I totally agree, Im in no way shaming her just highlighting everybody has struggles that people dont get to see. As you say she may just not want kids and thats ok.. I hate when people have to explain themselves for just deciding they dont want kids. And then as someone has a baby its “when are you having another?” NEVER! Lol x
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I can remember clearly a few years after I got married, my then husbands single, childless aunt asked us when we were having children. I was outraged at such a question ..... And even moreso when I stated we had no plans to & that was a conscious decision & her next question was why did you get married then
Seriously ????
We've since separated and while we're still good friends I'm actually glad there were no children involved. We made the decision not to have children and it was & remains the absolutely right one for us.
Her face needs a good scrub!It looks like her face has not been washed properly since Friday' full face of make up
And she is back to speaking rit about food, thought she didnt eat processed food ever, I am sure that bread for her soldiers this morning she didn't bake herself.
I wasn’t shaming her regarding her not having kids. I was just saying that she brings the subject up quite often and gets really defensive/sarcastic in her responses to it. She chooses what she puts out online so I just dunno why she mentions it at all? I know loads of people who have chosen not to have children and I know lots of people who unfortunately aren’t able to who want kids - absolutely no shame or shade being thrown here towards anyone. It was a simple observation of the content that she shares 
Yes I don't believe anyone was shaming her at all, she chooses to publicly and very defensively answer questions about having kids, which why answer if you don't want to, she has also brought it up herself by saying this is why I won't have kids, I can't remember what it was in relation to, she chooses to share what she shares and yes it will lead to speculation but no more so than the amount she spends, the reno and wonder of where all the money comes from. One thing is pretty obvious fron her stories is she is one very lonely person and for quite a while she is living her life for instragram, for likes, for comments, for validation, for sympathy, hence always mentioning Mia. I see a lonely lonely woman who it just goes to show money cannot by happiness, there is a void there and I think it is more not having a good solid close friend, one she can go out with even for a walk, it is still allowed in Aberdeen, OK it is maybe her choice not to with Covid still out there but there is still a phone, I don't see a lot of people but friends are at the end of the phone for a catch up, she appears to see no one but her nail tech and hairdresserI wasn’t shaming her regarding her not having kids. I was just saying that she brings the subject up quite often and gets really defensive/sarcastic in her responses to it. She chooses what she puts out online so I just dunno why she mentions it at all? I know loads of people who have chosen not to have children and I know lots of people who unfortunately aren’t able to who want kids - absolutely no shame or shade being thrown here towards anyone. It was a simple observation of the content that she shares
I totally agree my partner and I don't want children and there is no reason behind it, we are just not children people. We can barely look after ourselves. I think there is just so much expectation on couples to have children and if you don't then there is something wrong, no, each to their own. Society needs to stop the judgement.
That sounds harsh but it is something I feel needs to be understood, not everyone wants children, please respect their wishes without judgement.
agree.
I don’t care if she doesn’t want kids or whatever - not my business. It’s just the fact that she brings it up a lot and then is always pretty derogatory/sarcastic about the whole subject, so I just don’t really know why she bothers to bring it up? She acts like the notion of having a child is the most ridiculous thing you could ever ask her - but still brings it up/makes sarcy comments.
2 months on and still the Mia posts,all she is doing is torturing herself and am not getting why she would post private messages from people about her cat, except to get constant sympathy, I am sorry but "can be more painful than loosing a family member"!! I know it was her pet and she clearly loved it but come on, someone in her family needs to step in and say enough is enough
Marko wants another cat and whilst it's won't replace Mia, meme, tooty bum, miss sassy pants, baby darlin, stop the attention seeking sympathy
Marko wants another cat and whilst it's won't replace Mia, meme, tooty bum, miss sassy pants, baby darlin, stop the attention seeking sympathy
this carry on over a cat dying is utterly ridiculous. It was a cat. They die. It’s sad but get a hold of yourself and grow up!!!!!
Exactly
My nan died on Friday and I had the weekend to be sad but back to work and school yesterday as normal
Don’t get me wrong I’m obviously still very sad four days on and it hurts immensely
I’m not going on a trip to Italy or a stay in a fancy hotel to get over it I’m getting on as I have too!!
She really doesn’t seem right at the moment.
she’s just said on stories that she’s spent the last 3 or 4 days crying in her bed over the dead cat. Come on, that is not normal!!!!!!!! I’ve lost family members (actual humans) and I’ve not taken to my bed to cry for the best part of a week. I honestly think she needs to seek professional help, there’s clearly way more going on with her than just the cat dying.
she’s just said on stories that she’s spent the last 3 or 4 days crying in her bed over the dead cat. Come on, that is not normal!!!!!!!! I’ve lost family members (actual humans) and I’ve not taken to my bed to cry for the best part of a week. I honestly think she needs to seek professional help, there’s clearly way more going on with her than just the cat dying.
That make up looks so drag queen today!
Less is more Nicki!
Less is more Nicki!
I don't understand why you'd put a full face of make up on just to do jobs around the house. Maybe I'm just a slob?
No I’m with you!I don't understand why you'd put a full face of make up on just to do jobs around the house. Maybe I'm just a slob?
My face hasn’t seen or felt make up for weeks
And it’s also so good to just let skin breathe
I find it a chore putting it on then I feel I’m taking it off as soon as it gets dark to get ready for the night so I feel like there is just no point with how quick the days are going and how dark it gets!
Don’t get me wrong I can’t wait to get dolled up and feel amazing and go out when we can again x
Once again so many stories for some basic looking vases 
Probably isn’t eating enough, she’s been on those drinks for a while now
theres a version with caffeine and a decaf version. She’s probably taking the decaf version in the afternoon. The caffeine in the other version is only as much as you’d get in a normal coffee anyway so wouldn’t think it was that. I think she’s needing to go to the doctor abs get some anti depressants personally.Surely all the caffeine in those god awful drinks is why she can’t sleep properly or have I got it wrong, I’m sure she said they have caffeine in
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