Other half pissed me off as soon as we opened our eyes this morning. Kids first day back at school and it went really smoothly (surprisingly). Kids have to go breakfast club I don’t drive and he has to be at work for 8:15, luckily he works local. Girls were up by 6:30 So excited bless them, especially the 9 year old. I got them both ready, hair done, everything they could possibly need sorted including all work completed during lockdown whilst my other half had a long soak in the bath and a half hour sitting playing a game on the bog!
then he comes rushing down in a mad rush, when we’ve been ready for at least 15 minutes.
I said to him I’m gonna miss them as much as I’m looking forward to having a little time for myself and getting the house back to normal, it’s gonna be weird without them here with me all day
Literally made me feel like crap for looking forward to cleaning the house and it being tidy for more than 10 minutes. How he doesn’t get time for himself.... yet laid upstairs yesterday on the bed watching football, whilst I cooked a roast and played with the kids, sorted the garden.I know work isn’t exactly time to yourself but he has adult company, banter with the blokes at work, gets himself lunches and coffees (gets to drink them whilst they are hot lol) and somehow despite being rushed off his feet is playing a game on his phone and is on like 3500 and something
so can’t be all bad.
its not my fault I’m still furloughed. I’ve been looking after a child with autism that 95% of the time doesn’t sleep just screams and is violent towards me, herself and her sister whilst homeschooling the eldest and trying to homeschool the other. Aswell as everyday chores
oh andanother thing he popped into conversation last night but was apparently only joking was “he’s looking forward to having a dinner” cheeky bastard I cook most nights from scratch home cooked meals there was a couple of days I just couldn’t face it as it had been a tough day. But I always make sure everyone is fed.
And now justas I’m writing this he’s phoned me to say he’s popped in Asda for a
tit as he couldnt Bring himself to do it in a customers house and am I keeping busy?
So despite him tagging me in posts and quotes on fb (all for show) I’m feeling a little under appreciated today.