why are you even with this guy?? Serious question.I told him last night that he had no respect for me as when I came home he had left a pair of (none cum stained ) socks and some shorts he wore to bed or should I say sofa on the sofa.This morning there is a fucking chocolate bar rapper on the sofa .I don’t understand what is so difficult ! You know if it was just now and again I wouldn’t mind I’m not perfect myself ,if he left them over night and then binned them when he woke in the morning then ok but it’s constant ! I don’t want to do the basket thing because I don’t really want them next to the sofa plus I think he’s not a child why should I .I expect my 6 yr old to walk to the bin with her rubbish so why should I make exceptions for him? So as I’m the one who does the food shop I will no longer be buying any biscuits crisps choc etc ! I’ll just keep anything I buy for my daughter and I elsewhere .I do agree with what others have said that I need to have a proper conversation about how much some of the things he does and how little he helps bother me.It’s not even the fact he doesn’t help it’s the fact he makes life harder for me and gives me extra work which bothers me .I already do all the housework but don’t make it harder for me .It’s like having a third child !
I am sorry that you're going through all of this, can't be easy with a baby and small child.I told him last night that he had no respect for me as when I came home he had left a pair of (none cum stained ) socks and some shorts he wore to bed or should I say sofa on the sofa.This morning there is a fucking chocolate bar rapper on the sofa .I don’t understand what is so difficult ! You know if it was just now and again I wouldn’t mind I’m not perfect myself ,if he left them over night and then binned them when he woke in the morning then ok but it’s constant ! I don’t want to do the basket thing because I don’t really want them next to the sofa plus I think he’s not a child why should I .I expect my 6 yr old to walk to the bin with her rubbish so why should I make exceptions for him? So as I’m the one who does the food shop I will no longer be buying any biscuits crisps choc etc ! I’ll just keep anything I buy for my daughter and I elsewhere .I do agree with what others have said that I need to have a proper conversation about how much some of the things he does and how little he helps bother me.It’s not even the fact he doesn’t help it’s the fact he makes life harder for me and gives me extra work which bothers me .I already do all the housework but don’t make it harder for me .It’s like having a third child !
'Chocolate bar rapper'!? I'm just trying to imagine that!I told him last night that he had no respect for me as when I came home he had left a pair of (none cum stained ) socks and some shorts he wore to bed or should I say sofa on the sofa.This morning there is a fucking chocolate bar rapper on the sofa .
Wow!! That is so disgusting so sorry you have to deal with this. I’d say leave his mess on purpose and let it mount up, then maybe he’ll realise how disgusting that is. But wow the sock thing, Im so shocked at that! If I was you I’d go completely radio silent on him so he understands what he’s done is not on. No excuseSo here’s a Saturday night laugh for you all.Hope no ones eating their dinner...
My partner often stays up later than me on a night and on a morning there’s alwAys a pile of food wrappers ,empty bowl,cup etc around the area he sits on the sofa or even more annoyingly shoved down the side of the sofa.It pisses me off that I come down to this crap every morning but I’m on Mat leave and every day I will clean it up because I’m at home and I can’t be looking at that mess all day plus I would like to sit on my sofa without being surrounded by Haribo packets and empty packets of crisps.I’ve told him about this ,our 6 yo daughter has mentioned it ( as she’s heard me complain on a morning ) and he still does it !
Anyway earlier in the week I come down and there’s a pair of socks in his usual spot which are covered in what I knew was cum .So I took a photo and sent it to him and said have you had a wank into your socks.He replied saying no I had a bagel with Philadelphia and spilt it on the couch so I used my socks to clean it up! What bullshit ! I knew he was lying so I replied saying whatever and when he came home I asked him why he did it and he just went embarrassed and told me to stop talking about it .
Thing is he’s been really snappy with me today and just told me to fuck off so the sock thing has entered my head again and me me re annoyed .He’s a minger !!!
Just thought I’d share because I’m obviously not going to tell anyone in real life he’s done this .
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Hi I’m ok Thankyou ,my baby is on the mend so I feel less stressed.My partner doesn’t work shifts ,he leaves about 7.30 and returns at 5ish.Not sure why he stays downstairs other than to wank apparently (and also vape and he drinks at the weekend)I feel like he’s gone off me since I’ve had our baby . We don’t do anything together but I just put it down to lockdown and having kidsHonestly, all jokes aside how are you actually getting on? Because it does sound like there’s more issues than him being a lazy slob (which he totally is). Why does he stay downstairs when you’re in bed, is it shift patterns? Because it sounds like you’re not spending any time together as a couple, you’re being left with all the childcare and cleaning and he sounds like a single bloke.
