What would you consider a "red flag" in a partner?

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Being secretive about what they're doing/who they're chatting to.

Lots of little lies which ultimately are unnecessary - why do it?
 
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Keeping in touch with an ex . unless you have kids i don't see why you need to be friends or talk to them .
A alternative perspective: I am friends with most of mine. If you've not ended on bad terms but have simply found you that didn't work as a couple, why not stay in touch? I think it's a sign of maturity. You liked them enough to get together with them, so as long as there was no blatant disrespect in the relationship, there's no reason to remove a good person from your life.
On the other hand, if the relationship/person was abusive or otherwise toxic, of course cut all ties and keep them out of your life.
 
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I’m fortunate to have been happily married for awhile but some of mine would be -

Being into gaming. I could not deal with being with a man heavily into it. Hard line for me and would be the biggest turn off.

Overbearing mothers. Being useless around the house/in the kitchen is usually a sign of a mollycoddled son. Avoid.

Game playing in the relationship - deliberately holding off on replying to messages, playing hard to get, etc.

Having a female ‘best friend’... usually a recipe for disaster too.
 
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