But then you don’t have a baby.From my own life experience;
the marriage could have been dead and over before the baby was born.
Life happens and there are some things one can’t control.
I don’t think he’s “dumped” his kids, but wasn’t longer in love with their mother.
Even with famous people we only know the picture they show us.
It could have been a sad marriage for all we know
Also, you should say to your spouse you’re not happy and either save it or walk away BEFORE you get caught up with someone else.