Yes this is definitely one for me. I had a guy recently who was just asking too many questions about my kids the final straw was when he asked what colour they were. (Im black for context and he was white) I didnt respond so he messaged asking if I was offended. I said I wasnt offended just didnt see how it was relevant. I then logged off and went to bed He then sent me message after message of acting like he was the victim, he said I was making him out to be racist (I wasnt) I was treating him badly by now not responding (It was past midnight I was asleep) he know knew what kind of woman I was and he didnt like it etc I just blocked him in the morning.I think as a single parent, wanting to meet your child or get involved in that way too quickly. Someone I’d been speaking to on Tinder mentioned that he was missing being a hands on Dad (his son is 19 - my child is nearly 3) and just a few other comments made me feel a bit uncomfortable. We’re no longer talking
Yes to the lovebombing and the nutty exes too.
Omg didn’t know you knew my exDoesn’t stick to plans you’ve made together or turns up late
Gets funny about you meeting his family
Makes no effort to speak to your friends or family when around them
No manners. (Not having the decency to say please and thank you REALLY bothers me)
Makes no effort on birthdays and christmas
Picky eater... but relies too heavily on other people’s cooking or pre prepared food to eat
Obsessed with bets, gambling etc
No job or ambition
Obsession with gaming
Only speaks to you on his terms
I could probably add lots more!!
Tbh I don’t have fb and only have a Instagram to follow Celebrities/weight loss people. My husband doesn’t have either and a lot of my friends have recently deleted fb as it’s full of ads etc. But maybe that’s because we are mid 30sSaying they have no social media, at all. (dating website chats)
Spot on!Absolutely this. 100%, and not just a partner, but anyone. Friends. neighbours. colleagues too.
It's something that actually makes me really angry. There's no excuse for it. View attachment 140549View attachment 140549
Wow sounds like my current partnerDoesn’t stick to plans you’ve made together or turns up late
Gets funny about you meeting his family
Makes no effort to speak to your friends or family when around them
No manners. (Not having the decency to say please and thank you REALLY bothers me)
Makes no effort on birthdays and christmas
Picky eater... but relies too heavily on other people’s cooking or pre prepared food to eat
Obsessed with bets, gambling etc
No job or ambition
Obsession with gaming
Only speaks to you on his terms
I could probably add lots more!!
the following the half naked women on insta... that’s a no go for me. I always have a look at what kind of accounts they follow and if there’s any like that, I start to judge! My friends think I’m stupid and “it’s only Instagram”Calling his ex a psycho, or just generally not speaking respectfully of her (unless of course she genuinely was horrible but even then have some respect for the relationship you chose to be in).
Posessive/clingy behaviour, not wanting me to go out without them, constantly texting, asking who I’m with, when I’ll be back etc.
Not treating his parents with respect, expecting his mum to clean up after him like a child.
low key racist/sexist/homophobic comments.
Rude to service staff in restaurants or shops.
Following a bunch of half naked girls on Instagram.
Using snapchat (I’m 31, so doesn’t apply to younger guys but at my age...come on!)
Not knowing when to stop when it comes to alcohol or drugs, doing wreckless things like drink driving.
Btw these aren’t all from experience! Some are from friend’s relationships or just things that would be red flags for me in general!
We use cookies and similar technologies for the following purposes:
Do you accept cookies and these technologies?
We use cookies and similar technologies for the following purposes:
Do you accept cookies and these technologies?