Don’t think she has ever been an influencer, just was clever at using certain links to her financial advantage. Probably got bored and stopped posting , promoting them or finding new ones once they stopped paying commission. She has never accepted responsibility for her debt , doesn’t understand that there are other people in a way more precarious situation that are reliant on universal credit, food banks, unable to top their prepayment meters for energy , don’t have access to credit and loans let alone using this debt build up to purchase whim items or have multiple holidays a year. Blaming debt on a 17 year abusive relationship, being a single mother and the latest the cost of being part of a London corporate world whilst jacking in a 70k a year job ! She has admitted in the past she has always had debt, calls having a cleaner , private health insurance as essential bills and is unwilling to move to a cheaper area as she needs now a 4 bedroom house and the 300k equity in her house is now diminishing due to London having huge price falls . She needs to wake up and stop the woe is me, get herself a job and realise all this talk of her businesses is fantasy .
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This provides a lot more useful context about her, thank you! I think the reason she comes up on my FYP is because I’m into deinfluencing and savings content, so sometimes I do get the woe is me debt girlies (not all of them are this bad).
I did think the London thing was a bit weird & her saying she didn’t have enough equity in the house, but also being a single and I assumed low income mum, something isn’t adding up? It feels most probable that she needs to split the £300k equity with ex partner if she sells up & what is left plus her income won’t be enough to buy the sort of home she wants (if any?), so she may as well stay put until the kids age and she’s forced to sell up?
It was the claims of wanting to be a millionaire by x age that struck me as odd, as financial wellness coaches tend to be more about optimising whatever you have and creating your own financial security rather than pushing consumption onto an audience? Like she’s trying to profit from the thing she’s against/disadvantages her. It won’t just be a little amount of debt if she’s not opening envelopes as I’ve just heard her say?! It’s giving Jack Monroe.
She bought her ex out of the mortgage a couple of years ago and remortgaged using some of the capital to buy him out and pay off her debts . She has won’t be able to pay her debt off this way now, she’s constantly decluttering to live this minimalist life but never seems to succeed.
These are also the ones that seem to think they can be Business coaches but cannot set up a thriving business if one was gifted to them. I am surprised anyone would take her on as a project manager either, given the absolute chaos she is surrounded by.
She’s mad this one. Turning down a fully remote, £65k job when she’s just admitted she’s back in a lot of debt is bonkers sorry.
Absolutely crazy behaviour. She’d be better off using the money for a cleaner on a therapist because she seems really mentally unwell at the moment and it’s not fair on her children.
That’s providing there was any truth in what she posted and there was a job offer. Hopefully she will get the debt reveal out of the way rather than prolonging it until she is away on holiday over Christmas. It would get the most reaction at Christmas
absolutely this!!!! Even if it's not her ideal job. Just take it even for a few months. Take the edge off. Totally nuts
Yesterday she mentioned depression, but then says she hasnt seen anyone about. Not that long ago she mentioned having booked a therapist but probably based on her postings is not speaking to them. She really needs to remove herself from an online life and sort her life out and look to take up a role in the short term in an area away from socials and need to find her own way of making an income which has failed . A full time role will only work once she sorts out her head otherwise she won’t cope . To say on TikTok yesterday she was off to an event with a cost of £80-85 where there is no guarantee of work from it hardly justifiable . It makes you wonder what she actually does all day Monday to Friday other than walk the dog and buy coffee
Exactly! There is likely no truth in this job at all.
I've noticed today she's now claiming she has been off her meds for three months when she only a week or two ago did a video showing her with her meds and saying she'd stockpiled.
She's a pathological liar and fantasist.
I thought that about the meds also , must admit her instagram posting is shocking saying if she didn’t have kids she wouldn’t be here . Time for her family to get her referred
She obviously has struggles and if she has depression she needs to get the help required for her and her family . Her latest TikTok appears like she is looking to monetise what she has and whatever the journey through it is by asking people to watch through to the end of the video as she makes money which will help her and that she will make more videos on the way. Depression shouldn’t be trivialised, her mentioning of not being here if she didn’t have children esp on line could cause professionals to evaluate her and the safety of her children if she likes it or not , maybe it was a call out for help but don’t look to make money from it .
Some cleaners do laundry, ironing, food shopping too so I’d imagine that’s the case here…
That is wildy expensive considering she also doesn't have a job she has to go to and could easily do bits around the house. I am in a 3 bed, 2 baths and we have a fortnightly cleaner for three hours to do the tit jobs, and I also have ADHD. She can easily cut the cleaner by half. What a bleeping numpty.
well we know she doesn't do that because she always videos her food shops, has "laundry" on all her To Do lists and I have never seen her in an uncrinkled outfit haha
Very telling that school and days out got nothing in her cash stuffing and self care and therapy got nearly 300
Her most recent post on insta is a paid collab with TopCashback. Huge juxtaposition between her recent crying, suicidal content. Buying even more stuff for her Christmas holiday abroad when she’s up to her eyeballs in debt and no proper job with what looks like severe depression. Consider me not influenced. Puts me off TopCashback encouraging her descent into even more debt.
It doesn’t put her into debt though does it, she will earn money from everyone that signs up providing there are enough new subscribers. This is how she made her money before .
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And it’s a repeated justification as before why she is spending on self care 1) it has been booked for ages and 2) it’s a small local company that need the business
As for the therapy, why book this when you have not been diagnosed and even haven’t been to the doctor about it .
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Actually the TikTok is from 2021 but could well be 2023
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Isn't she so brilliant and good and thoughtless by forcing herself into debt to support a local therapy business charging her £105 a session. Oh and for keeping her cleaner in a thriving business cleaning a 2 bed house 4 hours a week.
What a selfless incredible human haha
This country is a bleeping joke - why is the government giving her over 70k as a grant to help her business?! There’s people literally living in poverty and this woman CHOOSES to not be in work and be self-employed with a business that isn’t sufficient to support her and the government throw resources at her?
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