Heidi88

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What happened this girl Charleen is awful but Louise and Co are using this as an excuse to tarnish everyone with the same brush. This man sounds like a scumbag.

This man didnt use gossip sites. By the sounds of it he sent messages directly to Charleen so really what they should be saying is that it is social media that caused this. If social media wasnt there this man wouldnt have known who Charleen was. It is still not an excuse to assault someone but their anger is misdirected.
 

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Sooz

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YES

She's an energy vampire that will attach onto anything negative happening anywhere. Inside her home, outside her home, in a different solar system......

The only thing she really enjoys is nights out with her pile of shrieking pals whilst dressed as a giant toddler.

She also really enjoys selfies. But only when they make her look like she has the angular head of a size 12 person.
 
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As an aside, I'm overweight, currently a size 18, with the GP today he asked was I gaining/losing / staying the same.
I said I'm the same for a while, not losing but not gaining, I'm concentrating on eating healthy nutritious foods, he agreed and said once that's being done the weight should look after itself.
I'm not stupid, I know I'm overweight, and the associated risks, but he also knows that I'm aware of that, and getting on to me about my size isn't going to be helpful.

I am absolutely all for health at every size (eg, in the example given by someone above that they had a genetic issue, any testing should be done to rule out issues, not just "lose weight") but I'm also well aware there are conditions exacerbated by weight
I was a size 16, and had lost 5 stone. I went to the doctor (on call) on a Sunday, with really bad pain across my middle. I had been awake all night, and it was like an elastic band tightening.
The doctor told me I had a pain in my back, diagnosed lumbago, and gave me pain killers. He told me walking wasn't enough exercise and I needed to loose weight to make sure the pain in my back went away.
At no point during the consultation did I say I had a pain in my back, or even tell him what exercise I was doing. I was crying I was in so much pain, and tried arguing back that it wasn't my back, but I was basically told be was the medical professional not me.
I took the painkillers because I needed relief. I was back in the surgery by Wednesday with my usual doctor, and was diagnosed with gallstones (heridatory ) and had to get my gallbladder removed.
That is a perfect example of what people mean about fat phobia. There is a place for weight to be mentioned, but it shouldn't be used an excuse to ignore quite obvious symptoms underneath the weight.
I've since been diagnosed with an autoimmune disorder which makes it quite difficult to lose weight, affects energy levels, and a whole heap of other side effects. Luckily my doctor listened when I went to her about how horrible I was feeling, and didn't just say to lose weight. I went to that appointment with a food diary for the previous 6 week, along with my weight over that time as I needed evidence to show I wasn't eating junk food or overeating burgers whatever else people think. As a fat person, I'm terrified to go to the doctor ever since that experience I had with my gallbladder.
 
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Lunamoon13

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Ding ding ding here's the eating less food talk... Whether it's adhd meds or ozempic reducing appetite this is the start of it now. Boiled egg one slice of toast, just like Bethany saying she's treating herself and it's a wagon wheel and one babybel. Lads come off it, yes ye were huge fat positive activists but it's obvious ye are restricting your calories and actively trying to lose weight. Stop being so disingenuous. It's OK to lose weight if ye want to it's OK to want that just admit it and don't pretend it isn't happening.
It makes them bigger hypocrites for having been venomous about other people's weight loss in the past by not even acknowledging theirs now
 
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Heidi88

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I wouldnt call the Kingsley central. You would need to get a taxi as it would be over a 30 minute walk. Grand for a stroll walking around but not for a night out.

She has a grand brass neck when asking for freebies but turns into a delicate little flower when given a bit of criticism! 😂 She is well able to speak her mind but heaven forbid anyone else do the same.
 
