As a woman who is living and loving a man for 5 years who has two children both living away from him like Brian and vogue when they were together ( we in Ireland they are in oz) I will say this …. I do not expect his children to love me or even like me and it’s vice Versa. We love one person … him.. we are not obliged to love/like each other just to respect the person we love and their love for each party … thank you for coming to my Ted talk supported by my therapistBut Vogue was with him a good few years and married to him. She knew how he was treating his kids at the time too