I'm made up for you - that's wonderful news!OMG!! OMG!!
The best thing ever happened today. I am in shock. Absolute shock.
My husband works in from work at 4.55 at 5pm his phone rang. The council offering us a new property. Totally out of the blue, we've never bid on this house. It's like fate. We can't get a look inside yet as the council are working on it but we took a walk around (it's minutes from where we are now) and guys it's beautifulI have fallen in love. It's my forever home.
Seperate dining room, upstairs bathroom. Both of which we don't have here. This house is lovely but it's small and in 10 yrs time I'm going to have a 15,16 and 17yr old inhabiting the place
And the garden is HUGE.
I'm so happy right now.
I want to show you a pic of the house but not sure if i can
@AnderbeauJohnson Sounds like you had a lovely and productive dayI'm made up for you - that's wonderful news!
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Today has been a good day overall. Still had moments of sadness about things from yesterday but nowhere near as devastated as I was. I promised you guys that I'd try to believe in my capabilities more and kick myself into gear and today has been my most productive day, probably all year.
Managed to focus really well at work. Still drifted a bit and things could be faster but much better than it has been. Had a nice chat about the footy.
After work went for a two hour walk. I completed 13 whole new streets on City Strides (and progressed a bunch more). My knees/ankles/feet are killing but it took them longer to hurt this time so I think they're getting a bit more used to walking.
Got back and still had a bunch of energy so spent 90 minutes cleaning/sorting - I've tidied (generally), put my winter clothes away, hoovered, dusted and scrubbed the walls and the place is back to landlord standard so I'm buzzing. Still got some more stuff I want to do but that can wait.
Food wise I haven't had tea yet (only just stopped) but will have had three proper meals today, ended up in a deficit and had five servings of fruit/veg (okay... technically only three types but five servings worth).
Now I will eat tea and do some gaming - I started Stardew Valley at lunch because everyone raves about it. I'm confused by it but I'm also intrigued.
I love it, it helps me to not get bored by just walking the same route round the estate day after day and I keep discovering random little things I never knew about this city - today I discovered a small wood that I had no idea was within walking distance.@AnderbeauJohnson Sounds like you had a lovely and productive dayI keep hearing people talking about City Strides recently - I'm tempted to download it but fear I might get a bit obsessed with trying to colour/fill it all in.
Your wedding planning?! You're soo good at itthank you for the well wishes as always
i forgot to add that i decided today that i will quit my job after this season is done (that would be november). unless there is some big change during the season, i have to do it. it's only bringing me negative things... no one even cares that i'm ill, they are just giving me more stressful and overwhelming things to deal with. i'm so done with the whole passive aggressive show!
aww thank youYour wedding planning?! You're soo good at it
thank you!@bolimepipi I think a change of jobs sounds like it can only be a positive thing for you! A job just really isn't worth the damage to your mental health and wellbeingI hope you find the right thing for you!
I'm sorry they're treating you so poorly, that's awful. Are there any other companies that do wedding (or event) planning nearby you could put feelers out for?aww thank youi do want to give it another chance with this season, plus i would never just leave my couples before their wedding! but unless some things change on the inside of the company it's just not good for me
there are! but it's a small city so i wouldn't do it in advance because it would get to my boss within a day probablyI'm sorry they're treating you so poorly, that's awful. Are there any other companies that do wedding (or event) planning nearby you could put feelers out for?
If we’ve learnt anything from this disaster of a year, it’s that life is too short, mental health is fragile and to put yourself first. Lots of love as it’s never an easy decision to make xxaww thank youi do want to give it another chance with this season, plus i would never just leave my couples before their wedding! but unless some things change on the inside of the company it's just not good for me
thank you!it's really impacting me a lot, but it could also be covid, wfh and things like that. my boss is also very stressed but she's not providing me with any help or assurance. we'll see if some actual weddings this summer will change this!
Unfortunately not yet. Our next step is mediation with the venue, sounds fun!@under the ivy @OutrageouslyScarlet thank you for the support!aw it's so cute that you worried about me
@nbt for you, alwaysi swear i think of your wedding venue at least once a week!! any progress on that front?
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