Hello, I'm joining the thread. I've been paying attention to my meals since January now, I've lost about 8lbs and it's going alright. Last week I was a bit lost, ended up having a big packet of crisps after a tit week, and some cake too.
My mum does this with the best of intentions but I wish she wouldn't anyway. She went to the patisserie and bought a few things that she knows I like. She knows I don't want to keep cakes and junk food around yet she still brings me double portions of my favourite cake when she drops by the patisserie herself. It's really hard to be firm with her, as she gets offended/gets her feelings hurt by literally everything. Keeping the pastries until they go off seems like such a waste, but they're currently waiting in my fridge. Good news is that I don't really feel like eating them unless I have a craving. Yogurt and fruits seem to do the trick. Acter I indulged last week, I had a headache for two days afterwards, I definitely didn't feel great. I just wish I could set clear boundaries without people making it about themselves.
My mum does this with the best of intentions but I wish she wouldn't anyway. She went to the patisserie and bought a few things that she knows I like. She knows I don't want to keep cakes and junk food around yet she still brings me double portions of my favourite cake when she drops by the patisserie herself. It's really hard to be firm with her, as she gets offended/gets her feelings hurt by literally everything. Keeping the pastries until they go off seems like such a waste, but they're currently waiting in my fridge. Good news is that I don't really feel like eating them unless I have a craving. Yogurt and fruits seem to do the trick. Acter I indulged last week, I had a headache for two days afterwards, I definitely didn't feel great. I just wish I could set clear boundaries without people making it about themselves.