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harryp

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I just see that now. There with the bunch of girls. Has to be more than just friends, soft launching him, isn’t that the term 🙄
Anyone else notice that Louise O’Neill has blocked RC & AGM? All there likes are gone from her posts & there gone from her following list & she’s scrubbed all posts of him off her page
 
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Decaff01

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The availability of plus size clothes has improved massively over the last 5 years but it’s pretty much all online. I’ve been a size 16-18 most of my adult life and was able to go into shops here in a large regional town and get what I needed. But I’ve gone up to a size 20 in the last year and am struggling to lose weight (thanks peri menopause!), and my choices have reduced dramatically. In fact I think probably only m&s and penny’s have size 20 in stock here - shops that have an online plus size range like next, river island, H&M etc all stop in store at 18. Which is fine most of the time but I went into a panic recently that I have no “smart” clothes - my dads health has deteriorated quite a bit and I realised that if I had to go to a funeral at short notice, I would be completely stuck and wouldn’t be able to get an online delivery in time. And you might think, but sure if that happened you won’t be bothered about what you’re wearing, any aul thing would do but I have a very clear memory from about 15 years ago when I was walking behind my aunts coffin into the church, of one of the congregation saying loudly “hasn’t Decaff put on a pile of weight” - so regardless of the circumstance, people make judgements and i want to look my best in my larger body. Louise annoys me with her rants about her kids etc but she does have an important voice in this space. As for designers using a plus size model but not extending their range, like WTF! So you don’t actually want us wearing your clothes but you’re happy to get kudos for daring to use a plus size model on the catwalk. Anyways sorry for the rant
 
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I got up at 5am

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She no more forgets to eat 😂😂😂😂😂 nobody who forgets to eat gets to her size. She’s better off admitting she’s on injections & be done with it.
 
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MrsMangle

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She lives in such a bubble with (from what I’ve seen) seem to be a bunch of air-headed, fame hungry, vacuous posers. The level of self-absorption is off the charts. So when she comes on IG for the chats, I’m sure it’s just a continuation of what she thinks is witty repartee with her pals, but in fact is a never-ending stream of selfishness and moaning. The way she speaks about her children is horrifying. Is there no sense of loyalty to them at all? I would never, ever, ever speak about any child in that manner not to mention my own. It’s inhumane. She is genuinely quite vile.
 
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Amy.Coyne81

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'I'm not one for salacious gossip.' Louise hun you built your entire career profiting off of gossiping about others. You're not some music dj mogul, you press buttons and gossip.
 
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NoMoreSpotlight

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That woman sounded like a massive smug pain in the hoop in fairness, all the sly digs in about how they enjoyed being together and I can’t even comment on why she had to give her child’s age in minutes or whatever. Louise is still a moany bitch though 😅
 
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itiswhatitis103

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It won't let me share it here but Dr Niamh Lynch just came up on my TikTok talking about Doom Parenting. She said it's when Narcissistic parents who are influencers realise their child hasn't been born specifically to be part of their brand so they come online to complain and share what a "burden" their child is using their name and this creates engagement but doesn't actually help anyone.

Sound familiar?
 
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CailínBeag

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If you hate your kids Louise just say that. Can’t even post a picture of them without saying she wished she was elsewhere

I saw that post on my feed and I just felt sad to read it. Fair enough if the pics were, I dunno, standing in the queue of the tax office or in meetings or on Teams calls, then the caption would make sense.... but out in the fresh air with your family? Fuck me that passive aggression is contagious. I hate commenting on parenting etc but that post is downright disgusting.
 
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sorry now but how does karla and this one think what happened charleen is the result of "gossip forums" which we all know they mean this website only they don't want to mention it. why not blame Instagram, that's how her attacker came to know about her, watch her, message her and find her whereabouts. what the fuck has it to do with gossip forums?! absolutely disgusting using what happened to her to get on their high horse to blame the trolls on tattle. this happens all the time unfortunately , violence against women and it was a horrible attack but I fail to see the connection between here and what happened her.
 
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CailínBeag

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I might be absolutely reaching on the aupair/nanny thing but is there any chance it was some sort of internalised fatphobia reaching out?

I imagine her logic to be like there's absolutely no way a mam of a 1/2/3 year old can be "pretty and thin" after having a child, sure aren't au pairs only all skinny and international and having affairs with the Master of the house.


Reaching? Possibly. But I wouldn't be surprised either.
 
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