I think you have just described my life!!!I’ve cried at least once every day this week
I have a toddler who is testing and pushing boundaries
I rewatched Stella on sky one and cried my eyes out when Rob Morgan died
my husband doesn’t seem to care and has to play off how hard his day has been to mine every single day
I do all the cooking,cleaning,washing and tidying I also work a part time job. I get no help at all.
I tried to message some “friends” got no response from 2 and 1 has made a million excuses to not see me
I’m fed up, lonely and overwhelmed
I'm so sorry, that sucks. As for your wages being messed up, could you contact payroll? If it is their error, it isn't ok that they leave you up shit creek.This morning because the yoga instructor was going too quickly during practice and giving us no time in positions to breathe and then started a vinyasa flow that was very heavy on the wrists and I felt like a complete twat because my right wrist is consistently weak and I struggle with wrist heavy mat work.
This is perhaps petty but it was the catalyst to opening up everything shit that has happened in the past week. The fact that I have £2 to last me until 6th September due to my wages being messed up, the fact that I broke up with my boyfriend last Monday and hadn’t processed it yet properly, the fact that I accidentally authorised over 20k of refunds in my new role (and I still have no idea how even now) and that I’m not even sure I like this new job and I’m finding myself regretting the move daily, the fact that I can barely afford to live alone and the only people I can turn to for help are my parents and they won’t, the fact that I’ve broken out in spots and slept terribly last night, the fact that I’m struggling to maintain friendships at the moment because I can’t bring myself to think about other peoples problems at the moment etc.
I left an angry react on your post because of your husband! How dare he. It is tough, and easier said than done, but you need to sit down and demand that he does his share of the housework and childcare. He lives in your house as well, so he needs to pitch in with tasks. Not 'help' as if he were a child, but do his share of running the household. Anything else is unacceptable.I’ve cried at least once every day this week
I have a toddler who is testing and pushing boundaries
I rewatched Stella on sky one and cried my eyes out when Rob Morgan died
my husband doesn’t seem to care and has to play off how hard his day has been to mine every single day
I do all the cooking,cleaning,washing and tidying I also work a part time job. I get no help at all.
I tried to message some “friends” got no response from 2 and 1 has made a million excuses to not see me
I’m fed up, lonely and overwhelmed
We’ve had words today and he’s actually done some washing and the hoovering and some entertaining child while I sorted some clothes outThis morning, because of the Plymouth shooting. I just can't get over that precious baby and her father being gunned down by that monster. Why couldn't he have just ended his own life?
I'm so sorry, that sucks. As for your wages being messed up, could you contact payroll? If it is their error, it isn't ok that they leave you up shit creek.
I left an angry react on your post because of your husband! How dare he. It is tough, and easier said than done, but you need to sit down and demand that he does his share of the housework and childcare. He lives in your house as well, so he needs to pitch in with tasks. Not 'help' as if he were a child, but do his share of running the household. Anything else is unacceptable.
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