sorry but... All the things they've done and what's tipped me over the edge is the fact she has well done steak. Fucking reprobate

I think you’ll probably find that you don’t actually like him that much, you just like the way he treated you.

You’ve text him once, leave it at that. No response is a response.

Erm, just to add that the morning after pill is not meant to be used as protection (you seem to imply that your chosen method of protection is going to be the morning after pill?!) You do need to use a Condom. You could literally catch a life-changing STD with a man that you barely know in your first shag in four years. This whole situation sounds bizarre to me. With regard to your ‘partner’, don’t you have any mutual couple friends, what do they think of this strange set-up? How old are your children? What do they think of their Dad and his weird living choices? Do you work? Does he work? I just cannot picture how this has gone-on for so long and you’re only just realising that you’v been manipulated into this controlling set-up where you (and your children) are just ‘kept’

In my experience the guys that are overly affectionate and emotional from early on are faking it.

It’s just not genuine. They’re either psychos or players.