Just saying the age old argument if she was the father nobody be saying anything
plenty of parents have to leave their kids for work for periods of time or have to travel for work.
It isn’t a gender thing - if Spencer was visibly absent half the week I’d make the same comment about him too.
I think Spencer came along when Vogue was pushing mid-30s with a career that was slowing down, and it suited her very well to marry into that affluent circle and allowed her to have a family quickly. Does Spencer now have a wandering eye because Vogue is often not there, or is Vogue rarely there because she doesn’t much care for Spencer? I’m sure she’s a very excellent and present mum when she’s there but she does miss a lot, and if you miss the early years, you don’t get them back. For what - to feed her ego through onstage applause from strangers?
It was quite a snub to miss Jamie’s wedding, planned far in advance, for a podcast recording that I’m sure didn’t need to be on that day given forward planning. I don’t think she cares for that friendship group, which is fair enough, and maybe there is more to it, but it maybe indicates separate lives behind the scenes.