Ellsbells123
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I was a single parent, we split when our daughter was 2.5yrs. He was self employed, spent all his money on him and when he didn’t get work, used my wage to go to the pub. He usually finished work at 2pm, me at 5pm. Our daughter was in nursery or with my parents. I would have to collect her on my way home. She woke 3/4 times every night until she was 4 years old, he never once got up to her! I could go on, but this is the reason I ended our relationship, I couldn’t hack his selfishness. She turns 13 next week and hasn’t seen him since she was 4 (his choice). I think that says it all. I would have liked it to be different, I am now with somebody else and we are all happy.