I had a weird experience a couple of nights ago, but it wasn’t scary. My grandad has recently died last month and I was feeling really depressed about the whole thing as you can imagine.
He always used to tell me “don’t cry for me when I die, flower, I’ve had a good life and I’ll be reunited with your grandma”. Obviously you try to remember this but it proves difficult because we love them so much
Anyway, a couple of nights ago I have a dream about my grandad. I’m in his house and it feels so real (even down to the smell) and my grandad is reminding me not to cry for him and that he’s happy with my grandma:
It could have been my mind/subconscious trying to make me feel better. In fact I would have thought this if it were not for the feeling that accompanied it. It’s almost indescribable.
The best I can compare it to is being hugged by a duvet. I felt such an overwhelming feeling of love, warmth and peace. I’ve never felt like this before, certainly not in a dream, let alone real life. This feeling is the only thing that makes me feel like perhaps my grandad did somehow make contact with me. He was such a kind, loving and warm hearted man. His last week thoughts were about how WE would feel and cope without him (God bless him!)
The lovely thing about this experience is that anytime I now think about my grandad,
this warm, peaceful feeling washes over me. I feel so at peace and loved. It may be my brain trying to cheer me up but I like to think it’s grandad trying to offer some comfort