Yes hope everyone one has a good one xxHappy Christmas Tatlers
Yes hope everyone one has a good one xxHappy Christmas Tatlers
i'm sorry i know this is not a thread to give advice and it's not my place to comment, but i've been reading your last couple of posts and i am sure you don't deserve this kind of treatment!! you should confront him. sending lots of loveGot home from work about 1 should of been 12.15 (short staffed and busiest night of year ) . Put the presents under the tree partner left if for me to do even though said he would. Could of cried with state of kitchen after him preparing Xmas Dinner early. Partner sleeping in spare room and stepdaughter sleep in our bed for some reason got in her bed found out why she had weed the bed took her pj bottoms off and found nearest empty bed. Put stocking on door and shared with her wasnt going to wake mardy arse. Got a crying little girl at 6.30 saying santa probably didn't come because she weed bed didn't notice stocking. Got her to go wake daddy up all got in bed opening stocking loved everything but soon tossed aside. Went downstairs tossed aside presents like nothing then helped me open mine from her and daddy what I wrapped myself lol. Played with the presents watched grinch, pampered her in Bath and painted nails till dinner was ready. One thing my partner is good at and its dinners pulled loads of crackers and party popper had a dance and pudding. Partner takes daughter back to mothers. No word from him since 2 and hasn't really spoke to me since yesterday mornings arguement apart from playing games. I tidy up and cracked open my Christmas rum now its Christmas lol
You sound like a lovely person who goes out of your way to make people happy. There comes a time when you have to put yourself first.Decided my relationship is well and truly over even though it will be a trainwreck breaking up but I've had enough 2021 is coming that its freedom year don't care if lose deposit on house or relationship with stepdaughter years of what I've got to come is really not worth what I'm having now. Told him to cancel holiday and I've looked into selling house
Today has definitely been draining but my dear friend showed me the pattern and this time I really can't ignore itYou sound like a lovely person who goes out of your way to make people happy. There comes a time when you have to put yourself first.
You have to do what’s best for you. Sending lots of love xxDecided my relationship is well and truly over even though it will be a trainwreck breaking up but I've had enough 2021 is coming that its freedom year don't care if lose deposit on house or relationship with stepdaughter years of what I've got to come is really not worth what I'm having now. Told him to cancel holiday and I've looked into selling house