I have been through all of this...my ex used to stay up until the early hours smoking, drinking and wanking. Never found a sock but plenty of towels I eventually kicked him out for lots of reasons but if you’re not enjoying time together or making each other happy in general then it’s time to re-evaluate. Good luck.
So glad to hear your son is doing better.Hi I’m ok Thankyou ,my baby is on the mend so I feel less stressed.My partner doesn’t work shifts ,he leaves about 7.30 and returns at 5ish.Not sure why he stays downstairs other than to wank apparently (and also vape and he drinks at the weekend)I feel like he’s gone off me since I’ve had our baby . We don’t do anything together but I just put it down to lockdown and having kids
So so happy your baby is getting betterHi I’m ok Thankyou ,my baby is on the mend so I feel less stressed.My partner doesn’t work shifts ,he leaves about 7.30 and returns at 5ish.Not sure why he stays downstairs other than to wank apparently (and also vape and he drinks at the weekend)I feel like he’s gone off me since I’ve had our baby . We don’t do anything together but I just put it down to lockdown and having kids
That is the most grim thing I’ve ever heard. You’ve my full respect for living with a man like that. I’d have stuffed his wanky sock down his throat!So here’s a Saturday night laugh for you all.Hope no ones eating their dinner...
My partner often stays up later than me on a night and on a morning there’s alwAys a pile of food wrappers ,empty bowl,cup etc around the area he sits on the sofa or even more annoyingly shoved down the side of the sofa.It pisses me off that I come down to this crap every morning but I’m on Mat leave and every day I will clean it up because I’m at home and I can’t be looking at that mess all day plus I would like to sit on my sofa without being surrounded by Haribo packets and empty packets of crisps.I’ve told him about this ,our 6 yo daughter has mentioned it ( as she’s heard me complain on a morning ) and he still does it !
Anyway earlier in the week I come down and there’s a pair of socks in his usual spot which are covered in what I knew was cum .So I took a photo and sent it to him and said have you had a wank into your socks.He replied saying no I had a bagel with Philadelphia and spilt it on the couch so I used my socks to clean it up! What bullshit ! I knew he was lying so I replied saying whatever and when he came home I asked him why he did it and he just went embarrassed and told me to stop talking about it .
Thing is he’s been really snappy with me today and just told me to fuck off so the sock thing has entered my head again and me me re annoyed .He’s a minger !!!
Just thought I’d share because I’m obviously not going to tell anyone in real life he’s done this .
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Lockdown and kids is tough going. You’ve told him that the mess is annoying you so he should have the respect to try a bit harder. Hope things get better for you,Hi I’m ok Thankyou ,my baby is on the mend so I feel less stressed.My partner doesn’t work shifts ,he leaves about 7.30 and returns at 5ish.Not sure why he stays downstairs other than to wank apparently (and also vape and he drinks at the weekend)I feel like he’s gone off me since I’ve had our baby . We don’t do anything together but I just put it down to lockdown and having kids
Honestly I’m sick of trying to get him to show me any sort of attention or affection.What is the point in only me trying ,I don’t have the time or energy yet I still try and get nothing on returnLockdown and kids is tough going. You’ve told him that the mess is annoying you so he should have the respect to try a bit harder. Hope things get better for you,
Have you told him you’re feeling like this? Sounds like he’s not making any effort which is poor on his part anyway but especially when you have a new baby - he should be pulling his weight and supporting you!Honestly I’m sick of trying to get him to show me any sort of attention or affection.What is the point in only me trying ,I don’t have the time or energy yet I still try and get nothing on return
Well I’ve just gone downstairs after waiting 45 min to come up to bed to watch tv together and he’s asleep on the couch .I just asked if he actually wanted to spend time with me and he didn’t say anything .He’s now come to bed and completely ignored me and gone to sleep so I guess the talking won’t be happening tonightHave you told him you’re feeling like this? Sounds like he’s not making any effort which is poor on his part anyway but especially when you have a new baby - he should be pulling his weight and supporting you!
Boys are ,only he’s 30 and has legs to walk himself somewhere more convenient to the family for his wankWhy are boys so god damn fucking disgusting ... god I want wait to move into sheltered accommodation with the girls later on in life.
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